Zi Juan tested Baoyu's true feelings and the hearts of the world.

The first part tells the story of Zijuan's adventure of trying Baoyu for Daiyu's lifelong event. She told Baoyu that it was reasonable for Miss Lin to return to Suzhou next year, and Baoyu believed her. As a result, Baoyu almost died.

People are stupid when their eyes are straight, and they don't feel pain when they are pinched. Even Mammy Li said it was "useless". It was not until xiren brought nightingale that Baoyu cried when he saw nightingale. Baoyu clung to nightingale. "I'm taking it away," he said.

Baoyu held nightingale to keep Daiyu. Knowing that Zijuan was only joking, he still refused to let Zijuan go, saying only that she would go back to Suzhou. Mrs. Jia and Mrs. Wang had no choice but to order Zijuan to guard Baoyu and Amber to wait on Daiyu.

The doctor too much came to see Baoyu and said that Baoyu's illness was a sudden pain and ecstasy. Didn't Baoyu hear that Daiyu was leaving because he was in such a hurry? This shows how deep Baoyu has feelings for Daiyu.

How beautiful love is when it happens and how painful it is when it is lost. If you lose Daiyu, this kind of pain is unbearable for Baoyu.

Zi Juan tested Baoyu's affection and his true feelings for Daiyu. At the same time, the feelings of Baoyu and Daiyu are made public and clear, so that everyone in the Jia family can understand that Baoyu and Daiyu grew up together as childhood friends. They knew each other and were inseparable, and there was a situation of "alienating one pair and forcing the other to die".

Bao Dai's love, from the 32nd confession to her heart, has been in the stage of steady development. When Daiyu knew what Baoyu was thinking, she was really relieved, so Baodai and her husband seldom quarreled. However, Daiyu's parents died, and no one cared about her marriage. The grandmother never mentioned their marriage.

Daiyu is worried, and Zijuan is more worried about Daiyu. Zi Juan witnessed the sincere and beautiful love between Baoyu and Daiyu. She hopes that Daiyu will have a good home, and she also sympathizes with Daiyu's parents' death, without the loneliness of her brothers and sisters.

"I'm really a girl. I've been worried about you all these years. Without parents and brothers, who knows the bitterness and heat? It is important for the old lady to understand this difficult season and make a big deal before it is too late. " As the saying goes,' the old man is chilly in spring and crisp in autumn'. If the old lady is lucky for a while, it will be over by then, but I'm afraid I'll be delayed and dissatisfied.

Although Zijuan sincerely supports Baodai's love and worries about Daiyu, she is just a humble little maid. What can she do? She has been worried for many years, and I'm afraid she has been trying to think for many years.

Looking closely, it is clear that only the old lady in the Jia family is really worried about Daiyu, and the old lady is the only strength that Daiyu can rely on. But as the days passed, Daiyu grew older and older, and the old lady never mentioned their marriage again. Fine also understands that waiting is extremely risky, because there are many uncertainties in the old man's body. Once the old lady is in good health, Daiyu will lose her dependence, and then Daiyu's marriage will certainly not be satisfactory.

After careful consideration, the only way is to make Baoyu's true feelings for Daiyu clear and open, so that the old lady, his wife and others can see it clearly. This is tantamount to declaring to the old lady, putting pressure on her and reminding her: Baoyu can't live without Daiyu, so why not make a marriage for them?

The purpose of Zijuan's emotional exploration of Baoyu is to help Daiyu achieve great things while the old lady is tough and understanding.

Then, in the face of Baoyu's true feelings for Daiyu, how do people treat and deal with it?

02

Let's look at Jia Mu first. The nightingale nearly killed Baoyu, who is the darling of the old lady. Did the old lady punish nightingale? The eighth time, because he didn't serve Baoyu well, Baoyu was angry and broke the cup. Grandmother Jia found out and kicked her out. What should Jia do when Zijuan is in such a big trouble?

Grandmother Jia doesn't punish nightingale, let alone blame nightingale. She just said quietly, "I think it's important. It turned out to be a joke. " "You will always be the smartest child, you know he has a slow root. Why did you coax him for no reason? "

Jia's attitude towards Zijuan and what he said to Zijuan are worth pondering. In fact, Jia's attitude towards Zijuan is the attitude towards Daiyu. If Jia Jia scolds or punishes Zi Juan, it will be over, and there is no hope for Mu Shi Meng Qian. If Lady Jia scolds or punishes Zijuan, Daiyu can't stand it.

