What are the taboos for joking?

Let's talk about the taboo of joking first, which is easy to meet in life. The examples given are just to illustrate this point. Please don't sit in the right position, J.

1. Hit one side and raise the other.

Don't make such jokes when many people are chatting. The speaker has no intention, but the listener has intention. People who have been hit are naturally uncomfortable, and people who have been raised will not be happy. I think you are hurting others at will now, and maybe you are hurting me in another place. Maybe it's just a well-meaning joke, but in the end, in someone's words, it's harming others and not benefiting themselves. Typical example: Oh, I said so-and-so, why do you eat so much? You don't learn from others, and you keep a good figure.

2. Misunderstanding and ambiguous jokes

For example, A said to B: So-and-so, you have so much money to have children.

In fact, A is that you keep the money until it appreciates, and B is that you keep the money to go to the hospital to have a baby.

As a pure little girl, B naturally thinks A's jokes are vulgar.

3. Treat derogatory words as commendatory words at will

For example, the words debauchery, depravity and depravity are basically used as commendatory words now, but many people can't accept putting these words on him at first, so it is best to explain them to him before joking.

4. oops

When joking, always put yourself in the other person's shoes afterwards, and pay attention to how you make the other person feel. For example, if someone gets off work on time, you come forward and say, So-and-so, you are more punctual than the host of the news broadcast. For example, if someone goes to work on time, you stand up and shout in front of all your colleagues: pinch the king. If it were you, you would be embarrassed yourself. Joking is too hurtful, others will think your words are very prickly, there is something in your words, and then there will be a sense of distance.

Verb (abbreviation for verb) self-destructs image.

Sometimes jokes go too far, and it's easy to get into your head! Not hurting others, but hurting yourself. It's called stealing chickens and not eating rice. For example, when you want to make things difficult for others to borrow things, you can say, "So-and-so, if you want to borrow my things, you can pay a deposit of forty dollars in advance." . In the long run, it will leave others with the illusion of meanness.

These are the details that are not handled properly in the usual jokes. It is not easy to leave a good impression on others, but a bad impression is often left in a neglected detail, and it is difficult to reverse the case. As the saying goes, "good things don't go out, bad things spread thousands of miles", and Milu also said that details determine success or failure, hehe. There are still many details to pay attention to in life.

1. Smile more.

Even smirking is better than not laughing. If you keep a straight face, even if you are secretly laughing, others will think you are depressed. No one likes to be with depressed people, and their emotions will be infected.

2. Gossip, but handled properly

Gossip people love life. People should listen to gossip more, but after listening, say what should be said and forget what should be forgotten. Dealing with gossip requires art, and you can't easily lose the trust of others.

In a word, in a word. Joking is an indispensable pleasure in life, but we should pay attention to the object of the occasion and choose the right words. Pay attention to the details when you act and speak, and it is more sunny and comprehensive when you are personal. The result is not the most important, but also the process. Go to Hushan again!