In his forties, he just changed from a boss to an unemployed person. What should he do when he is confused?

I once read a little joke: at a university graduation ceremony, the headmaster of the school took out a piece of RMB 100 on the podium and asked the graduating college students, "Students, what is this?" The student said it was 100 yuan. The headmaster crumpled up the money and asked the students, what is this? Students also reply that this is 100 yuan. Then the headmaster threw the money on the ground, stepped on it with his foot and stamped a few feet. Then I picked it up and asked everyone, what is this? The answer is still 100 yuan. The headmaster finally said: "Students, you are about to enter the society, work hard alone, and experience the storm, but in any case, please be like this RMB, no matter what you have experienced, don't belittle yourself!" You are you! "I feel very enlightened. Face is not given by others, but earned by yourself. No matter what you do, as long as you don't steal or rob, it's not shameful to make money with your hands and mind. Resilience is the true character of a hero. The glory of the past has passed. Facing the reality, it is fundamental to live in the present. Integrating resources, learning with an open mind and finding a path that suits you will surely succeed.

Like you, I am older than you, 75 years old, from running a factory as a boss to failing and losing money.

There are many secular experiences in the middle, and three years have passed.

I have no education, no skills, no background, no funds, no debts, a son and a daughter-in-law who lost her family. Not bad. I didn't run.

Set a goal, get ready, and start from scratch.

After studying for a year, I can get started quickly because I have a business foundation.

Work from despair, learn from work, work from study, and work in the same direction as the goal.

Going in and out of the workplace and keeping a low profile is an ordinary employee, because past experience can make you grow rapidly.

I also come from 5000 yuan to 10000 yuan a month.

I have income, time to study, goals and plans. I am still very busy, adjusting and studying every day. When I am completely ready, I can start my own business again.

Doing business has to wait until the right time and place are right. Walking is always more than waiting for opportunities, and learning is always more than not learning. There are always more opportunities to have income than no income.

After working for two years, I found too many small opportunities, and there are still many businesses that can earn one or two thousand yuan a month, but that is not the goal.

So what you need to do at this time is to sleep and figure out what you want. What can you give up? What can you do to achieve your goal? I've figured it out. Let's do it now.

You have been a boss, and your mobility, execution ability, planning ability, strategy and goals should be relatively clear.

Accidentally fell down, stood up gracefully and moved on.

Stand up where you fell. In fact, in the current environment, entrepreneurial failure is a high probability thing, and success is a low probability thing. I have failed twice myself, and now I am on my way to the third time.

When I failed for the first time, I felt that life was a collapse. When I failed for the second time, I was indifferent. In fact, the so-called collapse, confusion, loss and so on. It's all emotional catharsis attached to yourself. The most important thing now is to find your own position, that is, what you are best at.

I believe I might say "I am good at business", but I am not good at it. If I was really good at it, my business wouldn't fail.

By good, I mean a skill that I am good at in business operation. For example, good at negotiation, or sales in a certain field, or research and development of a certain kind of products, or proficient in a certain management theory and successful practical experience, and so on.

Here, I suggest using post-it notes to write down everything you think you are good at, and then compare them with each other. At the same time, you need to modify the post-it notes. When I use this method, I have revised a skill for more than ten times. In this way, you can know yourself thoroughly. Of course, don't think it can be done in one day. It took me about a week to get to know myself.

When you know yourself clearly, you still have to put down your posture and choose a job or start a business. At this time, we must remember a sentence, "In this world, we often think that face is the most valuable, but in fact, the least valuable thing is our own face." The essence of keeping a low profile is to have the courage to compete with people who once thought they were inferior to themselves and win the competition.

In my opinion, the essence of working and starting a business is the same, both for making money, but the ways and risks are different. If you work, you can earn money now, but there is limited room for growth. If you start a business, your income now is very small, or even the other way around, but once you do it, your income will be 1 00000 times or even110000 times that of migrant workers. But if you want to start a business, you must first know yourself and have a clear understanding of yourself, and then choose low-cost entrepreneurial projects. You should make a comprehensive inspection of the project and do a good job in the day.

