It's ridiculous to want to get married without a house. The blind date man responded in this way, and the 35-year-old woman was very happy. what do you think?

The world always treats women and men unequally. Although men and women are equal, people always seem to be biased against women. The most obvious point is that once a woman is over 30 years old, many people around her, including her parents, will "discriminate". In the eyes of these people, age is the most shameful place for women. They think that once a woman is over 30, her sense of value will decrease, and the only place that can reflect her sense of existence is marriage. If a woman is not married after the age of 30, she is a loser!

However, many examples in this world tell us that a successful woman will never be limited by her age. The charm of a woman will only become more and more attractive with age, and age will never degrade her. With the growth of age and experience, women will have their own views on many foods, and their knowledge will become richer and richer, which will make them more and more attractive.

But there are still many people in society who are biased against women, especially older women. No matter how excellent this woman is, once she is over 30 years old, many people will be discouraged, including employers. In marriage and love, older women have become the target of public criticism.

But some men obviously don't have the Excellence of the other side, but they use the woman's age to "belittle" the other side and let the other side accommodate themselves. Most women who marry such men will not feel better, because from the beginning, men have never respected women, and even if women are excellent, they can't get their husbands' approval. Such a man can't give a woman happiness.

What kind of man measures a woman by her age? Probably a man who has no real ability to compete with women can only use the age of women to highlight his sense of superiority and try to hide his incompetence and inferiority.

When a woman meets such a man, she must stay away, otherwise it will bring you endless pain.

Cousin is a living example. She got married at the age of 30, and the other party was introduced by relatives. My cousin didn't like him at first, but her parents urged her to get married and she chose to obey. The other party didn't respect her from the beginning, just because she was 30 years old and didn't get married, so even if all the conditions were average, even worse than her cousin, after marriage, she was still cocky and suppressed her cousin everywhere, as long as her cousin was close to other men.

This kind of man is not confident when he says he looks good, but selfish when he says he is ugly. Because he is not confident, he has to step on the pain points of people around him and try to find his own sense of existence. He didn't consider other people's feelings, selfish and incompetent!

Recently, a female reader told me her blind date story. She thought she met a high-quality man, but she didn't expect this high-quality man to be a man beyond gold and jade.

Hello, I always think that marriage is my best thing, and others have no right to interfere, so I have always had a clear goal for marriage, that is, to find a man who is "evenly matched" in all aspects, but it is difficult, not easy, not that I ask too much, but really not easy.

One thing I can't accept is that the other party doesn't know how to respect and objectify women, which makes me particularly disgusted. Not long ago, I met such a man. That was introduced by my aunt, who said that the other person was tall and handsome, but divorced and hard to find, but he must be a good man. He said the reason for the divorce was that his ex-wife was unfaithful. I have no prejudice against divorced men, but I think he will cherish marriage more, so I decided to visit them.

When I arrived at the appointed restaurant, my first impression was ok, but the chat afterwards was not very pleasant. He has no respect for women, especially leftover women in their thirties like me. From his words, I can find that she is full of contempt and even disdain for me, and directly said, "Women should not expect too much. It will be difficult to get married at the age of 30, not to mention that you are already 35." When he said this, I felt very sad. Then he said, "Everyone is an adult. More directly, I'm not planning a wedding, and there won't be a bride price. When the house divorced, I gave it to my ex-wife and rented it temporarily. " I'm a little surprised that he said such a thing with such confidence. When he saw me like this, he said, "It's not bad for an older woman like you to find a man like me!"

I was not convinced and said, "I have a house, a car and a deposit, but I really can't climb up with you, an old divorced man!" " "No matter how old I am, there will still be women waiting in line for me to marry. No matter how good you are, you can only be chosen. "

I really didn't expect that he looked down on women under his gentle appearance. I am too lazy to pester him, saying that we are not suitable and leave my own meal money. Unexpectedly, he became angry from embarrassment and said, "An older woman like you deserves it!" I have been forbearing to introduce people, but I didn't expect him to go too far. I didn't hesitate at that time, threw water all over him and said, "It's ridiculous to want to get married without a house!" , and then left.

I don't really hate that he doesn't have a house, but he said that about me, so I had to go back, mainly because his attitude made me uncomfortable. When I got back, I told my aunt that it was not appropriate, and I didn't take it to heart. I didn't expect that not long ago, menstruation told me that this blind date told others that I was old and picky, saying that I deserved it. I'm glad to hear the news.

My aunt said I was heartless, and I said I was lucky not to be together, otherwise I didn't know he was such a tasteless person.

I think a man's character is the most important, followed by three views, and finally the external conditions. If there is neither, then I'd rather be single. Marriage is not a necessity for me, but I won't refuse. I think marriage should be a happy experience, not a necessary task.

Bian Xiao's summary:

Many people are prejudiced against older women, thinking that once a woman is over 30 and still unmarried, she will definitely demand too much, and this kind of woman deserves to be dumped. But in fact, many older single women didn't stay because they were looking for a Gao Fushuai. They were hurt, so they didn't dare to accept new relationships easily, and some wanted to find a way to leave voluntarily. Neither should be criticized.

Each of us has our own way to go, whether single or married, this is just a lifestyle we choose, so we don't need to be too hard on others. The men in the article are really rude, don't know how to respect women, and take themselves too seriously. Whether the reason for his divorce from his ex-wife is true or not, most women can't stand such a man, because a good relationship between husband and wife must be equal and respectful.

Divorced children have no house or car, and they are not going to give bride price. They also said that women climbed up on their own. If you really want to find a woman with excellent conditions in all aspects, you really can't find her. It doesn't matter if you are poor, but a poor man must not marry. He just wants to marry you, do laundry, cook and take care of the children. Remember! You are not a nanny!

When a woman chooses the other half, whether you are an older woman or not, please remember one thing: this man's character must pass! Otherwise, stay away from loving you again!