Woman, I am confused...

Let me tell you a story

"Eating in the East and Staying in the West"

Original text

As the saying goes: Qi people have women, two People ask for it. The son of the east family is ugly but rich, and the son of the west family is good but poor. The parents couldn't resolve their doubts, so they asked their daughter and decided what she wanted: "It's hard to accuse the speaker of being partial. Let me know it." It goes like this: "I want to eat in the east house and stay in the west house." This is a case of two sides.

Translation

Legend: Someone in Qi State had a daughter, and two families came to propose marriage. The man from the host family is ugly but rich, and the man from the west family is handsome but poor.

The parents were hesitant and asked their daughter, "If you want her to decide for herself who she wants to marry, if it's difficult to say it, just show your arm and let us know what you mean."

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The daughter exposed her arms. My parents were surprised and asked why. The daughter said: "I want to eat at the host's house and stay at the west's house."

This is the so-called twosomes!

Impressions

After reading the story of "Eating and Staying", I feel how endless human desires are, just like the girl in the story greedily wants to absorb all the food at the same time. Both have their own advantages. There is nothing wrong with pursuing the best of both worlds, but you must also understand yourself correctly and correct your mentality. There is no such thing as having the best of both worlds.

This is also a satire on those greedy people who want to take advantage of everything. It tells us: people should not always be so greedy. Those who are content are always happy, just like "fish and bear's paws". We can't have both, so when we want to bet on the feast of life, we can only get the essence from it.

Everyone wants to make their life perfect, but most people will control their desires, but your girl will not control herself, so if she can’t get her mentality right, even if you love her very much, you will forget about her. You can't get her, but being with her will only make you more depressed, because you can't meet all her requirements, and she will never be satisfied. There are not a few people like this in life around you, especially women. They can't understand themselves correctly. , they only know how to pursue a happy life, regardless of other people's feelings, and don't know how to consider the people they love. They divorce and remarry again and again, hurting all the people who love her.