Revisiting Crossing the Kanto, a humble but persistent drama, makes people feel distressed but not worthy of pity.

One.

After a lapse of 10 years, revisiting Go to the East gave me a different feeling than when I saw it. When watching this drama, I especially hope that Chuanwu can be with Xianer. I think Xiuer, who has been pestering Chuanwu for a long time, is a stumbling block, not only without dignity, but also hateful.

I can still watch it after many years, but I am full of love for Xiuer, but I still don't like her. I don't think she deserves pity. I can only say that all the results are caused by myself.

Xiuer's family is in Niufanggou, Yuanbao Town, and his father Han Laohai is also a big family. His family is very rich. Xiuer is the only daughter spoiled by her parents. Her parents are obedient to her, just as her father Lao Hai said, "You can eat anything you want except dragon liver and chicken viscera."

I think it is because of parents' doting that Xiuer's persistence in character is formed, which is manifested in her love for Chuanwu.

Originally, Xiuer was also a first-class girl in the local area, and not all men were worthy of it. Xiuer, who others can't get, falls in love with Chuanwu, a man who has no love for her.

So no matter how well she behaved, no matter how good she was, she couldn't change a smiling face of Wu.

Sa's performance confirms Yi Shu's famous saying:

Xiuer was very angry when she fawned on Chuan Wu, so her father gave her a smile, "Laughing until her wife peed her pants", but Chuan Wu was unmoved whether she cried or laughed. Sa cried, "What do you want me to do? I can't cry or laugh. " Can only say silly girl, he doesn't love you, what's the meaning of your crying and laughing to him?

Because Xiuer insisted on preaching martial arts, the father of his daughter forced the Zhujiajian family to submit with a bubble of water that might be related to whether the land of Zhujiajian was extinct.

Zhu Kaishan, the father of Chuanwu, really felt that Sa was good, but at the same time he resented Han Laohai's persecution and finally forced his son to accept Sa.

Chuanwu resisted and went on a hunger strike from home, but it was useless. Sa is still persistent and her father is still overbearing. So Chuanwu used a trick to deceive the world, pretending to promise first, putting Xiuer to sleep in the bridal chamber at night, and eloping with Xianer before dawn.

Chuan Wu left, leaving married people scattered in grass widow, unable to bear the blow. However, her subconscious is obsessed with martial arts. After she recovered, she ran back to her husband's house, still believing that Brother Chuanwu would come back.

Watching such a program, I think I can only blame her for being stupid and Han Laohai, a father who dotes on his daughter. Lao Hai only used his means to promote marriage, but did not make her happy.

It is also because of Lao Hai's love for her daughter that she goes further and further on the road of no return in this love.

With the instability of the situation, mutinous soldiers and bandits burned and looted, and the cattle-grazing ditch could not stay any longer, so Zhu Kaishan led his family to Qiqihar and Harbin and opened a Shandong restaurant.

Sa followed, but Sa reunited with Sichuan Wu began to make people feel distressed. No matter how active Xiuer is, Chuanwu said, "I have no feelings for women." Xiuer got the same sentence when she was tempted to preach martial arts in a Chinese bra. Seeing Xiuer crying alone on the quilt, she was really distressed and felt that Xiuer was too sad.

But I don't feel sorry for her, because it was the unrequited love from beginning to end, and her unrequited love also filled Chuanwu's heart with guilt. Persevering coquetry met Zhu Chuanwu, who was very devoted, and begged for a child, but she was also rejected.

The marriage between Xiuer and Chuanwu lasted 18 years. 18 years, Xiuer is still a big girl. Speaking of martial arts, it is really cruel. Because of his attitude, a woman's self-esteem and self-confidence were destroyed.

Xiuer's eldest sister-in-law laughed at her. "A woman who can't make a man tempted is still a woman?" Therefore, Xiuer, who entered the city, dared not speak in front of martial arts. She dared not say anything or ask anything. She saw an extra one on the swordsman epaulettes and asked the article, "What is that extra one?" The article said, "Why do you ask me? You have to ask him. " At this time, sa is not like that. When you are unmarried, you are the kind of Sa who can say whatever you want and express yourself boldly. She became passive towards Nuo Nuo.

