Some people advocate banning games. What do you think?

1. Games are just a hobby

@安定平心

How much impact will tourism have on the next generation? How much impact will watching movies have on the next generation? How much impact will playing basketball and football have on the next generation?

To be honest, if you ask how much influence games have on the next generation, as a hobby alone, games are no different from the above-mentioned hobbies, right?

Nowadays, almost everyone has a mobile phone, and there are basically games on the mobile phone. When you have nothing to do, you can play black games with your friends. Games seem to have become a part of life, and games are like a hobby. , it’s not considered poisonous, right?

2. Games are products of the times

@半boy剑

Chatting with an old professor who is about to retire, he asked us What do you do after class now? Let's play games. Then we asked him what he did in college, and he said playing cards and mahjong. He even had a fight with his father over playing mahjong. Then we asked him where his son was in college, and he sneered, haha, reading novels. He had another fight with his son over this matter. Yesterday he saw his son and his grandson quarreling, because his son couldn't stand his grandson playing games...

This is a cycle, and it is also an advancement of the times, from playing cards to novels to Games have been denied by the previous generation. They are all hobbies. Games are actually changes in interest products as the times advance. This change is irresistible

4. The essence is a contradiction in education

@Anonymous Netizen

Mobile games are only the trigger, factors such as parents, home education environment and other factors are more important. And people can change at any time, and there are many people who are late bloomers. Inertia of habits only greatly increases the difficulty.

Most of those who resist games are from the previous generation. Different educational concepts lead to different views on games. Miaojun feels that addiction to games is largely due to a lack of self-control, and a person's self-control is closely related to family and education. When dealing with games, more guidance should be given to the children themselves to cultivate their self-control.

Playing too much on mobile phones will definitely have a bad impact on children. But if you regard your mobile phone as a scourge and don't even let your children touch it, big problems will arise.

For a child, this is part of his childhood, just like "The Legend of White Snake" when we were children. I have never watched this well-known TV series in its entirety because we didn’t have a TV at home at that time and only had a cabinet of books. But every time I talk about my childhood with everyone, I still feel like there is something wrong with it.

Therefore, it is not completely forbidden to play with mobile phones, but the time and content of playing must be stipulated, and the age of the child must also be determined.

There is a term in psychology called the "forbidden fruit effect". The more forbidden something is, the more people want to get it; the more they want to conceal certain information, the more it arouses people's desire to snoop. This reverse phenomenon caused by unilateral prohibition and concealment is the "forbidden fruit effect" in psychology. This is related to people’s curiosity and rebellious psychology. The same goes for playing with mobile phones. The more you don't let your children play, the more curious your children will be about how fun mobile phones are. Why are my parents reluctant to let go all day long but don’t allow me to play? At the same time, this kind of suppression will also cause the child's rebellious psychology. You won't let me play, but I insist on playing. I will try my best to play, even to steal!

Therefore, when educating children, we should not strictly prohibit them, but should be good at guiding them. For example, how many young girls fall into the arms of scumbag men because of their parents’ strict prohibition? If their parents hadn't pushed so hard at that time, maybe the two of them wouldn't have gotten together.

Children can play with mobile phones, but they cannot play casually. First, we must set a time limit and negotiate the rules with the children. For example, take the initiative to return the phone to the mother after 15 minutes. If not, then next time I will definitely not play with it.

It is generally not recommended to let children watch cartoons and other video information on mobile phones, not only because when children watch video content, they are passively receiving information, which will develop the inertia of the brain and will not Conducive to the growth of intelligence. Also because these contents can be watched on TV, there is no need to look at the mobile phone so close to affect the eyesight.

Electronic games, especially those action games, can increase children's attention and functional connections in sensorimotor neural networks, indicating that playing action games can improve children's attention and sensorimotor functions, that is, children who play The better, the smarter the brain. Therefore, some small educational games can be played for children, and they have benefits. But never let your children play violent and pornographic games. Many apps have children's modes that prevent children from watching things they shouldn't. We adults need to set it up before playing with our children.

