What if a person is trapped by someone else?

According to my own personal experience, a person living in this world, or decades or centuries, is bound to experience thousands of complicated things in Qian Qian's world, and can never be immune in interpersonal communication. I don't know when I will be in Na Yue. I was between 30 and 50 years old, and I was framed several times unconsciously. (Don't write examples here) Maybe life will always meet with bad luck, and you are unlucky. It's really bad luck. It's hard to control your emotions. What are we going to do? I'm really worried about my chest. I can't let it go for a while. At this time, I need you to calm down and then calm down. As long as I get the chance, I will poke this man in the face and clear my name. Sometimes it's hard to get what I want. Think about it. The despicable behavior of a villain can't hurt the bones and muscles of a gentleman. I will never do anything wrong, and I will never be afraid of ghosts knocking at the door. Your justice can override everything. Both time and facts can defeat this villain, and perhaps as time goes on, everyone has a sense of discrimination. The despicable behavior of this villain was self-inflicted, and finally he lifted a rock to drop it on his own feet, and he deserved it, and was finally sentenced to the end of karma. Although this is a generous conservative behavior, it is difficult to protect you from the loss of 100%. When you have a good opportunity, take the initiative to attack and fight back with righteousness, you will be just and have stronger morality. The magic height is one foot and the road height is ten feet. Justice triumphs over evil, which is also the law of life. Don't be discouraged. Face your strong will bravely, and evil will eventually be defeated by justice. This is the moral law in the world. This is not idealism, but the victory of those who have the facts. Justice will be late, but it will never meet forever. A villain can only harm people for a while and will never succeed. It is a natural truth that villain's evil deeds can only be rampant for a while, but it is difficult to gain power for a long time. Who laughs last is the victory of the king?

It depends on what it is, big or small. Forget it if it's small, so as not to get angry. Not when you're older. We must find out and get to the bottom of it!

My husband has a brother who likes gambling very much, but he has no money. All the money is in the hands of his sister-in-law. He always asks his mother-in-law for money to gamble. When he found out, he scolded his brother. He was angry, but he had nothing to say. He said that her mother-in-law lives in my house, and she always receives a lot of red envelopes. She must give them to us because her mother-in-law has always lived in my house and likes us a little. I was angry to hear that he had wronged me. How dare I ask for it? I have hands and feet. No matter how I explain it, my brother just doesn't believe me. He talked about it year after year. One day, my sister-in-law went back to her family and heard her brother say that we spent her mother-in-law's money. She quickly admitted that she had her mother-in-law's passbook and gave it to her mother-in-law. She also said that both of them meant that (my husband and I) would not spend her mother-in-law's money. Finally, someone spoke for us,

I think my wife will trust others too easily sooner or later. When she watches TV shopping, she can believe that selling gold jewelry is real. She met many people on WeChat and talked a lot. I cleaned up many times, hit, scolded and dropped two mobile phones. During the Spring Festival, she told her mother, her sister, her brother and all her parents about our husband and wife's troubles for more than ten years. It is human nature to sympathize with and pity the weak, but how many wise people can ask why through the surface? I admit that hitting people is the biggest mistake. Every fight breaks my heart. My wife, I can't hit her hard. I always pretend, but she's real. So if we get married ten times in this decade, I will be beaten by her at least eight times. Because when she cried, I became soft and angry. People tried to run, but she grabbed me, cried and struggled. Domestic violence is a crime, but it is hard to say who is right or wrong between the real parties. If beating people is yang violence, then abusive, sarcastic and often-talked-about divorce is yin violence. If yang violence hurts people, then yin violence hurts people's hearts. One injury makes you see and the other makes you invisible, but the injury that is often invisible is the real pain, which hurts people invisibly and destroys people thousands of miles away.

I am a positive person with dreams and pursuits. If I ask my wife if she is not good, I really can't say anything more, because I only remember her good and her hard work, and I don't want to treat myself as a trash can. My brain, manpower and heart are limited. I can only pretend to be good and make my body and mind healthier. What's more, my family doesn't have much time to make them happy, so I have time to make myself unhappy every day, and there is no reason to make myself unhappy. Every time I have a problem with my wife, I take the initiative to coax her and make her happy. It's not that I don't know dignity, but at home, I'm the man and the head of the family. I want to be generous and give her more love. What's more, more femininity will lead to life.

