Dare to talk to strangers, but dare not talk when you are familiar with them. Why?

First of all, dare to talk to strangers and guess that you really want to make friends with them.

But then you find that you have finished all the preliminary understanding, so there is nothing to say, so most people have become casual acquaintances with you.

This is a preconceived idea. Strangers are strangers. After a preliminary understanding, there is nothing to talk about. I think you should have a certain purpose when you talk to others. No nonsense, you are very independent. You don't want to ask for help or trouble others because of a trivial matter In fact, talking nonsense is not annoying, but makes people closer. If you only speak with purpose, you want to know what you know, but share more. Therefore, such people generally don't make friends easily, but if they make friends, they must be very close friends.

I hope you can open your heart, learn to share your daily life with others, make more friends and talk nonsense. This is not a good thing. I hope you can do it.

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Hello, I'm Sister Chun, and it's my pleasure to answer your question. Because strangers are unfamiliar with themselves, they have no real influence on their hobbies, social status, privacy, social circle and so on. And they are not afraid to call a spade a spade and offend others, so in front of strangers, most people are very frank and calm, not too nervous, and communication will be more natural. Between acquaintances, they are more clear about their own situation, and they will also have contact with people and things around them, even involving personal interests. Therefore, acquaintances sometimes leave three points. First, they are afraid that their casual boasting will be exposed. Second, I am afraid that my own interests will be affected. Third, I am afraid of offending people by saying the wrong thing and leaving a bad impression in the circle of acquaintances. I hope my answer will satisfy you.

Dare to talk to strangers, but when you are familiar with them, you dare not say anything. This is due to people's own pursuit of security and stability.

I believe that everyone has encountered this situation, especially on the Internet, across the screen, there is a sense of security brought by distance. I once talked to a netizen about many wonderful customers I met at work. I am willful, angry and want to scold my mother. He also talked about helping Xiong Haizi with his homework. I can't teach a word several times, and I want to go crazy in minutes; I even told my mother-in-law what my difficulties were.

But I didn't dare to say anything later, because the more he knew, the less secure I felt. I am afraid that I am invisible to others, and I am afraid that others will bring some uncertain things to my life.

Therefore, I hope if we have any ideas, we can write them down. There is no need to talk to strangers, it will only increase our troubles.

Because of a stranger, he doesn't know everything about you. When chatting with them, he can say anything and ask anything. There are many topics, such as where are you from? What's your name? How old are you? Then talk for a long time and you will know that two people have the same temper and hobbies. If we are acquaintances, we already know each other's personality and hobbies, and then there is nothing to talk about when we are together every day, and some of us can't talk together. Well, we fight with each other.

People pay attention to face and self-esteem. Familiar people can know everything about themselves as well as everything they say and do. Therefore, when speaking and doing things in front of familiar people, we must grasp the measure and scale, and don't let familiar people joke or accuse them, making them feel embarrassed or even hurting their self-esteem. So everything is passive, Nuo Nuo hesitates, but his hands and feet are tied, so some words and things are not open in front of familiar people. On the contrary, these things don't exist in front of strangers, or they are relatively few, because they don't know each other's names, let alone their habits, personality, temper, conduct, and even their ability to speak and do things, so it is impossible to say that good or bad does not involve face, and the scale does not affect face and self-esteem, so they are open, dare to express and dare to speak! Of course, I'm afraid to say it after I get familiar with it. Apart from the above factors, it may be that there is no * * related to language disharmony. I don't want to talk to you. I dare not say it!

First of all, dare to talk to strangers and guess that you really want to make friends with them.

But then you find that you have finished all the preliminary understanding, so there is nothing to say, so most people have become casual acquaintances with you.

This is a preconceived idea. Strangers are strangers. After a preliminary understanding, there is nothing to talk about. I think you should have a certain purpose when you talk to others. No nonsense, you are very independent. You don't want to ask for help or trouble others because of a trivial matter In fact, talking nonsense is not annoying, but makes people closer. If you only speak with purpose, you want to know what you know, but share more. Therefore, such people generally don't make friends easily, but if they make friends, they must be very close friends.

I hope you can open your heart, learn to share your daily life with others, make more friends and talk nonsense. This is not a good thing. I hope you can do it.

Because I didn't know the stranger at first, I thought I was very open-minded, but after a long time, I saw that he had a personality problem, so I didn't dare to talk more. It is also for this reason that I have met people for a long time. For such people, we should always keep our distance and don't talk much, especially those who snitch. We will be honest with you and stay away from those who snitch for a little advantage.

I just talked to a stranger because I don't know anything about him. There is no harm. I can talk about anything, and the other person is willing to listen. Later, I gradually got familiar with it, and there is nothing to say. There are many such examples in my life, most of which are introverted, immature and unconfident, unable to let go, and very concerned about other people's comments. You can cultivate your self-confidence, communicate with others more, let go, and slowly you will find that you can do as well as others.

I talked too much and found that I exposed my background. I'd better take it easy [cover my face]

First of all, it's my pleasure to answer your question. I dare to talk to strangers. Just because I am a stranger, everyone doesn't know, don't know, don't know, so there are many things to talk about, and there are many topics to talk about, because I don't have to worry about anything. Like friends, I still have concerns about many things. If I get acquainted and don't want to talk about it, I may find you inappropriate.