What influence does Jia Baoyu's amorous feelings in A Dream of Red Mansions have on Lin Daiyu?

Feudal marriage system: "the life of parents, the words of matchmakers."

Marriage in feudal society is not dominated by the parties, that is, the parties are not respected, but the parents have the final say. The parties can't control and decide who to marry, otherwise they will be laughed at. Especially aristocratic children.

Daiyu thought that Grandmother Jia loved her and understood that she was on her side.

Everyone saw Daiyu's attitude towards her when she first entered Jia's family. It was "a hug in your arms, and your heart and flesh cried." And the accommodation arrangement is also very affectionate. Let Baoyu stay in his suite and warm the pavilion, and let Daiyu live in Qingsha Pavilion. Grandchildren and granddaughters enjoy almost equal status. This situation has not changed since Xue Baochai came.

On the 25th time, Xifeng said to Daiyu, "Since you have eaten our tea, why don't you be our wife?" Although it is a joke, its potential tendency is self-evident. Xifeng is a worm in grandmother Jia's stomach, and she is a very clever person. She would never make such a joke without complete assurance. Daiyu is also very clever and naturally knows what it means. Since Grandmother Jia is in favor of her and Baoyu, her attitude towards Baoyu has nothing to do with her.

Now let's discuss Daiyu's age at that time. How old was Lin Daiyu when she entered Jiafu?

In A Dream of Red Mansions, it is clearly stated: "Today, I am 40 years old ... Today, only my first wife Jia gave birth to a daughter named Daiyu, who is five years old." Jia Yucun worked as a tutor in the Lins. "Another year passed. Who knows that this female student's biological mother, Mrs. Jia, died of sudden illness. ........................................................................................................................................................

Twenty-two times, Jia Lian got wind of something and stopped to ask what it was. Xi Feng said, "The 21st is Sister Xue's birthday." . "Listen to the old lady asked everyone's age and birthday yesterday. I heard that Sister Xue is fifteen years old this year. Although it is not the whole birthday, it is still one year old. "

At this time, Xue Baochai is fifteen, so Jia Baoyu should be fourteen and Daiyu thirteen. The six or seven years when Daiyu and Baoyu lived together were omitted. Even if there are more rebellious thoughts at such a young age, I still can't be the master of marriage, waiting for my uncle and grandmother to make decisions for her.