Here, I suggest you choose a job first, and don't feel that your income is low and you have no face. The key is to use your working time to think about the above problems and find good projects in order to make a comeback.

Put down the face, put down the glory and start from the beginning. We can't give up.

Take my uncle as an example. My uncle is 46 years old and now works as a driver in a bus company. I remember my uncle's family was quite rich. He often followed outsiders to do business, run construction sites and take projects, and earned some money in those years.

About 10 years, I followed a boss in Shanxi, and I was cheated of a lot of money and didn't want to come back. The boss in Shanxi owes more than 10 billion. I can't help it. I lost all the money I had accumulated over the years. My uncle sold all the houses and paid back other people's money.

But my uncle didn't give up. He rented a bigger shop in his hometown and started cooking, because my brother graduated at that time. That's what I learned. So I started catering.

In those two years, my uncle usually drove as a driver. Go to the store occasionally to help be friends. In those two years, my uncle has grown a lot. But at the same time, I also made some money, got back the cost in one year, and began to make profits in the second year. But for various reasons. The hotel has been transferred. My brother works outside. My uncle, keep driving his car.

People can't be smooth sailing. We will encounter setbacks and difficulties. Please don't give up your life. We have to support our wives and children. Please put aside the previous glories and start from the beginning. Put your face down.

I don't think you are confused, but you have a problem with your mentality. Face is not given by others, but earned by yourself. Whether you are working or starting a business, as long as you earn it by your own labor, there is nothing shameful.

Share an example of my hometown neighbor.

My hometown neighbors have been doing business outside for more than 90 years. At first, I carried a backpack and sold reamers everywhere. It should be these two words. I don't know what that is. After accumulating a certain amount of capital, I started to do leasing business, mainly renting and selling fasteners and steel pipes used in construction sites. Later, the business grew bigger and bigger, and a factory was opened. At its best, it is said that there are tens of millions of people.

The turning point is around 10. First of all, he was ill, had a heart attack and almost died in the toilet. Second, because I was sick, I couldn't take care of my business and was cheated by my partner. The family has changed from a boss worth tens of millions to a debt-ridden person. I have given up smoking for several years, but I have started smoking again. At the worst time, I went to my house to borrow a few hundred dollars as a gift.

After two or three years of depression, he started to do small business again. I have worked as a snack bar, car wash shop and auto parts tool, and either I don't make money or I lose money. Later, I studied marble decoration with my brother-in-law in Chengde. After studying, I opened a small factory myself. After several years of development, it is said that the annual net profit can reach1800,000.

Back to the question, you think you can't let go of a part-time job, perhaps because you think others will laugh at you. But this is all in your imagination. Even if someone does laugh at you, it will be boring after a long time. There is no shame in working. Shamefully, as a man, he can't afford to support his family. It is normal to start a business without direction. This project has not been investigated, but it has been worked out. Sometimes, when you do it, it develops.

It's a matter of success or failure. Life is heroic, but it's just starting all over again. * * * Encourage.

At the age of forty, he changed from a boss to an unemployed man. It is nothing more than climbing the mountain of life and sliding halfway up the mountain.

But it didn't slide down the hill. What else can I do? Get up and keep climbing. Take myself as an example.

When I graduated from college, it was 0 1. College students were quite popular at that time. But rejected the recruitment of companies such as Panasonic and General Motors. I came to a private enterprise to do foreign trade because it is easy to be a boss in this business.

When I first started working, I worked day and night, and I took the initiative to learn everything. Then in 2004, I pulled two clients and made it myself. You can earn more than10 million in the first year. But who knew that the United States stopped importing China textiles in 2006? Settle the payment and dismiss the employees, leaving 50 thousand yuan in hand.

I started trading stocks with 50 thousand yuan. In early 2007, 50,000 became more than 400,000. This money can pay the down payment of Shanghai 100 square house, but it is insatiable, borrowing money and adding leverage. After a few months, I owe hundreds of thousands.

So in 2008, I went to Hangzhou to learn Taobao, starting with customer service. Become a director in one year. After three years, it is of little value. However, Ali's anti-corruption is a disaster. I'm tired of having only 400 thousand left in my hand.

