Does the old man love his grandson more or his grandson more?

In our family, on the surface it seems that my grandma loves her grandchildren more. Anyway, her attitude towards her grandchildren is different from ours. It is obvious that whenever her grandchildren come to her home, she will bring out all the delicious food and drink, and treat her grandchildren very gently and calmly. But she was not so polite to us. In my memory, grandma was a very powerful person, a bit fierce. He is very gentle to his grandchildren, but he is particularly aggressive towards us grandchildren.

Of course, the total number of her grandchildren is only 9, while the total number of her grandchildren is estimated to be almost 30. And he was hanging around in front of her every day, appearing here and then there. She was probably tired of seeing them. It's understandable that she doesn't have the heart to be gentle to us. We would complain when we were young, but as we grow up, we become sensible. In fact, there is no old man who doesn't want his descendants to prosper. There are so many children and grandchildren who are naturally loved in front of her, but she can't love them alone, and her grandchildren don't often come to her, so they are naturally more affectionate when they are rare.

It’s a shame that my grandma is so powerful, otherwise so many of my brothers from my father’s generation would have become bad people. As for our large group of her grandchildren, I guess everyone will imitate her and stop doing their jobs properly. . In the past, there were many children, but now, every household does not have that many children, usually only two or one. There is no reason why the elderly do not love them. For the elderly, the more children, the better. And some families have been married for many years without having any children, so whether it is a grandchild or a family grandchild, they all love each other equally, but they may express it in different ways.

My family has three siblings. I am the second oldest in the family. I was the first to get married and the first to have children. My mother and father used to love my daughter very much because they only had one granddaughter. My father always told me to save all the delicious food for my daughter. But things are different now. My younger brother also has a child. Now every time he comes home, my father will save all the delicious food for my brother and them. I think this is good. At least my sister-in-law will not think that my father is partial to us, so the family gets along very harmoniously. Regardless of their grandchildren, they are all very concerned about them. At least there are many times when they cannot drink a bowl of water evenly. But this time should be the time for us to love them. We can’t always worry about who loves us more or less.