My wife is a good person, but she lacks heart muscle and has more stubborn muscles. Tell me something recent (too far away to remember). An elder sister came to our shop to buy something. Is she a woman now? I don't know my age at all, but I look very young and elegant. I didn't know I was almost 50 until I chatted. In order to please my guests, I will come here often in the future. I casually said: Wow! You can't see, sister. My wife is only in her thirties, and you look younger than her ... My wife immediately gave me a sleeping god who wants to eat people. After the guests left happily, she yelled at me unreasonably. I traveled all over the country on business. When I came back, I helped my wife's shop. Call my uncle, aunt, brother, sister and sister sweetly every day. I am very happy to come back from a business trip. I will keep the shop clean and tidy, but my wife never wants to do so. Every time she talks about her many times, she just makes a hasty decision. If she doesn't listen when she is unhappy, she will make a scene. This is the same shop, but the home is even worse. People who can't get in are often in a mess. The house is like a kennel. She and her children will wear it together for the first time, and it will be difficult to make it after washing. She always puts her rice bowl and dishes there and never cleans them up at once. But she will put them away and wash them together in a few days when they are useless. Only when the ground is really dirty and dark will she drag them down. Pots, bowls and clothes have never been washed. As long as she has used all the household items, it will be difficult for you to find them again. You said she had many reasons to quarrel with you. I don't know how many keys she lost. You said she often left the door unlocked in case it fell. She often leaves the door unlocked when she goes out. She said she was poor and thieves wouldn't come ... She dressed up brightly every day, and her home and heart were in a mess, so she didn't have any deep hatred for these little things in life.

After the Spring Festival, she went to her parents' house and didn't come back. Before the Lantern Festival, she took her son to find it. Her family said that she had gone to work, but people didn't know where she had gone. Then she scolded me for all kinds of grievances, from the first day of marriage to every recent account, every crime, and the last one was that I compared my wife with a woman in her fifties, meaning that her wife was a yellow-faced woman, which was interesting. My mother-in-law said it was also true. Because her sister and her brother advised her to divorce me, saying that I was not good to her and she was unhappy, and our family didn't treat her like a human being. I know my wife's personality and her family's temper very well, and I don't listen to people. When she first opened the store, she called her brother to help, and within two months, she quarreled every day. During this period, they also quarreled, and they were almost forty. They are still in the shop, and I am speechless about this temper.

Although my wife has various habits of not wearing clothes, she is warm, filial to her parents and good to her children. That's enough for me to treat her well all my life. One person's paste, one family's paste, son's failure to teach, father's fault, woman's failure to teach, mother's fault; My wife and I were married for twelve years and stayed at her parents' home for nine years. I live in the twelfth lunar month until the Spring Festival every year. I also have parents, brothers and sisters and many relatives. I don't want to go every year, but my wife is proud and has to scream. I put up with it because I love her. I didn't go this year, but my wife flew. I had a bad year. The whole day is a mess, just like sleepwalking, and I can't stay at night.

If you are framed, don't worry, don't get angry and lose your temper, and be calm. You get angry or lose your temper, which is exactly what the person who framed you wants to see. When you lose your temper, you may even see your jokes in your heart!

It is normal to be framed. Let me tell you one of my experiences. When I came home for the Spring Festival last year, my girlfriend told her parents about me and our family! At first, my girlfriend's parents did nothing right!

But after a few days, her parents began to oppose me and my girlfriend, so I asked my girlfriend to ask her parents what happened and why they are against us now!

My girlfriend's parents told my girlfriend that the house my parents built for me was not ours, but someone else's, and I borrowed all my money to buy a house in the city. At that time, I really wondered why the house I built was not my own! How did the house you bought with your own money become a loan!

Later, I asked my girlfriend who said these words to your parents! Her parents said they were neighbors. "I have a good relationship with my girlfriend." Working outside all the year round, I usually go home during the Spring Festival. I don't know their neighbors. I really don't understand why you talk about me behind my back! Maybe this is the heart, you can't be nice to others!

Being trapped is not terrible, but being trapped by success is terrible.

As long as you walk right and do right, what are you afraid of? In the final analysis, the pollution trap is to fabricate lies and impose them on others. Can I add it? However, this is not the case. People who don't know magic often believe in magic; Some people even believe in ghosts and gods that don't exist; After being polluted, people live on their backs, even people don't care, and ghosts don't care until they die. Isn't it the most terrible thing that a white life is splashed by sewage and can't be washed clean?

Of course, if you are trapped by others, you can try your best to whitewash yourself and produce evidence to prove your innocence. However, not all "white washing" is so easy. Some people, psychologically, would rather believe that the lies fabricated by the trapped people exist than that the trapped people are wronged. Especially those who doubt everything, those who don't do good things themselves, would rather believe that the victim is a bad person than a good person. For those things that "you know me, heaven knows the earth"; For those who lack the ability, they are often helpless in the face of pollution, even in unknown so. Otherwise, how can there be "unwarranted", "unfair by Dou E" and "Yang Naiwu and Chinese cabbage"?

We must work, support our families and take care of our wives and children ... If we are trapped in pollution, all the rules of life will be broken. How can I have time to let my life run on the road of "washing white"?

Therefore, the best way is: learn from other people's failure lessons, lead an honest and clean life, and be cautious; The most important thing is to have more contact with others, see the essence of each other clearly, and not give the trapped people any chance to nip in the bud.