Grandmother Jia didn't scold Zijuan, but called Zijuan "you child", saying that Zijuan was the cleverest. Zijuan was originally the maid of the old lady, so the old lady knew Zijuan very well, and it was because of her cleverness that she gave it to Daiyu. Grandmother Jia's love for Zijuan is her love for Daiyu. In fact, this is also a kind of protection for Daiyu, and everyone is watching. If Mrs. Jia scolds or punishes Zijuan, then in this Jia family where everyone is "rich in heart and decent in eyes", Daiyu is even more bullied by others.

Since then, Lady Jia has personally visited Daiyu and given her one or two bird's nests every day, regardless of whether the medicine is expensive or not. Back to the fifty-seventh time, I wrote that Xueyan went to her husband's house to get ginseng. It can be seen that Mrs. Jia cares and cares for Daiyu.

However, the first sentence Jia said to Zijuan was also crucial. "I thought it was something important, so I made a joke." Jia mu downplayed it. She didn't think of Baodai's marriage because Baoyu was worried when he heard that Daiyu had returned to Suzhou. Or she thought of it but deliberately didn't mention it. Although she wanted to promote Baodai's marriage before (as can be seen from the details of Wang Xifeng's jokes about drinking tea), there are multiple considerations about Baoyu's marriage now, and the pros and cons must be weighed. So deliberately downplay things.

Look at the reaction of Xue's mother and daughter. As soon as Aunt Xue entered the Jia family, she told Mrs. Wang about the plan of "golden wedding". For Aunt Xue, who has been planning a "golden wedding", now she sees that Baoyu is almost inseparable from Daiyu, but she deliberately lies with her eyes open, making the feelings between Baodai and Daiyu extremely light and ordinary.

Baoyu is sincere, but Miss Lin was born as a child. "。 His two sisters have grown up so much that they are different from the other sisters. "Now it's hot enough to call a person to, don't say he is a sincere silly child, even a hard-hearted adult will be sad. "

Say such a thing, you can see how cold this man's heart is.

Zi Juan tested Baoyu's love words, which can be said to have pushed Baodai's marriage to the forefront, but the grandmother kept her mouth shut about their marriage. According to ancient times, they are not young, and it is time to talk about marriage. Xiangyun, younger than Daiyu, was married, and then Xing Xiuyan married Xue Pan. Grandmother Jia said happily about Mrs. Xing's engagement, not mentioning the marriage between Baoyu and Daiyu.

At this point, I'm afraid the grandmother has multiple considerations. Baoyu's marriage is related to the future development of the whole family, which is no small matter. If Daiyu is in good health, marrying Baodai can relieve her worries and worries about Daiyu. They are all excellent and know the root of the matter. Jia must have had this idea before.

However, Daiyu's poor health, coupled with the rumors of "good marriage", increased the grandmother's hesitation. The Jia family's situation is not as good as before, but now it is more out and less in. Will Jia consider improving Jia's situation through family marriage? When Xing Xiuyan got engaged to Xue Pan, Mrs. Xing thought, "The Xue family has a good foundation, and now they are rich, and Xue Pan has a good life." And answer quickly. Will Lady Jia also consider "a good marriage" because "the Xue family has a good foundation, and now she is rich, Baochai has a good family background, good personality and good health"?

Therefore, Jia's attitude is contradictory. It is true that she loves Daiyu. She invited a famous doctor to give Daiyu bird's nest, even more expensive medicine. In order to protect Daiyu, Zijuan sent the maid to Daiyu and made a mistake. In order to protect Daiyu, she will never scold or punish Zijuan. However, she will never disregard the interests of Jia's family for Daiyu. Regarding Baoyu's marriage, Jia Fu will never agree easily, and she will consider it carefully. After all, she is both Daiyu's grandmother and Jia's old grandmother. She has to think more about Jia's future. She had to consider many factors, but she didn't take Baoyu's true feelings for Daiyu as an important factor.

03

By virtue of her intelligence, Zijuan has an accurate insight into marriage under feudal ethics. She reminded Dai jade like this:

"Childe prince, which one is not three rooms and five concubines, facing east today and west tomorrow? I only wanted an angel for three nights and five nights, but I also stayed behind my neck and even turned against my girl for my concubine. It would be better if someone in the bride's family is good. In this case, girls had better have an old lady. If she is gone, she will have to be bullied by others. Therefore, it is very important to make up your mind. " As a sensible girl, haven't you heard the saying' two thousand gold is easy to get, but a bosom friend is hard to find'? "

It can be seen that the only way to avoid being bullied in the future is to "gain a bosom friend" with the death of Daiyu's parents. But she has no parents to decide, and the only thing she can grasp is her feelings with Baoyu. Baoyu's affection for Daiyu is sincere and profound, but in the social environment at that time, this affection is weak, because Baoyu can't be the master.

When she was not free at that time, Baodai's love could only be carried out in secret. They have to face the constraints of family power and the intervention of Xue's mother and daughter.

