How to treat boyfriend chatting with heterosexual friends?

She feels that she always cares about this kind of thing and seems stingy, but her boyfriend doesn't pay attention to it at all. She felt that she was not cared about at all and didn't know how to deal with the situation.

Before discussing this question, I want to talk to you about "Is there pure friendship between the opposite sex?" Although this topic is a cliche, it still appears repeatedly in various submitted love issues.

Many people say that there is no pure friendship between the opposite sex, which is a bit too absolute. The world has always been bisexual, and the word "friend" has never been limited to the same sex. Who stipulates that making friends should be based on the same sex? A friend of the opposite sex is a friend before the opposite sex.

So you can't play with friends of the opposite sex if you have a date? Not necessarily.

Face up to the needs of human friends, can women only be regarded as sex carriers? They also have their own emotions, their own ideas, their own highlights, and so do boys. Listen to me, communicating with the opposite sex on an equal footing can really enrich your thinking angle.

One situation may be reassuring, that is, the friend of the opposite sex is gay or lesbian, so there is basically no big problem.

Men and women of opposite sex orientation can also have friendship, but the way to get along lies in one degree.

I grew up straight and my parents have known each other for a long time. From small to large, the relationship can be said to be very good.

I don't usually talk very intimately all day. There is something on wechat. Occasionally, when the other person is sad or frustrated, he will also help analyze the problem and give some suggestions. If you are free, let's get together for dinner and chat. The high probability is that a group of people act together, and there are not many opportunities for two people to meet alone.

Even if you really don't take each other's gender seriously at ordinary times, once one party has an object, it will be different.

There is a tacit understanding between us, that is, when one party falls in love, the other party will automatically stay away or disappear and come out to play with the object.

This mode of getting along with each other, coupled with his critical eyes, has made us get along more harmoniously in our respective love processes, and we have never misunderstood each other because of our relationship. So much so that he played well with several of my predecessors, and one of them was still in contact with him.

This is an ideal state, not to say that you must be friends with your boyfriend's opposite sex friends, but there is no need to forbid him to associate with his opposite sex friends just because he has been in love, provided, of course, that he socializes within the normal range on the table.

But some of them take up each other's time in the name of friends of the opposite sex as an ambiguous excuse and an irresponsible excuse. In fact, one or both sides have some ideas in their hearts, but for various reasons, they have never broken this double window paper.

Back to the original private letter, the boy and the opposite sex friend may really have no problem, but he really has no sense of boundaries.

There is nothing wrong with socializing within the normal range. Any friend of the opposite sex who has some principles should consciously keep an appropriate distance after a friend falls in love and take the initiative to avoid suspicion. As a girlfriend, if you feel uncomfortable, they have crossed the line. You should bring it up and clearly express your attitude and bottom line.

You can also try to solve it from other angles, such as taking up your boyfriend's time, increasing interaction with your boyfriend and reducing the contact between your boyfriend and friends of the opposite sex. If the other person is still the same, maybe there is something wrong.

This problem may be between them or between you. In short, it doesn't bode well for this relationship.

If you are the one who has friends of the opposite sex, and the object is jealousy or dissatisfaction, don't think that Ta is narrow-minded.

The premise of continuing to associate with friends of the opposite sex must be not ambiguous. The distance to be kept should be measured by whether my other half will be unhappy or not, and don't ignore the feelings of the other half.

Most importantly, don't seek comfort from friends of the opposite sex as soon as you quarrel with your partner. Keeping this in mind and implementing it may avoid many misunderstandings.