I came to Kunming from Shanghai and found a girlfriend. I gave her all my money, and as a result, she did business behind my back, not only losing 400 thousand. The credit card owes more than 400 thousand again. It took three years to start looking for a job again from the bottom, with a monthly salary of 3000 to 30000.

Then the internet turned cold. I lost my job again this time. I am 42 years old.

Now write the answer for you here. It shows that I started my own business while looking for a job.

Life is like this. Ups and downs. Unlucky people will have more ups and downs. With luck, there will be less ups and downs.

You have been the boss for decades. I don't need to teach you what to do and what to do.

The most shameful thing is that you can't afford to support your family. Everything else is fake. I can't let it go.

Graduated from university in 2005 and started his business at the end of 2005. ) In 2009, my first venture failed and I came back in 2002. It took me two years to successfully turn over and pay off my foreign debt. I have a slight surplus in this industry. At the end of 2008, I realized that I really didn't like this industry, but I just couldn't accept myself who failed in this industry, so selling the company became a push. Although many people around me don't understand that they have earned less temporarily (I don't have a car loan or a mortgage), they feel very fulfilled, have time to spend with their families and children, and have a lot of free time.

Entrepreneurship failure is not a problem, age is not a problem, and face is not a problem!

All the questions are whether your heart is still alive!

Answering this question with deep sympathy will inevitably lead to ups and downs in life. I am also a boss's experience of becoming an ordinary person. Actually, it's nothing. As long as I keep improving myself, my relatives around me will never leave, and everything is not a problem. Although I'm not the boss! But I quickly adapted to the living habits as an ordinary person, accumulated experience and learned more. Save your strength and prepare for a comeback. Although my business is not in debt, I have invested in a big future market, and now I can be said to be penniless. From the gorgeous figure before to an ordinary investor. This will be tested by time and investment wisdom. So it is also a huge pressure. Fortunately, there are relatives around to provide help and enlightenment. As long as it can bring happiness and carefree life to my relatives, what is my suffering? Life is like this, someone has to pay. Neither success nor failure is enough to be a hero. A good attitude is the first step to success, believe in yourself and strive to improve and expand yourself. Everything will be fine.

Can't make money and make friends; Can't make friends, can't earn experience; Can't earn experience, earn knowledge; Can't earn knowledge, earn character. All of the above have been earned, and it is impossible not to make money. You can make money. You will understand that it is more important to earn a sense of life. Don't panic at the bottom of life, remember the true formula of the six words in life: static, slow, tolerant and flat. Everything will pass! Nothing in a person's life belongs to you, you are just a user. There are always several hurdles on the road of life; Life is always a little bitter. Some things, helpless, let nature take its course; Some people, if they can't force it out, just laugh it off; Some roads, if you can't avoid them, you will never look back.

This kind of story happens every day, but everyone doesn't want it to happen to themselves. I am also an entrepreneur, and I have experienced failure, although my failure is due to online gambling. It's not bad that you just lost your job, but I'm heavily in debt on 20 18. But a year later, I quit gambling and paid off a million debts. So, failure is really nothing. Believe in yourself, continue to start a business and redouble your efforts. You will still stand up! However, I still have two suggestions for you to start a business: first, choose a good industry; Second: study hard and work hard. Do these two things, and you will definitely make a comeback and turn over!

I can tell you for sure that it is normal to lose face, and it is not recommended that you work locally. Many people will say that you have a lot of resources here and it is more convenient to work. When you fail and there is no hope of success, no one can help you except your parents, and neither can your brother. That is the reality. You failed as a boss, and you have to go to work. The possibility of getting rich in a short time is zero. Why, because you have no money, or you can't work, but start all over again. Even if possible, few people want to work. Everyone wants to be a boss. Another disadvantage of working locally is that you can't let it go. You should be an introverted person, with strong self-esteem, and it is easy to close yourself when you are in a trough. This will lead to your unsuccessful work, and you will give up on yourself. Run away from home and give it back if you succeed!