"Your mother is so well dressed!" The 6-year-old son was laughed at by his classmates, and his mother's words made people sad. Why?

In a mother exchange group, I heard a second-born treasure mother named Wang vomit. It turns out that Ms. Wang's eldest son is 6 years old this year. When I went to pick up my son from school one day, Ms. Wang obviously found that her son was very depressed.

Under Ms. Wang's repeated inquiries, the son was very wronged and said, "Mom, will you dress up in the future?" Don't always come to our school in pajamas. Classmates say you are so corny. "

After listening to this, Ms. Wang was really mixed in her heart. She sighed and said, I was a delicate woman before I gave birth to my son. Even if I go out to the supermarket, I have to paint beautiful makeup. But after having a son, in order to take care of the children conveniently, let alone make up, I didn't even buy myself beautiful clothes. What's more, with Bauer, I'm busy taking care of my children at home every day and rushing to pick up Dabao. Naturally, I'm not in the mood to dress myself up, so how can I be comfortable?

I didn't expect myself to be very comfortable, but let my classmates laugh at my son!

How much influence do parents' clothes have on their children?

1. Parents usually dress appropriately and beautifully.

After children go to kindergarten, they have begun to consciously pay attention to their external image. Generally, they don't want to wear clothes that they don't think look good, no matter how expensive the price is or how good the material is.

These children who have begun to pay attention to image will also pay attention to the clothes of their parents. If your parents have always been decent and generous, and compared with other parents, they are also beautiful and temperament, which will naturally increase your child's self-confidence to a great extent.

2. Sloppy parents

If parents usually wear very untidy clothes when picking up their children from school, children will be laughed at by other students at school. In this way, children's hearts will be very sensitive and even lead to their inferiority.

Listening to too many classmates say that their parents are ugly, children will feel that their parents are particularly uncomfortable. Usually get along with classmates, children will always lift their heads and feel inferior.

3. Barely dressed parents

Some parents tend to be sexy and expose themselves in ordinary clothes. Even after picking up children from school, they always like to wear miniskirts or low-cut dresses. Exposing parents' clothes too much will make other parents and children feel that such parents are indecent.

It is said that what kind of parents will have what kind of children, and I believe that children will also be implicated and considered indecent by other parents. In normal times, it is possible not to let your children associate with such classmates. The misunderstood child must be very wronged in his heart. If this continues for a long time, it will definitely affect their communication skills in the future.

In short, parents' clothes can greatly affect children's character discovery. It is suggested that parents should not only pay attention to their external image, but also give their children more education to make them become more connotative people.