What are the two classic words of exhortation in Empresses in the Palace's 48 episodes?

Mei: "Since you can't get it, there's no need to be sad."

Text: "It's easier said than done."

Eyebrow: "You are a big man, how did you become so wordy?"? If you like her, it doesn't matter whether she likes you or not. You just have to stick to your heart. If you don't like her, just let her go. Why make yourself so embarrassed and make people laugh in vain? "

Text: "I didn't expect that Queen Hui Ai, who has always been dignified and steady, was so powerful when she spoke."

Mei: "It's nothing, just persuading others to persuade yourself. All the same. "

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