Dealing with a man with two feet on both sides.

First, look for clues. In fact, if a boy has two feet, we can find them from his clues. First, we will find that boys are becoming more and more indifferent to girls. Even when we ask them for anything, they are perfunctory and lose the sweetness of their previous love period. You might say it's normal, but if he smiles into his cell phone occasionally. And even if I do something else, I will take my mobile phone with me to keep it from touching you. This shows that he has a ghost in his heart, and there are some things in his mobile phone that he can't show you. Through some small details, we can preliminarily judge whether this boy is cheating. After you have a general understanding in your mind, don't fight too fiercely. When we find that a person has two feet, we should face it bravely and deal with it calmly. We must tell ourselves to face it bravely and accept this reality. Don't force each other by crying, making noise or hanging, which may make men feel disgusted and make this relationship more fragile. Don't ask mistress to hit her, and at the same time, you can't do anything that hurts yourself. 3. Find out why a person has two feet in the same boat. Usually, men do this for a certain reason. Maybe he can't get what he wants from you, so a man needs to find another woman to satisfy his psychological comfort. It is also possible that you two have been together for too long, lacking the passion of the previous love period, and men will feel tired. Therefore, as a woman, we should always remind ourselves that to be an interesting person, we should not give up on ourselves and lack management just because we are married. I believe that every man doesn't like to see his wife is a yellow-faced woman when he comes home. 4. Re-understanding men For a man who has two feet on the same boat, it is necessary to analyze why he has such a phenomenon. Maybe they still love you in their hearts and just want to find someone different from you outside to adjust their lives. At this time, what we need to do most is to analyze whether this man wants to be with other girls on the spur of the moment, or whether he has no feelings for you, so he chose to play both roles. If this man still loves you, you can choose to forgive. Because it is so difficult for two people to meet among millions of people, why don't we cherish it? 5, influence men when we find a man with two feet on both sides, we love him very much. We might as well try to influence them with love and make them feel warm, which women outside can't give. You can also use the reason of men's feet to make them guilty and soft-hearted. 6. Choose to leave. This is the last method, because if you make a man stop loving you, no matter how much we pester him, the final result will be the same, and he will still leave you. Then we choose to leave in the most free and easy way, although the process will feel very painful, but it is also a relief for two people. Dealing with people who have two feet on the same boat 2 Characteristics of people who have two feet on the same boat 1. He will have a fixed appointment with you. In order to have two women at the same time, he must arrange the appointment time reasonably, such as staying with you on Saturday and staying with her on Sunday, so that he will not muddle through the appointment time. Tentative suggestion: Give him some surprise dates, invite him at different times, or wait for him at home, and judge his true feelings by his surprised, embarrassed or flustered expression. 2. Delaying taking you to his home is the easiest place to expose details. With ulterior motives, he was afraid of accidentally finding clues for you, so he found various excuses not to let you go to his house. In addition, he will hide the intimate relationship between you in front of family, friends and colleagues, so that you always have an unreasonable feeling. Tentative suggestion: find a reason to block him under his building and let him take you home. When you are with people you know very well, do some intimate actions intentionally or unintentionally to let others know your relationship at a glance. Always pretend that he is busy at work. Sometimes he seems to be idle, but he often keeps telling you that he is busy and under great pressure at work. He must go to other lovers' dates like this. A statistical survey found that men who are busy at work have more opportunities to have women than men who are not busy. Test suggestion: Talk to his colleagues when you are free, or call his office to see if he is really busy. 4. A man who has a bad memory for you can't remember who he spent his birthday or holiday with, and who he watched movies or plays with. Some savvy veterans will use notebooks instead of memories, or use computers to help record. Tentative suggestion: If something happens, deliberately test whether he remembers where he took you, look through his notebook, wallet or computer records, and of course, don't let go of the ticket stubs of invoices, movie tickets and admission tickets to see if he has left any evidence that he traveled with other women. 5. Men who are reluctant to spend money to buy two boats spend a lot of money and have more opportunities to pay the bill. He wants to pretend that he has a lot of expenses. I hope you can share some bills. The more you are willing to pay the bill, the more times he will ask you out; If you refuse to pay, he will ask you out less. Another obvious feature is to hide his' wealth' and never let you know how much money he has, because he must prepare two expenses. Detective trick: always pay attention to where his money goes. When you find that he is short of a sum of money, it is time for him to show his fox's tail. 6. He has traces of other women. He has been intimate with women, and it is impossible not to be feminine. He may also like to wear some men's perfume to cover it up; He always smells of cream on his face or hands, and of course there may be traces of lipstick or powder. Detective trick: kiss his cheek immediately after meeting, pay attention to the taste, and see if there are any clues left by other women on the collar or chest. 7, more clothes with different tastes, men and women will definitely give gifts to each other, you will find that he has some inexplicable gifts or clothes with completely different tastes from you, and the gifts you gave him are either gone or collected by him. He hid the gift from you, which means that the other party is looking for him. Probe tactics: insist that he use the gifts and clothes you gave him. If you find him reluctant, you should be on your guard. Dealing with people who have two feet on both sides. When the dragon sees the first thing, he can't see the tail. People who have two feet on both sides are always unpredictable. When the dragon sees the first thing, he can't see the tail. I can't find him every time I want to. He only appears when he wants to. He will deliberately hide his itinerary so that you don't know everything. When you ask questions, he always uses being busy as an excuse to shut you up. A single-minded man, sitting upright, is not only not afraid of your checking the itinerary, but also will contact you actively and report his situation to you. A two-faced man will hide and prevaricate because he has done a lot of things that disappoint you. You can see his anxiety from his speech. Important festivals are always accompanied by important days and important people. In the process of love, a man's performance in festivals can show his attitude towards you. A man who really loves you, no matter how busy he is, will take time to accompany you on important days, such as Qixi, Valentine's Day and Christmas Eve, which couples often celebrate. A restless man is always absent from important festivals, because he will juggle between two or more women and be tired of coping. He may make various excuses, such as going on a business trip and working overtime, but you can hear the smell of lies from his words. Sometimes, it is difficult for him to justify himself, or he is inadvertently exposed by people around him. The secrecy work is very good, and men who don't let you touch privacy pay special attention to personal privacy. They carry their mobile phones with them, so they don't give you a chance to get close, and the accounts and passwords of social platforms won't let you know. He won't ask about your privacy in exchange for his personal space. On the surface, it looks generous and democratic, but in fact it is just for self-protection. You will find that he is always careful, although he is in the same room, it makes people feel at arm's length. His heart is not on you, which makes you feel that he is far away. His chat record can't stand the inquiry, so he will be extra careful not to reveal any clues. It is also too concerned to make people suspicious. Those social software, if you don't check it, it's okay. If you check it, it's a surprise. There are always some things that are difficult to give a reasonable explanation. A man with two feet on two boats will always do some incredible things in his daily life. For example, when you are particularly concerned about a certain opposite sex, he always excuses himself by being a friend. But you know very well that his concern has transcended the boundaries of friends. When playing with his friends, their casual eyes and words make you feel that he has done something wrong behind your back. Sometimes, a joke played by a friend actually reflects a fact. For example, I saw him with another girl. They may remind you in good faith, depending on whether you care or not. When you question him, he is always faltering and nervous. I explained it for a long time, but it was hard to convince people and there were many doubts.