To make a woman fascinated by chatting, pay attention to these points. Someone who has experienced it will teach you how to do it.

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To make a woman fascinated by chatting, pay attention to these points. Someone who has experienced it will teach you how to do it

I want to systematically learn how to strike up a conversation and chat online. , dating, confession. Improve your emotional intelligence and speaking skills, crack the code of female attraction, and turn love from passive to active. Pay attention to Princess Number, emotional intelligence and love skills.

This is a member content, a problem that most boys will encounter, and many boys die young due to this section.

What I teach you is not how to say a certain sentence. Teaching it word for word is useless. You need to know the mentality and method of dealing with problems.

In the relationship between the sexes, girls are often the passive one and the one being actively pursued, at least in China.

When girls face different boys, they often eliminate inferior suitors through tests. Girls don’t waste their time on bad boys.

The pursuit of inferior quality does not mean that you have no money or good looks.

It is a man who has low self-esteem, lacks self-confidence, and blindly pursues the approval of girls.

If a man doesn’t even recognize himself, a girl will even less recognize him. This is the natural screening mechanism of girls.

Several of the most common screening mechanisms:

For example, a girl says: "Send me a red envelope"

If the relationship has not been confirmed yet, If you obey, the girl will assume that your value is not as good as hers, and you can only be led by the girl.

What should you say?

"What do you mean, you consider me your boyfriend?" or "I only send red envelopes to my girlfriend."

This is an anti-mechanism, I am a principled person Men, if you want to get a red envelope, you can, unless you are my girlfriend, and I am not a casual person.

Another example:

The girl said: "It's so boring, please ask for a date."

As mentioned in the previous article, this is a fishing process for girls. Blow out all the horny backup boys, and if you really go, ask the girls out for a meal, drinks, and fun. What you can get is probably just her adding "payer" to your note.

What should you do if you encounter this situation?

Just ignore it and invite a few of your friends to have a big meal. Then he sent her a private message and sent her some pictures of food to seduce her. Said it was delicious, would you like to come over?

If you have such an attitude, you will not be depressed and anxious when chasing a girl, and you will not revolve around her, wondering whether love will come. This is also a manifestation of a sense of lack of need.

Another example:

A girl says: “I don’t like immature men”

If you are trying to prove that you are a mature man, go and seek out girls. If you accept it, you're dead. Confident boys will not try to prove themselves at this time.

Taking the initiative to cater to girls and blindly seeking approval from girls will make you appear weak. You will hand over the initiative in love to the other party. You can only let girls pick your points and have no capital to make demands.

What to do?

The correct reply is: I know a very mature and stable boy. Do you want to introduce him to you?

Then send the girl a photo of a bald mature man.

Another example:

Some girls are very pretentious and have princess disease, but this cannot be tolerated.

The girl said: "This thing tastes really bad."

If it really tastes bad, forget it.

If it’s not unpalatable and the girl just wants to act coquettishly, but you say: Yes, yes, it tastes terrible.

This is too cowardly.

In fact, it’s not just about love, it’s also about interpersonal relationships. A boy acts too weak and humble in front of a girl, and doesn’t dare to express his true thoughts or be a challenging man. . This boy will only be treated as a soft persimmon.

What to do?

If it’s not really unpalatable, just take her share and say, “It’s best if you don’t eat it. I like it so much. I’ll finish it all by myself.”

The real attraction is to make girls feel that you have principles, will not please, dare to say no, and have your own opinions.

I picked 4 universal formulas from member content:

1: It depends on your performance.

2: Your imagination can be richer.

3: It turns out that this is what you care about.

4: Thank you for your recognition.

"Send me a red envelope"

"Look at your performance"

"Why are you dressed like a winter melon"

" You can be more imaginative."

"Your phone case is so ugly."

"So you care about this."

" Your jokes are not funny at all”

“Thank you for your approval”