The number of divorces nationwide dropped by 50% in the first half of the year. Is it because people’s views on marriage have suddenly changed?

The number of divorces nationwide fell by 50% in the first half of the year, not because people’s views on marriage have changed. The main reason may be that the new cooling-off period for divorce has been enacted, which has led to a decrease in the number of divorces. The reason why the number of divorces dropped by 50%.

According to the latest data released by the Civil Affairs Bureau, the number of divorces nationwide in the first half of this year dropped by 50% compared with previous years. There are two ways to get divorce, one is divorce by agreement and the other is divorce by litigation. The data here is for divorce by agreement.

The reason for the sharp decrease in the number of divorces may be due to the following reasons.

First of all, the divorce procedures have become cumbersome. Since January 2021, a one-month divorce cooling-off period has been added to the divorce process. The two parties will count 30 days from the date of divorce registration. After that, both parties will go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register for divorce again.

If one party does not appear or does not agree to the divorce, the divorce will be deemed invalid. People are very busy nowadays, especially couples who live in separate places. The divorce cooling-off period will undoubtedly make divorce more difficult.

But for those who impulsively divorce, we give them a chance to reconcile. In addition to divorce by agreement, some couples choose to litigate for divorce after two years of separation, and the process is also very long.

Then, think about your children. Some couples no longer have feelings for each other, and even hate each other. But they did not choose to divorce, but continued to maintain their marriage.

Most of these couples consider their children and worry about the psychological burden on their children. Every year after the college entrance examination, we see students and their parents getting together and getting divorced.

It’s not that these couples don’t divorce, nor can they let go of each other, but they wait for their children to grow up. But a disharmonious family atmosphere can also have a negative impact on children.

Finally, the issue of property division. There are also couples who know that the other person is cheating and their marriage is in ruins, but they still choose to stay married.

One of the reasons is the huge problem of property division. After divorce, the existing assets are bound to be divided by the other party. For the sake of money, it is difficult to maintain a marriage that seems to have nothing. Whether the view on marriage has changed.

Love is beautiful, but marriage is very realistic. The two entered into marriage in ignorant love, with beautiful expectations and yearnings, but the reality is often cruel.

After getting married, the many shortcomings of the two people are exposed. It may be a small shortcoming in daily life, but it will be infinitely magnified into a fatal injury to the other party, and small grudges will gradually accumulate into deep hatred.

This is why many couples have had an enviable love, but when they divorce, they are as hostile as enemies. There are also couples who have different views and thoughts, and the other party cannot understand what you mean.

Just take a daily joke. It may be a funny joke in your eyes, but the other party may interpret it as something else, or even escalate into a quarrel.

The sharp decline in the divorce rate does not mean a change in the concept of marriage. It’s just that people are too busy and have too many things to worry about. Divorce or not won’t change their current lives.

Many couples have begun to live apart in two places. The marriage is only maintained by a marriage certificate. It doesn't matter whether they divorce or not. If they divorce, it will only give each other and themselves a relief.

Marriage is difficult or easy. Marriage binds two strangers into a family. Because of their different ideas, family education, and living habits, it is difficult not to conflict.

So, if you want a happy marriage, it is indispensable to have a well-matched couple when you get married. Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of three families. Only when they are well matched can there be less friction. Is there any hope of getting back together after divorce?

Many couples have reached the end of their relationship when they divorce. The couple is as hostile as enemies and wants to cut each other into pieces. If a couple does divorce, whether they can get back together depends on the reason for the divorce.

First of all, the reason for divorce involves major mistakes. The most unforgivable things in marriage are betrayal and violence. Infidelity in marriage is disrespectful to the marriage and irresponsible to oneself.

Domestic violence people are the most incompetent people. They may give you warmth before marriage and shake their fists at you after marriage. People like this should leave as soon as possible and don't kidnap yourself with soft hearts.

In the above two situations, it is difficult for marriages to get back together. Especially for domestic violence, it is best to get out of the misery as soon as possible. Don't jump out of the fire pit and get back in again.

Then, the reason for divorce was due to accumulated conflicts over time.

If husband and wife cannot be considerate, intolerant, and cannot communicate smoothly, conflicts will arise.

If one conflict is not resolved, a new one will arise. The constant superposition of conflicts will make the two people drift further and further apart. In the end, the relationship between the couple will become weaker and weaker.

After the relationship faded, the couple continued to quarrel and could not understand each other. In the end, they chose to divorce. Couples like this already have a thorn in each other's heart, and there is no other reason to get back together except for the sake of their children.

In short, it does not mean that couples cannot get back together after divorce. It depends on the reason for the divorce. But the chance of getting back together after divorce is low because both people know each other too well and are unwilling to change. To sum up,

The divorce rate nationwide dropped by 50% in the first half of the year, not because people’s views on marriage have changed, but because of cumbersome divorce procedures, the physical and mental health of children, and other reasons.