The "Ctrip Parent-child Park" incident is by no means a case. How to judge whether a child is abused?

The child abuse incident in Ctrip Parent-child Park continues to ferment, and only people with a little sympathy will be angry when they see such an incident!

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It is not the first child abuse case in Ctrip Parent-child Park. Incidents of child abuse in kindergartens are endless. How do parents protect our children?

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Recently, several groups of videos broke out in Ctrip Parent-child Park, involving kindergarten teachers punishing children for no reason, feeding mustard items and spraying disinfectant into children's eyes.

What we remember is mother's screaming accusation. In contrast, no matter how many times the kindergarten teacher involved kneels, as parents, we can't forgive her.

While we are distressed by our children and concerned about the teachers, we are most worried about our children. Nowadays, there are many incidents of violence in kindergartens. If there is something really wrong with kindergarten, perhaps the most unforgivable thing for us is ourselves, which is tantamount to pushing children into a fire pit.

So, how can we know if children are doing well in kindergarten? Is there any abuse?

There are the following general methods:

1, carefully choose a kindergarten with a good reputation.

2, the child is too young, or let yourself rest assured to bring it.

3. Pay attention to children's emotions.

4. Ask children more about other children.

5. Play role-playing games with children.

1, carefully choose a kindergarten with a good reputation.

We can't guarantee that every teacher is serious and responsible, but when choosing a kindergarten, we will reduce the probability of child abuse in advance. Kindergartens should choose kindergartens that have been established for a long time and have a clear supervision mechanism. Secondly, we should inquire more about the word-of-mouth of parents who went to kindergarten before entering the park, and deal with more teachers and staff in person to be aware of it.

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2, the child is too young, or let yourself rest assured to bring it.

The child is not old enough to go to kindergarten, but still find someone to take care of himself. In particular, children's self-care ability has not yet reached a certain level. Better take care of yourself. Don't underestimate the difficulty of taking care of children. Usually, two people in their own family are very tired with one child. Don't expect two or three teachers and assistants in the new kindergarten to have special functions to take care of 10-20 children. We should not underestimate the ugly side of human nature after workload and overload.

When a child successfully finds a kindergarten, we usually suggest the following things:

3. Pay more attention to children's emotions.

Our parents should know what a "normal" child is. When a child suddenly has mood swings or is very resistant to going to kindergarten, then we should ask the reason clearly and communicate with the child's teachers, parents and classmates.

4. Ask children more about other children.

Many children are reluctant to talk about their own affairs, but they are more willing to talk about other children's affairs, especially mistakes. For example, our children often ask if any children are disobedient. What will the teacher say about him if he doesn't listen?

Our children will answer such questions one by one, and we will know what the overall atmosphere of children is like.

5. Play role-playing games with children.

Many children are willing to play the role of a doctor to give injections to others, and will imitate the doctor's words: don't move, just hit it, and it won't hurt after the fight.

Therefore, as parents, we can play role-playing with our children at home. Remember, children must play the role of teachers, and parents must play the role of children.

Then the child will unconsciously imitate the teacher. For example, our children will say: don't move when eating, and don't let your parents pick you up at night after dinner.

In this way, if there is something abnormal, the child will show it.

Of course, we should trust kindergarten teachers, most of them are still good.

While trusting, we should pay more attention to children's emotions, often ask other children about their situation, and play role-playing games with children.

Take precautions before they happen.

May our children always be like angels and will not be hurt.

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