Some people say that a man proves himself by having more children. Women prove themselves by not having children. What do you think about this?

My opinion is that everyone has their own attitude and ideals in life, as well as their own pursuits and ways of proving themselves. Not ordinary rhyming parallel sentences or metaphors can summarize the truth. Regardless of men, women, or children, the way to prove yourself is to achieve outstanding results through your own efforts, and to achieve achievements that are enough to be remembered and loved by others. This kind of achievement can be reflected in life and study, it can be sports competitions, it can be saving lives and healing the wounded, or it can be something as simple as being able to live the life you want without having to be manipulated by others. Everyone has their own ideas, and even if you live according to the meaning of the title, it may not prove anything meaningful.