Do you think it is happier to have a boy or a daughter?

Traditional ideas are deeply rooted, but they are also reflected in reality.

I actually have a daughter, and then I have an elderly child. When I was young, I also tended to have a happy daughter, so I didn't want a second child after giving birth to my daughter. To tell the truth, my daughter is really good. A daughter who is "lively" and has no boy's "cute" nature will worry her parents ... but when she grew up in junior high school and graduated from college, she even got married. I began to feel lonely and lonely. As I grow older, I will ponder my original thoughts when some things are "soft-hearted". If I say let my daughter stay at home, I feel a little selfish; Get married. Are the four old people on both sides, the next generation, too heavy a burden and drag?

I raised my child when I was still in good health. Seriously, I was so happy when I knew it was a boy in the operating room. I think the effort is worthwhile. ...

But now, sometimes my chest will explode with anger. I really doubt what I am trying to do and find such a "sin" for myself.

This mainly has to mention the difference between boys and girls. A boy is about nine years old and full of vitality. Curiosity about him will shut you up. Specifically, a box of building blocks can be dismantled for an afternoon and built for a day ... I'm not tired of it. Playing with mud will stain the clothes and pants I just put on so that I can squint ... you kick people and ignore them completely. The fire was so painful that it took only half a day to chirp and sing.

I don't know how pathetic it is compared with my daughter. But there is an advantage, the son is stronger than the daughter, and the son replaces all the manual labor that must be done before. For example, I went to the cornfield to pick corn, and my daughter said, "I help cook at home." The son directly picked the corn and carried it home. For example, if you are sick, your son will be sent to the hospital directly on his back, and your daughter can help you wash clothes and cook.