In addition, children’s inner awareness is more effective than our adults’ prohibition and persuasion. I often use picture books to explain to Hanhan why she cannot play with her mobile phone or watch cartoons for a long time. In the explanation with pictures and texts, she really understood why not to do this? Once this is understood, the child will activate his own self-control ability to restrain his behavior.

In fact, there are too many fun things in this world for children. We don’t have to worry about children being addicted to electronic products. I think those children who are addicted to it are not because they like it, but because they lack interest.

Just like many adults who check Moments

Gaming is human nature. What you can gain from gaming is not only happiness, but also the ability to think and solve problems.

We have all grown up as children, and we have all had various toys. These toys have not made our lives bad because of our playing with them. On the contrary, when I think about it now, they are all beautiful memories worth cherishing.

It is human nature to love to play

1. Games allow us to spend a lot of otherwise boring leisure time.

Life is boring. Although this sentence is somewhat one-sided, it still makes sense. In addition to being with the people we like, doing things we like, eating delicious food, having more money, going to various tourist attractions, etc. in our life, we can also feel happy. Playing games can also make us feel happy. Moreover, when playing games, I choose happiness, not happiness that is unexpected.

Since we have the right to choose happiness, why can’t we play games for a while when we feel bored? In this way, we can not only relieve the stress of life, but also get unexpected happiness.

2. Games allow us to make many friends with the same interests and hobbies.

Playing games has now become a major issue that people cannot avoid. A blind ban would be counterproductive. We exaggerate the harm of games and fail to see its progressive significance. Humans are social animals. When others are playing games, you cannot be alone. This is determined by human social nature.

There are no children today who don’t like to play games, but some are stricter with themselves, know the minimum restraint, and have not lost themselves on the road of games. Such children are worth learning and emulating.

The biggest benefit of playing games is that it can develop people's intelligence and maximize their potential. Moreover, in the process of playing games, you can also make many good friends. These benefits cannot be ignored or pretended not to be visible.

Make friends in the game.

3. The most important thing is to be able to stop playing in moderation, not to be controlled by the game, but to be your own master.

It is understandable that some parents are afraid that games will delay their children’s studies.

Many children in society do not want to make progress because they play games, delaying their studies and delaying their bright future. This is a regrettable thing.

Therefore, whether you are an adult or a child, you must learn to restrain your time playing games, truly control yourself, manage yourself, and be your own master. But these are unreliable, and people tend to indulge themselves.

Anything that can make people addicted has a bad side. This requires the participation and management of government and social forces. Laws, regulations and regulations in the field of games should be formulated to clearly stipulate the time for people to play games, which should not exceed one or two hours a day.

Game software companies should develop face recognition login systems. The time for everyone to play games should be strictly controlled. When the time is up, they will automatically exit the game and cannot play on that day. Game companies cannot just focus on money, but should also shoulder their own social responsibilities.

Facial recognition technology has a wide range of uses. It gives me a headache. Every time I see a short video like this, my first reaction is not to think about what’s wrong with society.

Instead, I subconsciously find two things to comfort myself.

1. Understand it. After all, it is not easy for most people.

2. 3X never knows how it came about.

After thinking about these two things clearly, I feel much calmer.

Let’s talk about my own educational experience. When I was a child, one thing my mother always told me is:

Everyone is taught by the same teacher, why do others Your grades are good, why don’t you reflect on them?

At that time, I felt it was very reasonable. Just like I always admire adults who are never picky about food, I always felt that it was my own problem and kept reflecting on it.

It wasn’t until later that I learned that some people’s parents were from Kochi when they were studying. They started reading the original Harry Potter books to themselves in elementary school. Some people’s parents had been living in mahjong parlors and they believed in the stick. There are filial sons, and some parents are double teachers, with full educational resources and educational awareness.

The first thing I know is that when adults buy food, they buy what they like, and of course they are not picky eaters.

To be honest, those who advocate banning games are all lazy political thinking in my opinion, that is, they don’t know how to do it and don’t want to take care of it. If there is a scapegoat, then they are one. This group of people will never reflect on how to educate their children or think about what to educate their children. Instead, they subconsciously think that everyone has been this way and games must be wrong.

Why do some people become addicted to games, while others play games just to have fun?

