How to improvise and solve problems skillfully?

Embarrassment and being unable to get rid of it are the worst. If you improvise, you can get rid of it skillfully and save face for those who make mistakes.

If you know something about the reasons why people who do wrong do wrong, you can explain it to others appropriately; If his mistake is irreversible, you should try your best to help him calm down the dissatisfaction of others to a minimum; If his mistake is harmless, you can distract others with a light joke and give the wrongdoer a chance to adjust himself.

For some small mistakes, we can skillfully help the wrongdoer solve them. If the wrong person doesn't notice, you can quietly remind him, for example, walk up to him, naturally block his body and tell him, "There are some rice grains on your shirt collar." If the other party realizes his mistake, but is afraid that others will laugh at him after seeing his disguised actions, we can turn a blind eye and pretend not to notice, thus giving the parties a chance to hide their embarrassment. If the wrongdoer is laughed at by others, we can find an excuse to take him away and leave the scene when he can't justify himself and is meaningless.

When the embarrassment of the wrongdoer is obvious and may affect others, we can use language skills to reduce or transfer the embarrassment according to the reasons of the wrongdoer.

Some embarrassing things are due to the limitations of people's ability, will and thinking, such as mistakes in workflow and handling things. In this case, we should tell him what is the right way in an appropriate way.

Some embarrassing things are due to the carelessness of the wrongdoer, such as saying the wrong words in social situations, using the wrong words, and not remembering other people's names or positions. Under such circumstances, we can easily cover up his mistakes in a way that minimizes the consequences, and we can also find a reasonable excuse for his mistakes. Obviously, you are ahead of Director Wang, but the colleague you are walking with is called Director Li. You can say to Director Wang: "I just told him about Director Li of a certain unit and kept saying the words' Director Li' all the way. I didn't expect to get used to it in such a short time." You can also say to the person who did something wrong in a slightly exaggerated tone: "If you want to report your feelings about meeting Director Li, at least call him Director Wang first. Why are you so impatient! "

Some embarrassing things are because the situation is urgent or special and the parties are nervous; Some are because the parties are generous, speak without thinking, and make mistakes inadvertently. For example, in the meeting discussion, the language organization is not strict, mistakes appear, and when commenting on others, the words are not satisfactory. In this case, we can supplement and appropriately correct the wrong or incomplete speech. It can also change the subject and divert people's attention, thus eliminating embarrassment.

As a wrong embarrassment, it is caused by words and deeds that deliberately embarrass the people who communicate with him. For example, A deliberately mocked B in a sharp tone. We can use humorous words, such as "You are really a good actor. If I didn't know, I would have thought you really had a problem with him". Re-explain the original intention of the parties' fierce words and deeds from the perspective of goodwill, and try to resolve the unpleasantness as much as possible.

Aunt Jin and her husband, Uncle Li, quarreled outside the gate from home, causing a large group of neighbors in the community to come out to watch the excitement. Seeing this, Aunt Jin's neighbor Xiaoqing urged her to fight, grabbed Aunt Jin's arm and said, "Aunt, stop arguing. In front of so many people, I am ashamed of you! " When I finished, I realized that my words had helped me. Sure enough, Aunt Jin shook her arm vigorously and glared at Xiaoqing angrily. Aunt Jin finally said, "Little girl, why don't you mind your own business?" Go away! "Xiaoqing suddenly froze, don't go, don't go. Xiao Yu, who came to Xiaoqing's house as a guest, said in a crisp voice, "Aunt, my little girl has no wheels on her feet. How can you tell her to fuck off? "You didn't tell me the exact direction. Which way do you want her to go? Before? After that? Left? Right? " Xiaoyu smiled wittily and the neighbors were amused. They came forward to persuade Aunt Kim and Uncle Li. Aunt Jin felt so angry when she saw that everyone had come to stop the fight. She smiled shyly at Xiaoqing. Xiaoyu followed Aunt Jin's words and gave Xiaoqing a step in a joking tone. At the same time, she quietly criticized Aunt Jin, which attracted the sympathy and enthusiasm of the onlookers and resolved an embarrassment in time.

Humor is the coat of wisdom. We should learn to use humor to resolve the tense atmosphere and find a "step" for those who make mistakes.

After the embarrassment is over, give a good suggestion to the person who did the wrong thing, so as not to make the same mistake again, but it is best not to mention this mistake in the future. Pretending that you have forgotten is the best comfort to the wrongdoer.