In your eyes, which makes you more desperate, obesity or short stature?

To tell the truth, obesity and short stature are both unpleasant, but if I have to choose one of these two choices, my answer is short stature. There are three reasons:

First: Being short limits the upper limit of your perfection. Even if you dress beautifully and shape yourself, you will feel insecure if you are too short. Even if you are excellent in many other aspects, even if others respect you very much, the most important thing is that you can't pass your own internal barrier. This is the most deadly.

Second: If you are a girl, even if you are beautiful, if you are too short, you will find yourself very insecure in life. In the face of people you like very much, you dare not express yourself easily, for fear of being laughed at and even losing the possibility of being ordinary friends with each other. And because you are too short, you will find that your views are easily ignored by others and can't get the most basic respect.

At this point, the feelings of boys are more obvious. If they are short, their physical advantages will disappear, and they will be more vulnerable to attacks by people who are malicious to you, because they feel that even if they offend you, they will not immediately incur physical blows, which gives others an excuse to behave more casually.

Third: people are more likely to accept obesity, because people think that obesity is acquired and can be artificially changed. As long as you work hard enough, this is expected. But if you are too short, it is basically influenced by your innate parents' genes, and it is difficult to make a big change the day after tomorrow.

Moreover, in some cases, people will have a feeling of looking up to obese people, thinking that the other person's family may be very good, otherwise, how can there be overnutrition to this extent? Especially men are a little fat, which is not a disadvantage for some girls, but an advantage. I feel very good and safe to find such a husband. No one can bully you casually and gain the respect of more people. Even if you look a little out of shape and uncomfortable, you can exercise with your partner and try to get back into shape. It is the so-called high-quality potential stock.

Especially one idol star is popular now. He was a little fat when he was young. However, through his own exercise, he is so handsome that you almost doubt life. From then on, he changed your view of fat people. Instead, he thinks that this is a potential stock hidden in all sentient beings and must be seized in advance.