After Zijuan tried Baoyu, Aunt Xue acted quickly and took "love words" as her obsession. That is, in the second half of Chapter 57, "Kindness and menstrual love comfort idiots".

Aunt Xue first said some affectionate words to Daiyu, which made Daiyu naively think that Aunt Xue was really kind, but she didn't know that she had ulterior motives, so she naively wanted to recognize Aunt Xue as a mother. Baochai even made a vulgar joke, saying that she didn't recognize her mother, and that her brother Xue Pan had made an agreement with Daiyu and would make up his mind when he got home.

Baochai went on joking and said, "Really, mom and the old lady begged her to be a wife. Isn't it better than watching it outside? "

Then, Aunt Xue said, "There are four corners".

"Even the daughter is happy, I'm afraid your brother spoiled her, so I told your brother. Forget the baby, and I will never give it to him. The other day, because the old lady wanted to tell Baoyu about your sister, she gave birth to another family, otherwise it would be a good kiss. A few days ago, Xing's daughter was appointed, and the old lady quipped,' I was going to talk about her family, but her family didn't get it, saying that we left alone.' Although it's a joke, it's interesting to think about it. I think although Baoqin has a home, although I have no one to give it to, I don't say a word. I think your brother's old lady loves him so much, and he is born this way. If you want to talk outside, you will never like it. Why don't you marry your sister Lin to him? Isn't that every corner? "

Well-founded, people believe it. "I have no one to give it to" sounds as if Aunt Xue had no idea of marrying Baochai to Baoyu at all. If Aunt Xue really wanted to fix Sister Lin on Baoyu, why didn't she say so in front of Grandmother Jia? Why should Daiyu be ashamed of gossiping in front of her?

Zijuan had been worried about Daiyu's marriage and asked Aunt Xue, "Why didn't you tell your aunt if she wanted to?"

Zi Juan's words are simply touchstones. You can tell whether Aunt Xue is sincere or false in one sentence.

Aunt Xue deliberately leaned on the old and sold the old, and was so ashamed that Zijuan was black and blue. She knew that Zijuan was a little girl and was ashamed to mention her future marriage. She also deliberately said, "You child, what's the hurry? You must urge your girl to get married. You should find a little son-in-law earlier. " Said the fine red in the face, turned to leave.

It can be seen that Aunt Xue is not sincere, but pitiful and naive. From then on, Daiyu regarded menstruation as a relative. Daiyu probably thought that their marriage was almost on the agenda after Zijuan tried Baoyu. The old lady probably can't be a matchmaker herself and needs a matchmaker like Aunt Xue.

It's really "hate menstruation and fake love, pity Daiyu is really infatuated"!

Fifty-eight times, Lady Jia and Lady Wang went to the funeral, and Aunt Xue moved into the Grand View Garden and lived in Daiyu Xiaoxiang Pavilion. Daiyu really regards Aunt Xue as her own mother and treats Aunt Xue like Baochai. Even Baochai is called Sister, and Baoqin is also called Sister, just like her compatriots.

The fifty-ninth time, Daiyu said to Yinger, "Go back and tell your sister that you don't have to come to greet your mother, and you dare not ask her to come and see me. After combing your hair, I will go to your place with my mother and even eat the food there. Everyone will be more lively. "

It can be seen that the lonely Daiyu is so eager for family, so affectionately calling "mother" and "sister". Others treat her better. Naive Daiyu gave her all her sincerity and enthusiasm because she didn't distinguish between true and false. I can't help crying when I think that these people are just pretending to coax Daiyu with humility.

Daiyu, who has no parents to decide, Baoyu's true feelings for her are her only support. But from fifty-eight to sixty-six, from when Aunt Xue lived in Xiaoxiang Pavilion to when Aunt Xue came home and left Xiaoxiang Pavilion, Baoyu only visited Daiyu once at the age of sixty-four. And Baoyu come to visit and greet every morning and evening, which is very different. Does this have anything to do with Aunt Xue living in Xiaoxiang Pavilion?

The Grand View Garden was originally a relatively free space away from parents, and it was in this relatively free space that Baodai's love quietly developed. But when Aunt Xue moved in and directly lived in Daiyu's Xiaoxiang Pavilion, the development space of Baodai's love was greatly reduced.

Zi Juan not only tested Baoyu's true feelings, but also tested the hearts of the world. Unfortunately, naive Daiyu could not understand the coldness and cunning of this heart.

What kind of human world is this? Baoyu's affection for Daiyu is so deep in front of feudal parents that it is simply inseparable. But they are so indifferent, and the most dismissive thing is the truth, pathetic!

Zi Juan's trial of Baoyu almost had a preview of Baodai's love tragedy.