"You can be poor, but you can't be illiterate." Is it wrong for the bride to carry the table with a bag at the wedding reception?

A person's birth cannot determine a person's character in this way. As the saying goes, mud sticks, ripples don't demon. Its own character is inseparable from the influence of the day after tomorrow. As proud as a poor family, a superior family may also be petty.

Although the two can't be completely equated, the family environment of birth has a great influence on a person as a whole. A person's temperament can always be reflected in a person's speech, and the first impression is often very important, so to understand a person, we must first understand it slowly through gestures.

Even if you feel poor, you should show due tolerance and not be easily eaten. This is a rule laid down by our ancestors. People are not poor, but many people deliberately show weakness because of their own environment, thinking that they can do whatever they want. In fact, this is completely wrong, and everyone will even treat everyone around them with colored glasses because of this practice.

Liu Qianting's background is not good. In fact, it is because of her own family conditions, and she felt very inferior when she grew up. As the eldest daughter of the family, she undertook the task of cooking for her younger brothers and sisters at a very young age. Her parents do farm work all the year round, and she has long been used to taking care of her children at home alone.

My father has a disabled foot and can't do heavy work, so his family is a little poor. She always gets laughed at by her classmates when she goes to school in patched clothes. At this time, the seeds of inferiority took root in her heart. She knows that her family is not better than others, so her grades can only be comforted, and she is among the best every time, which brings her some confidence.

Even though her academic performance was good, her family didn't show much support for her study. When she was in high school, her parents actually had the idea of letting her drop out of school to work. Fortunately, Qian Ting's class teacher earnestly advised them at home to relax her family, and Qian Ting was successfully admitted to high school.

Qian Ting knows that her high school life is not easy, so she studies harder. She wants to stay away from this family that doesn't value her. Three years of boarding in high school allowed her to concentrate on her studies, and she also achieved very good results. Finally, she was admitted to a key university in the college entrance examination.

Now everyone thinks that Qian Ting is a sparrow flying on a branch and becoming a phoenix, but only she knows the hardships. The college tuition is still a loan, and her parents let her work later and pay it back slowly. All these Qian Ting accepted according to the order, and she was powerless to resist. She knows that a good life still depends on herself.

After graduation, she successfully entered a foreign company. Qian Ting is fluent in spoken English, and her superiors attach great importance to her. She was promoted quickly in just half a year and won her love. She hesitated when being pursued by her boyfriend. Although I have a good impression on each other, I always feel that I am not worthy of each other.

Boyfriend is a department manager and the only child in the family. The conditions at home are very good. In the process of getting along with Qian Ting, he was gradually attracted by her tenacity and hard work. He didn't expect the little girl to have so much energy. He expressed his love without stint, and finally Qian Ting agreed to chase him.

The days when two self-motivated people are together are destined to be full of fighting spirit. The life of nine to five every day also makes Qian Ting full of happiness. With her own efforts, she quickly paid off the loan and her life with her boyfriend gradually got on the right track. She is old enough to talk about marriage.

When talking about her boyfriend at home, her mother's first reaction was to ask if there was any money at home, which made Qian Ting speechless. She knew that money was always in her mother's eyes and they couldn't communicate at all. Especially when discussing marriage, the lion in the family is asking for 200 thousand.

Although it is not astronomical, Qian Ting knows what her mother thinks. She wants to save money to marry her younger brother, and the local bride price money is generally not that much. Just as she was bargaining with her mother, her husband's family readily agreed, which made Qian Ting very moved. After the engagement ceremony, Qian Ting stepped into her husband's house.

Mom now knows that Qian Ting's husband's family is a rich man, happy to show off to everyone. It's no longer a family that can't hold its head when it meets anyone. When Qian Ting's wedding room was decorated, her mother took her relatives to visit every once in a while in order to save face for herself. The smug expression on her face was self-evident.

However, this brought Qian Ting not light on her face, but pressure and even disgust, because her mother's vanity also messed up her life. Some relatives even point fingers at their new houses, and sometimes they can always find some small lost things, needless to say, they must have been taken away by a relative.