You can ask the other party to stop the infringement, eliminate the influence and apologize. If negotiation fails, you can sue her in court. However, you should collect evidence of the fact that she insulted and personally attacked you, including audio-visual materials such as witness testimony or the recording of the other party's speech, and keep the evidence, so that you will have greater advantages in future litigation. If the circumstances are serious, he can also file a criminal private prosecution with the court and pursue his criminal responsibility. Legal basis: the right of reputation refers to the right of citizens and legal persons not to be infringed by others in due social evaluation. Including the right to protect one's social good evaluation or improvement, the right to change bad evaluation and the right to protect reputation from infringement. "the Supreme People's Court's Answers to Several Questions about the Trial of Reputation Right Cases" puts forward: How to identify the responsibility for infringing the right of reputation? A: Whether it constitutes the responsibility of infringing the right of reputation should be determined according to the fact that the victim's reputation is damaged, the actor's behavior is illegal, there is a causal relationship between the illegal behavior and the damage consequences, and the actor is subjectively at fault. Whoever insults or slanders others in writing or orally and damages their reputation shall be regarded as infringing on their reputation. Article 246 of the Criminal Law of People's Republic of China (PRC): crimes of insult and slander. Whoever publicly insults others by violence or other means or fabricates facts to slander others, if the circumstances are serious, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, criminal detention, public surveillance or deprivation of political rights. The crimes mentioned in the preceding paragraph shall be dealt with only if they are told, except those that seriously endanger social order and national interests.

In this life, people have experienced wind and rain, sunshine, rain and dew ... and sometimes there are haze.

When you are stuck in the mud and framed, don't panic, as others wish. With peace of mind, you can be calm and calm. First of all, straighten out the clues and find out the reasons. If it is bad for you and infringes on your rights and interests, it will have a bad influence. Find and keep evidence, treat rape according to law, and safeguard my dignity and rights. If only a few vicious dogs and crazy wolves want to disgust you and bite you crazily, you should either stay away from the vicious dogs or beat them up. You should have the courage to skin the wolves with a stick and draw a sword to help them.

As for the little people, they are everywhere, everywhere. No matter how you live, there will always be people who will judge you behind your back. Lian Xiao is too lazy to laugh. Going forward and getting stronger is actually the best contempt. Don't be so sensitive and soft-hearted. People who are too sensitive and too soft-hearted must be unhappy in life. You should think about what others say casually for even a few days. Thousands of people boast that you may be wrong, and thousands of people say that you may be right. Smart people never live in other people's mouths or eyes. ...

The world is cold and people's hearts are complicated. You have to know that you will experience it, but there must be many people in the world who, like you, see through human feelings but are not sophisticated. There must be someone more complicated than him. It is better to choose to be yourself and see through without disappointment than to fall.

Be a man with peace of mind, open-minded, open-minded, think clearly and live freely. Be tolerant, forbear, forgive and be calm. Those harsh words can't hurt you. When a person's thoughts are transparent, his actions will be enlightened and his heart will be enlightened. People who live a free and easy life, a comfortable life and a quiet life all have a down-to-earth and peaceful heart. Clouds are bluer and boats are more secluded.

The sin of the wicked, the carnival of the villain, do not listen, do not worry, do not watch; Let it be light, how much to stay; who is it? Eat whatever you eat. Live a pure heart and go all the way.

-Yu Hanjiang

1, being framed shows that you are honest, kind and pure, you are not in cahoots, you are still yourself, and you should be happy.

2, you not only have no loss, but also have a gain that money can't buy: a wronged heart.

Besides, if the truth comes out in the end, you will have some friends transformed from sympathizers.

The most important thing is that when you really get out of the filthy mud, you will find yourself as light as a swallow and have a stable mind. Congratulations, you can do great things.

I have never been afraid of being framed by others in my life. The framework may lead to temporary difficulties. I may never know if I am simple-minded, but those who do things according to their conscience, dare to do what they dare, and will correct their mistakes, those who are not afraid of being pointed out by others when they are wrong. The vast majority of framing the final result is the best opportunity to expose my character.

But the environment we live in may be very special, and I prefer to avoid being maliciously praised by others. This is the most difficult way to kill people. People who don't know how to solve the problem will be skinned. If they don't learn from Mr. Wang Yangming's conscience, they really don't know how to deal with it: for example, you are the backbone of the team, but you deliberately have the opportunity to preach to the leaders that the team can't do without you, maliciously provoking the leaders to dislike you; Among those who are bent on seeking power and profit, they actively advocate that you are the most promising leader of the team; Praise an honest man like you in front of those who have the first skill in survival, and whoever flatters the leaders will be unlucky; This kind of praise that squeezes out evil human nature is framed by the top, which is the most difficult to solve. Bad-tempered people will encounter this kind of frame, especially the combination frame or the cocktail frame. Once there is a conflict with the tempted crane, once the crack is torn open, the framed person will definitely strike while the iron is hot, tear open the big crack and continue to pour "gasoline" into the crack. A crane fights with a clam. The clam dies first, and then the crane is destroyed by the group. The great tragedy of the fisherman's profit is bound to happen.