What are the taboos for naming a baby?

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Dad gave his daughter a gentle name, and everyone agreed, but ignored the surname, which eventually became a joke.

I believe that most parents will have a headache for naming their children. Unlike people in the past, give children an ugly name and let them support themselves. Nowadays, parents want their children's names to be unique, smart and meaningful, so the difficulty is greatly improved invisibly.

There is such a treasure dad. He gave his daughter a name, and it took a lot of effort to think of a very elegant name for her. Chumo? The family said it was good, the name was elegant, it smelled like a book, and it was very suitable for girls. However, I neglected my last name. You should know that this precious dad is a bear.

Together, the homonym becomes? Bears haunt? Sounds exactly like the name of the comic book "Bears Come and Go". I don't want to have such a name, whether it's a boy or a girl!

However, this can't be too weird for Bao Dad. Adults seldom watch cartoons, and it is understandable not to know the cartoons of bears. Without this cartoon, there is nothing wrong with the name, right?

When children are studying, because of this name, they are often laughed at by classmates, which makes their daughters sad and gradually feel inferior. When the daughter came home to argue with her father, Father Bear still felt that the name he chose was very good, which was recognized by everyone and gave many reasons. And I also think that my daughter's name is similar to anime, which makes it easier to leave a deep impression on people. I don't think there is anything wrong with it.

Father Bear's self-righteousness makes his daughter cry alone. When her daughter's grades get worse, she has no smiling face and becomes inferior, father Xiong really realizes the seriousness of the problem.

The influence of foreign names on children is especially obvious after school.

No matter what name you give your child, you may think that there is nothing wrong before the child goes to school, but when the child goes to school and has more knowledge, the problem will come.

Some wonderful names will be given all kinds of ugly nicknames, and the influence on children can not be ignored. You know, the name will accompany the child for life. Therefore, ugly nicknames are estimated to be inevitable wherever you go.

If children are often ridiculed because of their names and parents don't pay attention to them, then children may become more and more timid, inferior and timid, which is not only not conducive to the formation of children's personality, but also affects their academic performance.

In addition, the problem of children's names may also affect children's interpersonal communication. If the child's name is too foreign, it will be regarded as a joke or too hard to say. It may also be because others are unwilling to associate with children or don't know how to address them in order to avoid embarrassment. These are not good for children.

These taboos about naming children, it is best not to pay attention to homophonic problems.

Father bear named his daughter in front of him, but he didn't pay attention to the homophonic problem. He made a joke and made her laugh. Therefore, in order to avoid homophonic problems, parents still need to read more and share them with relatives and friends for your reference after naming their children. If there is no big problem, it will be appropriate. Otherwise, you will think hard and think that a self-righteous good name may eventually become a joke, making children hold their heads up in front of others. I don't think any parents want to see such a thing!

Avoid using complicated words.

Nowadays, there are more and more people, and the chances of duplicate names are getting higher and higher. So some people think of using some complicated words to name their children, such as traditional Chinese characters and words with many strokes. But it ignores the difficulty of writing.

Although no matter how complicated the writing is, it is not a problem for us adults, but it is a very painful thing for children, especially those who have just learned to write. When a child takes an exam, it used to be a headache for the child to do the problem, but with a complicated name, it may become as headache as doing the problem in the exam.

Pay attention to the meaning of the name.

Some parents name their children too casually, or think that the more vulgar and common the name, the easier it is for children to support. In fact, this statement is superstitious and should be abandoned. Nowadays, with the progress of the times, people pay more and more attention to names. A nice name will impress people and make them shine.

If your name is too common or too foreign, you will feel inferior invisibly. Therefore, for the healthy growth of children, children should not be named too casually. You need to think about it, or the children will complain to their parents in the future!

to tell the truth

People often say that words are just like people, but aren't their names the same? Names are very important to children, and they will be with them for a lifetime. So how can we make the names that accompany children's lives ordinary or even wonderful? Giving children a good name and avoiding the above misunderstandings is the real performance of loving children, don't you think?

Today's topic: What kind of name did you give your child? Did you commit the above taboo?

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