This made Qian Ting complain, and she quickly stopped such behavior. Every time her mother answers the door, she locks the door and pretends not to be at home. The wedding plan is approaching, and Qian Ting is both happy and worried. She really can't imagine what moths her family will make at the wedding.

To this end, she deliberately warned her parents in advance: "The wedding must be decent and generous, and don't let others see jokes. We will all be a family in the future. Don't do something we shouldn't do, so I can have a good memory. We are poor but we can't be uneducated. " The family nodded in agreement, and now Qian Ting feels that everything is normal.

The expected wedding has finally arrived, and my husband's family is very generous. The layout of the wedding scene is also in accordance with Qian Ting's opinion, and everything is going on in an orderly way. However, when parents came into the scene one after another, riots began at the scene, and some naughty children even touched props, which made Qian Ting angry.

Even though the host said several times to be quiet, the family was still noisy here, and the smile on Qian Ting's face froze. This is not the most ridiculous. My parents' eyes went straight when the party started. I didn't expect my husband's family to be so generous. The first main course was abalone. Although few of us have eaten it, we all know that abalone is a valuable thing.

Now all living things are reflected one by one, and everyone in her husband's family is fine, and everyone is humble to each other, but the style of painting will soon change. Qian Ting here is still toasting the bridegroom, and the relatives of the bride's family there have begun to take out plastic bags from their pockets, and the abalone on the table is quickly sent into the packaging bag.

Everyone else in the room looked at each other, suddenly blindsided, but they knew that it was the relatives of the bride's family who were embarrassed to say it, perhaps because they saw everyone's acquiescence. "According to" quickly extended to the next table, and they scrambled to put abalone into their own packaging belts, but the food had not been served for five minutes.

Qian Ting quickly captured this detail, and she couldn't help it any longer. She thought she had warned them not to add any moths to herself, but now she is doing such a shameful thing in public.

The bride couldn't stand it any longer, and instigated these relatives to pay attention. I didn't expect to be scolded: you forgot your family when you got married. Don't forget that your mother gave birth to you and raised you. You baiwenhang. .

She didn't want to get angry on her big day, but she was so confident when she saw the greedy eyes of her family. In a rage, he lifted the table: "I told you to take it, so you haven't seen the world?" Go home for dinner. You all took it. What did the others eat? You did this on my wedding day. Isn't that that you don't care about me? ! "

Everyone was frightened to see the bride so angry. The bridesmaid quickly grabbed Qian Ting, and Qian Ting realized that she was rude. Looking at the mess on the ground, she realized that she had almost caused a disaster. Fortunately, the waiter cleaned up very neatly. Qian Ting rearranged her manners and began to toast at the dinner table, as if nothing had happened.

However, relatives have packed their bags and sat back in their original positions, and everyone can finally eat with peace of mind. Back to the wedding room, Qian Ting remembered her actions, angry and funny. The husbands on the side said, "I can't see you. You have such a big temper. You know you scared me at that time. "

Qian Ting also felt that her behavior at that time might be a bit extreme, but she was really angry. At her wedding, she always let the whole moth make her memories unhappy. It's great now. With her depravity, the eyes of her family changed, and she no longer acted recklessly, and the wedding ended successfully.

My own background is never a reason for my inferiority, but the fetters of others are enough to be my own obstacles. Once a person has the ability, the ability to speak will become car-scrapping. There is absolutely no need to kowtow to others, and don't stop things that hurt your own interests because of face.

One's vision determines one's future position. Short-sighted people only know their own temporary interests, and always do ridiculous things without considering others, and it is their own small pattern that leads to such a mediocre life in the future.

People need to respect each other, not only in daily life, not to mention in important occasions of life. Now that you have been reminded many times in advance, you should at least give people a face. If you continue to do inappropriate things, don't blame others for turning against you.

The reason why people often have bad feelings is because the days after that are still very long because of the small loss. No one knows what will happen to them. Do you really care about the little profit in front of you? Today is at the bottom, and it may be possible to climb to the top in the future. To gain the respect of others, it is often not by one's own money and status, but by one's good conduct and demeanor.