Families with younger sisters-in-law are pregnant at the same time and need to be taken care of. What should the mother-in-law do?

0 1 take money: this is the best way to solve the problem. Hire a new moon in the second month and a nanny in the second month. As long as the money is in place, the daughter-in-law will never find fault with you. Unfortunately, there are not many such mother-in-law!

Person: Since the two daughters-in-law are pregnant together, and their birth dates are similar, we should find the same hospital, take care of them at the mother-in-law's house after discharge, and gather together seven aunts and eight aunts at home to see if we can get together a few. A month's care for her mother-in-law soon passed!

Nobody cares: if the mother-in-law is old, in poor health and has no money, then nobody cares, and if you know, everyone knows, and I'm afraid your bowl of water is uneven, incompetent and mixed!

First, if you have money, use it to solve problems!

Look at the attitude of the two daughters-in-law. You are heartbroken here, and people may not want to use you at all. Which is better, mother-in-law or Yue Yue? Let me choose, I will definitely choose Yue Yue!

My mother-in-law takes care of you. She thinks you treat her as a free nanny, and you feel indebted to her, which is not conducive to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In the next month, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to solve, and the future is one thing. It is better to work hard to make money. Each daughter-in-law gives 20 thousand yuan, which is the money for hiring a new moon. The money was given. Whether it is used or not is your business. Don't say I don't care about you.

This is how the cleaning aunt downstairs in my house handles the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. After retirement, she came out to do cleaning. The retirement salary is more than 20 thousand a year, and she can earn 20 thousand a year by cleaning. She shared all her salary with her two daughters-in-law, and the wife's salary of more than 3,000 a month was the living expenses of the old couple. Don't underestimate this 20 thousand yuan, because the two daughters-in-law are willing to take care of the children at home and praise their mother-in-law-

Second, put away eccentricity. If you have no money, you will contribute. Take money if you don't want to contribute!

My aunt's family is two sons, and the younger son has been favored since childhood, so she is more inclined to the younger son in the matter of confinement. She felt that her youngest son didn't earn much and the conditions were not good. Daughter-in-law's home is far away, so it's right to help her youngest son. It is normal. The eldest daughter-in-law's mother-in-law lives nearby, so don't worry about her!

The eldest daughter-in-law disagreed. Isn't this prejudice? This is too obvious, the old aunt continued. Why should I care about you? Nobody took care of me when I was born. Everyone is a woman. Who hasn't been a mother? The couple are getting divorced before the baby is born!

It is a lie for a mother to say that she is not biased. Everyone knows who you like and who you don't like, but now that she is your daughter-in-law, you should make it clear. If you don't want to help the boss, just say so. Just break off the relationship in the future. Don't let yourself feel wronged, hypocritical and blocking people's hearts!

Later, at several family meetings, the result of discussion was that the old aunt helped the younger son to take care of the children and gave the eldest daughter-in-law 12 thousand a year, which was the hard work of the mother's family. In fact, it's not how much money she wants, but an attitude!

Conclusion: As a mother-in-law, don't leave yourself out. Your role has long changed. Now your son doesn't need your care and education. He has a small family. For the sake of family harmony and happiness, help him not to be ashamed. If he can't survive the divorce, it's your shame. Don't be afraid, even if it's two daughters-in-law. Obviously, the heart is full of meat, and the daughter-in-law can understand. Your worst fear is not to say it again.