Yes, a woman who is not loved by her husband, looking at her beloved eldest brother and sister-in-law, sister Chuan and Yushu, naturally feels half a head shorter than people.

Such a show really hurts people, but she is not worthy of pity, because she pushed herself to death.

Moreover, I can't hate Sichuan Wu if I feel distressed again. Anyone can blame his marriage with Caesar, but not Chuanwu. For the love of Satan, Chuanwu has never responded, without ambiguity or commitment. Even a smiling face, he has never given it. Everything is of my own making.

Moreover, Sa kidnapped Chuan Wu because she made him feel guilty. Because of his guilt, he was afraid to see Xiuer, so he missed his parents again. Chuanwu also went home because of the existence of Sa.

It's said that the barrier yarn for chasing men is here in Xiuer, across a mountain, so Xiuer didn't break it at 18. Fortunately, an adult Ichiro was waiting for her and proposed to her. Ichiro, who liked Xiuer since childhood, gave her a short-term happiness. Soon after Xiuer and Ichiro got married, Ichiro committed suicide. Although their days together are short, they are very happy.

Two.

Xiuer's love for martial arts is too humble, but it is not worthy of sympathy and pity, so she warns spoony women that love should not be a one-man show, but should convey mutual love. Don't blindly think that if you love him, he will love you. There are no such rules in this world.

Sa's love affair is so unfortunate because she has her own parents:

Xiuer, who loves martial arts, has no self at all. Until after the wedding, Chuanwu eloped with Xianer. Sa is still thinking about Sichuan Wu. "Brother Chuanwu is willing to run around. It costs a lot of money to wear shoes, and he can't go barefoot." So all she has to do is make shoes for Chuan Wu and then paralyze herself. "Brother Chuan Wu will come back."

Because of such a performance, she is destined to be a tragic character, a person who loves herself and loses herself. She is doomed to be unhappy. If she had woken up at that time, she wouldn't have suffered so much in the future.

Xiuer's father, Han Laohai, is a local, with a well-off family and consistent pride, which makes him feel that nothing is impossible in the local area. For the sake of his daughter's marriage, he played tricks and coerced the Zhujiajian family, but forgot that emotional matters really could not be forced, and underestimated the stubborn character of Shandong people, so he could only hurt his daughter in the end.

We say that the most difficult thing to control is people's psychology, and what Han Laohai wants to control is martial arts that his mother calls "living things", so it can only be a tragedy.

Speaking of Zhu Kaishan and his wife, they were relatively open-minded people at that time, but at the same time they kept their promises. Although they are optimistic about the marriage of Chuanwu and Xiuer, they are unwilling to preach Wu, and they didn't force it at first. However, at the critical moment when the crops were about to be harvested at home, they adopted their parents' arrangements for their son's marriage, but Chuan Wu was unwilling. Zhu Kaishan said: "Is the father in charge or the son in charge?" Zhu Kaishan was also tough. When his son went on a hunger strike, he didn't compromise at all. He used the way of "watering ducks" to preach martial arts and beg for mercy. After using both soft and hard means, he chose to deceive the world and eloped after the wedding, leaving Xiuer as a laughing stock.

I have to say that there are too few men like Chuanwu. If we meet Sam because he just doesn't like Sam, then Chuan Wu is too devoted to Xian Er.

As the article said to Xiuer, "No matter how he looks for a concubine outside, you are still a great grandmother." But Chuanwu is a special case. He fell in love with Xianer and had no feelings for other women.

What Sa later wanted was not to preach martial arts, but to have a child who preached martial arts. I think if Xiuer can have a child who teaches martial arts, she will feel happy, but this is not enough.

Three.

Xiuer has always had a unrequited love for martial arts. Speaking of unrequited love, it's actually not terrible, because falling in love with someone should be a beautiful thing, but unrequited love can only have two endings to answer.1; 2 is to put it down. Secret love is most afraid of not getting a response and can't let go. In the end, you can only suffer.

Love is beautiful, but it must be the collision of two hearts. In love, no matter how high the status and different conditions are, we should all be equal. You shouldn't humble yourself from the day you love, like Xiuer, but humble love is hard to produce beautiful flowers, even if it blooms, it can't bear sweet fruits.