Chatting with a long-distance boyfriend

1. Make fun of each other and say more humorous words. According to relevant surveys, the breakup rate of couples with positive and optimistic personality will be lower than that of couples who get along well, because optimism can help couples get more positive energy. They tease each other like friends, often use some humorous language, and have many more topics, which will enhance the emotional concentration between couples. Even across the Wan Li, across the mobile phone screen, you can laugh happily. 2. Talk more sweet words and stay close. It is very important for men and women in long-distance love to keep close relationship. They have never met. If you don't talk more sweet words, this love won't be like love, so even if you are separated by mobile phone screens, please call each other by nicknames. Sometimes you can have pornographic jokes or send a beautiful selfie. You often discuss your changes together and look at photos to get rid of strangeness. 3. Discuss more topics that you are both interested in. If you want to chat, you must have a topic that interests both of you. It is better to have some harmless arguments, so much the better. Entertainment, gossip, movies, books and sports are all topics you can talk about. If not, I suggest you try to cultivate some hobbies. 4. You can talk about the sweetness of the past, the time to meet next time, recall and discuss the future. This is the best topic for couples to talk about. Recalling the sweetness of the past together can invisibly narrow the distance between you and keep that intimacy. You can even make a photo album, which contains intimate photos of you going out to play together before, plus some funny and humorous language, and then send it to your long-distance boyfriend for him to remember with you. In addition, you can also discuss the meeting when you call. 5. If there is no theme, create one. The above topics are all about every emotion. If you can't find a topic, create one yourself. In short, don't let silence and embarrassment fill the whole screen. For example, before the silence comes, you can ask: What's the weather like there? Then I heard that it will rain these days. I remember it rained the last time we traveled together. How interesting ... and so on. Your topic does not have to be the same as mine. After all, everyone's experience is different. As long as we can extend the topic when there is no topic, we can adjust the atmosphere. Are you afraid that there is no topic for long-distance love to call? Chatting with long-distance boyfriend II. Try to make daily chores more interesting. Almost every long-distance relationship will ask each other some daily topics, such as "What did you eat today" and "What are you doing". You won't find any problems in the first month or two, but after a long time, you will gradually wear away your consciousness and even have the idea of giving up this relationship. When things are not interesting, we can expand our thinking, find some interesting points from ordinary life and try to share them with each other in humorous language. This way of chatting can increase the interest of the topic, and will not make your boyfriend feel bored, and the other party will be more willing to chat with you. Second, try to create new topics. Although couples in different places can't meet every day, there will still be many new topics, such as social news hotspots, what happened in the entertainment circle, online jokes and so on. , can be a chat topic. These topics are endless, and naturally there will be no shortage of new topics. Find these topics to discuss and communicate with each other every day, and maybe generate will come up with new ideas! Third, praising each other for maintaining a long-distance relationship requires higher emotional concentration. Usually meet less, and the emotional concentration that both sides can experience is definitely not as high as that of ordinary couples. If you are not enthusiastic when chatting, you will make the other person feel insecure and even doubt and distrust you. Therefore, when chatting and communicating, we should praise each other more, let each other feel deep love and promote the development of emotional relationship. Fourth, it takes a long period of communication and contact to cultivate a sense of tacit understanding in chatting. The most important thing in chatting is to receive the "stalk" thrown by the other party, rather than deliberately joking to cater to the other party. This can't be done by simple study. Every time you chat, you need to listen to each other's real thoughts and deeply understand each other's feelings, in order to understand each other's thinking habits and personality concepts. Others will find the conversation between lovers boring, but only the two of them can appreciate the fun. Chatting with long-distance boyfriend 3 1. Looking for the same language. Lovers from other places spend little time together. Many times they don't know what each other is doing, and there is nothing to cooperate with each other. Many lovers will be annihilated in this degree. So pay attention to each other's reaction when chatting. You can't talk about everything with admiration If he doesn't listen to anything, most of them don't have any interaction, which means he is not interested in discussing the topic with you. You should change the topic of discussion at once to prevent the other person from being bored. There is no frequency of chatting with you. Girls should learn to coquetry in front of their boyfriends and provoke boys' desire for protection under moderate conditions, but not too frequently. 2. Always care about each other's experience. That is, in the whole process of your chat, did he express his mentality with you, such as his views on one thing, his inner experience, and his response to the pressure of daily life and work? You should give them enough comfortable conditions to accept his mentality, give them relief and understanding, and don't have to get angry and hang up for no reason. Cold violence is the most taboo in other places. You should know more about his experience, give help and support, and let him rely on you emotionally. Create an opportunity to do something together once in a while. No matter how strong the feelings are, there will be many substantive memories, which will reduce the concentration and hope of each other's feelings. Moderately create opportunities to meet, travel together, or watch TV dramas, go to the library, etc. , enhance feelings. If you cherish this feeling of foreign love, you must ensure mutual trust. There is no need to be cold-blooded when encountering differences. It is best not to spend the night. After all, without chess pieces, the mood is very easy to cool down. Spend more time chatting and make time for meetings.