From my personal point of view, it is not necessarily correct. It is just for your reference. People who are addicted to games do so because they cannot find more fun in reality. For those who play it, there are all kinds of fun besides games.

1. Why do children become addicted to games?

What is the most important thing about games? It is immersive, that is, easy to get addicted to.

But to be honest, if a person has been restrained from experiencing games since he was a child, he will not be easily addicted to games.

During this epidemic, my cousin came to my house to play for two full months. My only feeling was that in fact, games are not really evil, but how to control them.

My cousin has been using my mobile phone to play games, Honor of Kings, and even secretly used New Year’s money to recharge, hoping to play Ako. Later, I held my mobile phone every day and played happily.

I saw that this was not possible, so I made a three-part agreement with him: If you really want to play games, you can. Your brother and I are also a gamer. If you want to play, then play to the fullest.

Give me enough gaming time every day, and I’m not allowed to sleep until I play Honor of Kings for 12 hours a day.

After the third day, my cousin couldn't bear it anymore and said that he wanted to do his homework instead of playing games. It was boring. I would not allow it on the contrary, saying that you are not allowed to do homework until you have played for 12 hours today.

So my cousin cried and went to my mother to complain, but I pushed back.

When he reached the eighth hour of playing, he really got tired of it and quietly went to do his homework.

Of course, this is just an example of my family, there are no more elements for reference, just take a look.

Later when we were eating, I asked my cousin why he didn’t play anymore? My cousin said that after playing for 12 hours on the first day, he felt so refreshed and happy. I continued playing the game the next day and it was still fun. However, when I played for 8 hours the next day, I felt a little boring. Playing "Honor of Kings" was just like that. The next four hours felt pretty boring.

On the third day, after playing for four hours, I really felt that there was nothing special about it, and I even wanted to do my homework.

Then my cousin asked me curiously, why is this happening? In the past, when he secretly used his father's mobile phone to play games, he usually played for two hours at a time. He was so happy that he would think about the games he played today before going to bed.

I said I didn’t know. I used to be like you. I secretly went to the Internet cafe to play games for two hours every day. It was very fun, but when I really played games every day, I felt tired.

I think it is probably a matter of mentality, similar to the feeling that a wife is not as good as a concubine, and a concubine is not as good as a thief? 2. What exactly is education?

This part is a relatively broad one.

Although I think it is a bit awkward for me to talk about education as a parent, but I have taken care of several of my cousins. Finally, I think I still have experience.

Education itself is a matter in which children, parents, schools and society all participate.

But it used to be a kind of trust. I believe everyone has heard that their parents said to the teacher: Teacher, don’t worry about teaching him. If he needs to be beaten, he will be beaten. We will also teach him a lesson when he goes back.

For people born in the 1990s like me, parents are actually derailed in education because they have to make money to support their families.

Therefore, teachers are very strict in order to be worthy of their children.

Now, as the quality of life improves, you will find that parents are an important part of their children's education.

As for some parents, they go to mahjong parlors every day, get drunk at nightclubs, and let their children just let loose. What should they do if their grades are not good in the end?

It’s all the fault of the teacher’s incompetence. My children have taught you, so why are their grades so poor?

It’s all the fault of the child’s incompetence. They are all educated by the same teachers. Why do others get first place and you get middle-class?

It’s all my fault for the scourge of games. My child is fine, but it’s all my fault for harming him.

Games must be banned. Games must be banned.

However, these parents have never thought about it, and they have never thought that they would be at fault. After all, he is a parent, and the education process is all about school, students, and games. I am not involved, so why should you blame me?

In fact, it is made very clear in the next paragraph.

People who are truly addicted to games are isolated people. For them, games are not only a pleasure in their lives, but also an unprecedented life experience. Like the classmate I envied the most in junior high school

Have you noticed it? For him, games are just one of the many pleasures he enjoys in novels, reading, traveling, movies, games, music, and writing.

I guess if I ask him, he will also ask me very confusedly. He has so many hobbies and has not done so many interesting things. Why is he addicted to games?

If you had many choices, would you choose to indulge in games?

Many people are addicted to games because among the many hobbies they have been exposed to, only games are the lowest cost. It was so cheap that you could experience it for 1 yuan an hour (at my time).

