Is yuantong really good?

Because of work reasons, it is necessary to deal with government units frequently and cater to government leaders. As for me, I'm actually doing very badly in this respect. Belongs to a person who speaks more directly and is more introverted. At the beginning, I was working with another person in the unit. I really envy watching people talking and laughing at dinner, very much. The other party can always accurately grasp the pain points of the interviewee, endless topics and endless jokes. And I can only drink tea silently like a child, and occasionally echo a few words. Sometimes such a personality is hard to change, so I find it difficult to talk and laugh with others. It was not until this colleague left that I fully grasped the situation of dealing with government units before, and understood everyone's understanding of smoothness from another angle.

First of all, smoothness is a good thing, which can make both sides feel comfortable and not embarrassed. This is actually a manifestation of high emotional intelligence. But being too euphemistic often backfires. Take my colleague as an example. He used to feel familiar with the leaders of government units. Now many people have negative comments on him. It is said that wearing a mask in life makes people feel good in the distance, which is a false feeling. Although I don't know what happened, everything I said was heartfelt and sincere. Give people the feeling of being practical and trustworthy.

Actually, each of us has two faces. Wear a smiling face mask when you go out, and take off your mask when you go home to be yourself. In fact, everyone is very tired, but there is no way. I don't think it is necessary for everyone to live with a mask. In fact, everyone knows what everyone is like. You may have many versions in the eyes of others, and some versions may surprise you. There is no need to make yourself tired in order to please others. Not worth it.

Being sincere with talents is king. Give someone a rose and leave a fragrance. Treat others sincerely, and others will treat you warmly.