How to comfort others: a complete book of comforting words

Article 14 words of comfort: Only when you like yourself can you embrace life. It is a proud and ignorant life, and blind self-abandonment is a negative and pessimistic life. It is more difficult to know yourself than to know others, and it is more difficult to like yourself than to like others. Have a healthy and appropriate self-esteem psychology, and will be particularly strong in the face of setbacks. Don't lose yourself for the temptation of the outside world, and don't deny yourself for a temporary setback. Always evaluate yourself objectively and calmly, and always praise yourself optimistically and to the point. Can you love others if you don't love yourself? Like yourself. Article 15: Take a good look at the world water until it is clear, there will be no fish, and people will have no friends at first sight. The shortcomings of others can't be tolerated everywhere, so everyone becomes "bad guys" and can't live in peace. Look at the world with "evil" eyes, and the world is broken everywhere; Looking at the world with a "good" eye, there is always something lovely in the world. The more you look at other people's merits, the cuter you will look. All saints should "save myself three times a day" and be tolerant of each other. Article 16: It is impossible and unnecessary to please others and everyone blindly. To please everyone is to offend everyone. Deliberately pleasing others will only disgust others. It is natural to be close to others, and the "speculative" mentality should be changed. If you have time to please, it is better to do things in a down-to-earth manner. It is always unreliable to please others, only if you work hard. If you please others blindly, you will lose yourself. It is important to enrich yourself. Article 17: What's done is done, let it be. It's no use regretting your previous behavior. The only wise thing to do is to deal with the later things properly and not to make things worse. The spilled water can't be collected, and the wood carved into a ship can't be restored to its original state. Knowing these simple truths, we can calmly deal with the remaining problems. Regret is no good, don't make things worse. Article 18: Although the material is poor, the mind is not poor. Material poverty is not terrible, what is terrible is psychological poverty. Poverty is often associated with poverty, and poverty is often associated with short-term ambition. Mental poverty, wealth will also become poverty, mental wealth, poverty can also be transformed into wealth. Material poverty and despair will soon destroy a person's body; Self-confidence and self-improvement, although temporary material poverty, but the good days will come soon. People are not lacking in ambition and constantly strive for self-improvement. Article 19 words of comfort: There is a curse in the blessing and a blessing in the curse. Don't be carried away by temporary gains and losses and indulge in temporary victories. Be prepared for danger in times of peace, and don't be conceited. Being intoxicated with victory means stopping, and being intoxicated with victory means losing vigilance. Never relax on the road of life, victory is just a small signpost. If you want to win the final victory, you just have to work hard, work hard and work hard again. Don't be fooled by temporary interests. He who laughs last laughs the happiest. Article 20: A full life is very important. Living well every day is the greatest happiness, and happiness comes from being in a good mood every day. Always worried about the risks of tomorrow, always unable to erase the shadow of yesterday, how can today's life be satisfactory? Always compare those who can't be compared, always fantasize about those who can't be realized, how can today's mind be quiet? Anything unrealistic is the source of pain, and the biggest killer in life is sadness and anxiety. Pain comes from not being full. If you live a full life, you won't think about it. Article 265438 +0 words of comfort: Life should be joyful to a certain extent. Appropriate recreational activities can regulate emotions, but endless joy can easily turn into harm. Extreme things will be reversed, and poverty will change. "A happy place is a sick place." "Chess can be idle and easy to be tempted. ..... "Blind carnival is a superficial life, and what you get is often painful regret. Enjoy yourself is a philosophical life. Emotions and sorrows are not limited to entertainment, but involve all aspects of life. Joy and sorrow go hand in hand, and moderate joy will keep joy company. Article 22: It may be happier to live in another way. Is it necessary to change your environment when you are extremely unhappy at work and feel surrounded everywhere? When I am extremely unhappy in my marriage, I always feel like an icehouse. Do you have the courage to break through the siege? Accustomed to resignation, will you stand up and say "no"? Self-confident people are good at adjusting their living conditions. Don't be too timid to live, comfort is the spirit of happiness. 23 rd sentence of comfort: let's put aside our troubles for a while. Life is too short, why should we live unhappy all the time? It is normal to have troubles, but it is not normal to have no troubles. If you are in a bad mood, you might as well go to a movie, listen to a piece of music, sing a song, make a phone call and enjoy the sunshine ... To hell with your troubles, have fun first. Article 24 words of comfort: the foundation of happiness lies in oneself. Most people always pin the joy of life on external things and attach themselves to secular identity. All aspects pay attention to status, property, treatment, reputation and other things. Once you lose these things, it will be a heavy blow, you will often feel pain, and your happiness and happiness foundation will be destroyed. If we really live like this, then happiness is far from us. Why do you want others to evaluate your happiness and grasp yourself? Article 25: Feeling happiness is happiness. Many people are deliberately pursuing so-called happiness. Some people get it, but the price is huge. Many philosophers have said that happiness is a feeling, just like the "Buddha" in your heart and mine. The feeling of happiness decreases with the degree of satisfaction, which is closely related to people's mood and mentality. The sages said: The harder you work, the deeper you love, the happier you are, and the harder you think. A person always feels unhappy, which is his greatest sorrow. Happiness is a feeling. If you are not satisfied, you will never be happy. Article 26 is a comforting word: "Open your heart" is the only way to have a happy mood. "Do the cause of joining the WTO with the spirit of being born", the famous saying of Confucianism, Taoism and Buddhism makes people more cheerful, open and detached. "hard work" is always associated with the word "crazy", and its main crux lies in entering a dead end. "Get over it" is always associated with the word "wisdom", mainly because it is still taking a step back. Taoism's "retreat for progress" and Laozi's "Tao always does nothing" are really great wisdom in life! Excerpted from the short message book. Com, there is nothing hard to think about, there is retreat and progress, and you can bend and stretch. Article 27 words of comfort: Worry is that the more people quarrel with themselves, the more upset they are, the more happy they are, and the more happy they are. If you only worry about troubles, then troubles still exist objectively and show no signs of decreasing. On the contrary, because of the chain reaction of troubles, your mood becomes heavier and more distressed. If you keep turning bitterness into happiness and change the mentality of "doing one thing and complaining about one thing", you can get your own happiness. Time is also wasted in troubles, laughing at life.