And I have a screening room, genuine books, and Blu-ray DVDs at home, but the costs are prohibitively high.

So some people ban games because they find that they cannot teach their children well or provide more choices for hobbies. The only low-cost game has become the simplest scapegoat.

Just like many people don’t know where 3X came from, many people don’t know that they need to be involved in their children’s education.

Being a parent does not require a test. This is really the simplest and most chilling joke I have ever heard.

This topic has been around since a long time ago, but it has become more prominent in recent years due to the rapid development of the game market. I can only express my understanding of this, but I disagree.

As for the game itself, it is actually not a terrible thing. On the contrary, I think it is one of the most amazing inventions of mankind. The game itself is harmless, but what causes it to be harmful to people's physical and mental growth should be wrong perceptions. An excellent electronic game is an artistic carrier that can truly allow a player to understand a lot of knowledge and even allow players to experience different lives. It is far more immersive than novels or movies.

In today’s very open society, those who still advocate banning games may often come from parents who care about the growth of their children. When children come home from school and do not do their homework, they only think about playing with their mobile phones, so they feel that games are harming the children; when the children fail every test after their test results come out, they feel that the games are affecting them; when children They have problems with their eyesight, which they think are caused by games... All of these are the harms that parents think are caused by games.

But, is this really the case? I don't think so. If as parents, we can give our children more spiritual communication and understanding in daily family life, and let our children get enough feedback in real life, then they will still be "hopeless" Are you addicted to those games? I have a good friend who doesn’t educate his children this way. Every time I go to his house, I can see my friend and his son happily playing games together, and his child’s grades are not bad. On the contrary, the child is very smart and knows far more than his peers. .

My friend told me that sometimes when he brings his children to play games such as LOL, Chicken, and King of Kings, he wants to be on the same channel with his children and have similar peers. Communication effect between the two, doing this can enhance the relationship between the two better and faster. And he also said that when he plays games such as Red Alert, Battlefield, and Warcraft, he also takes his children with him, so that he can educate his children about various knowledge, insights, and life insights while playing games. For example, when playing Red Alert, you can tell your children about the relationship between various countries after World War II, such as the struggle for hegemony between the United States and the Soviet Union, and the Cold War; when playing World of Warcraft, you can let children feel the relationship between countries like Idian, Arthas, Thrall, etc. The heroism of vivid characters dedicated to their beliefs; when playing Battlefield, it can intuitively show the horror of war to children, allowing them to understand that peace is hard-won.

I think my friend’s teaching by words and deeds and integrating into education are really good. There is nothing wrong with games. What is wrong is actually the executors of education.

Of course, it cannot be said that games have no problems at all, but I feel that the existence of everything has its existence value and reason, that is, existence is reasonable.

Our ancestor Dayu once told us an important truth, the effect of blocking is never as good as that of loosening! Therefore, let us act together to resist those harmful games and encourage healthy games. This is the best solution!

Well... I think it's just a matter of a small number of people's moral issues that can be hijacked by the majority of people.

First, what happens if you ban the game. If our country bans games (the question definitely refers to electronic games), then people in our country will not be able to play electronic games. Then more and more people who play games at home will go out of their homes and join dance halls and bars. Chess and card rooms and other entertainment venues. Or more young people secretly smoke and drink. Because the simple entertainment methods are gone, then they will move to other entertainment activities. Don’t think that if games are banned, the whole country will be in full swing and study and work actively! At least those who are disgusted with playing games should live their lives as entertainment. They just forcibly disperse other people's happiness to other areas. So banning the game is not feasible.

Secondly, the dangers of games are just that, adults and minors. As adults, there is no need to say how to live, how to live, and how to live, and no one else needs to worry about it. As for minors, isn’t this primarily the responsibility of the parents? Children are easily tempted by something, but what about parents? Watching helplessly? Used to it? Not guiding? Leave the task of educating children to the state? Let the country help you cultivate talents? What if there are other kids obsessed with other projects? Ban all? There is no saying that if you want your children to go to college, you require universities to lower their standards! ! !

Therefore, it is simply unreasonable to advocate a ban on games! Very one-sided thinking