There are many smart people in life, so we might as well play dumb.

Jingjing is my brother's new girlfriend. My little brother is older than me, but his girlfriend is one year younger than me. So when I go home for the New Year, I am most worried about how to address others. Fortunately, other girls are lively and cheerful, so they call me by my first name, so I regard her as a friend of my peers. However, this seems to break the rules in the eyes of adults, especially when she first met my mother during the Spring Festival. She really asked directly, "What should I call you? I should call you sister by seniority, but you are about the same age as my mother, so you can call me aunt. " My mother was unhappy at that time, thinking that if you really want to marry my brother, you should know your seniority, so you didn't give people a red envelope when you first met, and then you went home to predict with us. It shouldn't be long.

I understand that she tells the truth in front of my mother, but from my ideological education, I dare not be so straightforward. Jingjing's straightforward personality may be related to her family and growing environment.

Jingjing's hometown is the same as ours, but her parents came out early to work hard and bought a house in Shenzhen with great foresight. Jingjing followed her grandmother through high school in her hometown. After she went to college in other places, her grandmother was picked up by her parents. She went to Shenzhen immediately after graduation, and with the support of her parents and her own efforts, she had her own small apartment, so now the whole family has become a new generation of Shenzhen people. Because the conditions for coming out of a small family are not bad, plus the love of family members and the smooth life, Jingjing has the capital to live freely.

It stands to reason that a good-looking post-85 s sister, who has a house in Shenzhen and went to college, is not a little better than an honest uncle who is much older than her and has little money. Although there are still many remarks about true love regardless of age and money in this world, in Shenzhen, a materialistic and colorful world, I think simple love is too difficult, at least I vaguely think they are not that simple. I don't know who else saw the clue except me. Anyway, apart from my mother's dissatisfaction, I haven't heard anyone say anything else. I only know that this year's Spring Festival, grandparents who are looking forward to holding their little grandchildren are very happy.

My doubts about the relationship between my uncle and Jingjing became more certain after the Chinese New Year. I haven't seen any news of Jingjing in my uncle's circle of friends since they returned to Shenzhen together in the first month. I usually go to work and climb mountains on weekends. Jingjing's circle of friends is full of scenes of eating and playing with friends, but there are no uncles. Their worlds no longer intersect, as if they have never appeared in each other's lives. But in the family group we built, Jingjing occasionally came out to take a dip and chat with us. I don't know what her intention is to go home with my uncle for the New Year, to help a friend cope with the urge to get married at home, or just for fun. Anyway, her enthusiasm and sincerity at that time really infected our family, and her filial piety to grandparents really made their lives a little more hopeful. If my uncle and Jingjing don't confess, I'd rather believe that they will be together for grandparents.

My colleague Fangfang graduated from a famous university and had a good job before. Later she followed her boyfriend to our company. The leader of her department is a middle-aged man in his forties. It is said that his education is not high, but he has worked here for 10 years, and he is also a veteran of the company. Fangfang not only has the aura of a famous school, but also has strong ability. She always gets to the bottom of everything, and sometimes she is embarrassed to ask the leader why.

After she took the job, she accidentally found that there was a problem of double payment in a business followed by her former colleague. The most important thing is that this matter has been approved by the leaders. If we dig out the old accounts now, it is equivalent to overturning some conclusions that the leaders have closed before. Some old colleagues couldn't stand it any longer, fearing that this clueless girl didn't understand the way of the world, and motioned Fangfang not to pursue this matter again, otherwise she offended the leader and didn't know how to die, so she turned a blind eye. Anyway, it's not illegal to play dumb, sometimes it's too serious and you will hurt yourself.

After all, Fangfang is too young. On balance, she felt that she still had to report the matter to the leader. I didn't expect the leader to support Fangfang in order to save some losses for the company. After all, he has worked in the company for so many years, and he has made his personal face and company interests very clear. Although he also knows that overturning his previous conclusions will make jokes catch some small handles, at least he can bear the mistakes and responsibilities. Because of this incident, the leaders not only didn't embarrass Fangfang, but also paid more attention to her in future work.

From the world of the workplace, old colleagues are the smartest people. Fangfang's insistence at this time is a bit silly, because once his leader shirks responsibility, she is likely to be the one who was fired, or suppressed in her future work. However, Fangfang is very lucky this time. She not only adhered to her principles, but also recognized the leadership. Perhaps Fangfang knows better that if her stupidity can persist in herself, it is the place of stupidity.

The 4-year-old son recently entered a rebellious period, curious about everything and unwilling to listen to any discipline. Every day after work, I hear my husband's endless reprimand. I can hardly listen to some malicious words, but I can only listen quietly for the sake of United front. Although the little guy dare not resist directly, he can turn a deaf ear selectively or pout and disobey orders. More often, in the face of reprimand, he has been able to reach the state of no one watching.

The little guy is calm. At this time, he became hysterical and became a husband. Condemnation inevitably turned into force. Although the little guy is obedient when he is beaten, who knows if there are 10 thousand unwilling people in his heart. Who can say how bad and naughty such a small child can be? At best, he is just a nobody who has begun to have his own ideas and opinions. He just doesn't like being forced to do something by adults or being told not to do anything. So blindly ordering him or doing everything for him will make him feel that he has no freedom and no sense of accomplishment.

Compared with my husband's scolding for ordering them to eat, my multiple-choice question of "Do you want to play for a while before meals or do you want to play for a long time after meals" and the question of free discussion seem to make the little guys take the initiative to serve. For lazy mothers like me, I am actually more willing to liberate them, because this is actually liberating myself. So when faced with some problems, I found that playing dumb and saying that I didn't know how to find a way to arouse his enthusiasm. Every time you do something slowly, the little guy finishes it in a hurry and then looks smug. This weakness is really cute.

There are many people with high IQ in this world. They can see the essence of things at a glance and analyze data and risks keenly. However, many times their cleverness will also make others feel that they are useless and that life is hopeless. The world is more of ordinary people with average IQ. Even children of several years old know to seek a sense of accomplishment from life, let alone adults who have lived for so many years. Therefore, dressing up stupidly in time can give life more hope and make life more possible.