Why are the older generation reluctant to divorce even if their marriage encounters problems?

In marriage, why can't so many women stop in time? Just like the most common thing in life, everyone is talking about his misfortune and how miserable he is. However, once they really talk about divorce, they always have various reasons why they can't leave.

Everyone understands the truth, but small emotions are hard to control. In fact, they know the stakes better than anyone else, but things didn't happen to them, and they couldn't understand the difficulties and scruples of the parties. So what are these women worried about?

Why are some women afraid of divorce?

First, I am not afraid, but reluctant to give up my efforts for many years. Accurately speaking, it's not that she can't let go of this man who has been in love for many years, but that she can't let go of her years of efforts. In general, most women devote their most precious youth to their families. For that family, they worked hard for many years, and one day they suddenly gave up, which means giving up all their previous efforts and all their sacrifices were in vain.

That kind of despair and unwillingness is beyond ordinary people's understanding. As a result, they will become more and more extreme, more and more horrible, and even be directly eroded by their own inner obsession, like a "madman."

Second, it was not lost to marriage, but to the piece of meat that fell from me. Many women who can read this article should have experienced the pain of weaning their children. Some people say that from the moment the child is weaned, it means that she and her mother are drifting away, but in a woman's heart, at any time, it is a piece of meat that falls from her body and can't be given up for life.

No matter how old the child is, no matter how successful the child is. Divorce is a real problem. Most women would rather suffer by themselves than their children.

Third, perhaps, women who don't want a divorce are still dreaming. Fantasize about what? Imagine that a man who has been in love for many years suddenly becomes better? Waiting is a long and painful process. Maybe they all know that they live in their own fantasy world, but they just don't have the courage to face the facts and reality. It can be said that this is a kind of self-comfort, and it can also be said that this is a kind of self-deception.

After all, years of feelings will not dissipate in an instant, but there is no doubt that when she left, it must be because she was completely desperate for that man and that family.

Fourth, I have no financial resources, so I have no confidence to face divorce. As mentioned earlier, divorce is a very realistic problem. Since it is a real problem, it must involve money. Just like someone told me before, after being a full-time wife for so many years, I really can't imagine what I can do after divorce. Because I seem to know nothing but washing and cooking.

Habit is a terrible thing. Although everything is difficult at the beginning, few people really have the courage to pursue their inner thoughts when things really happen to them.

Fifth, the problem of face is also to prevent parents from worrying about themselves. Although the times have improved, in the eyes of many older generations, divorce is still a very shameful thing. They are afraid of outside comments and dare not imagine how to face criticism from others. Moreover, they are even less willing to let their elderly parents continue to worry about themselves. After all, they are old.

Therefore, whether they are happy or not, they always pretend to be the happiest in front of their parents. Perhaps, they don't know whether they are doing it right or wrong.

Why do some women, despite their deep misfortune, never want to divorce? In fact, these five reasons are the most common. How can I put it? After all, divorce is not the best solution to the problem. If you can't realize what's wrong with your marriage, even divorce is meaningless.

In other words, divorce is just an escape from difficulties and an escape. It is really irresponsible to treat marriage with a casual attitude and give up casually.

There is another saying, if you want to give it to a man, don't bully a woman's generosity. In this world, no one can't live without anyone. All people don't leave for a reason, and all people leave for a reason. A person's good and love can't be the capital of the other party by hook or by crook at any time.