What should I do if the generation gap with my parents is too deep to communicate at all?

Maybe you said I should communicate with them and make them understand my thoughts, but it's impossible. What they think is that nothing you say is useless, and they won't listen to anything you say. They always think that I am still a child, so children should listen to adults. They always think they are older and more experienced than me. What they think is right, and I will always be wrong in their eyes! They want me to take the postgraduate entrance examination, and they want me to take the civil service examination. In short, taking this test is beyond my ability, not to mention considering my preferences. It seems that I am a genius, and they want me to work hard to reach the standard and talk about marriage after I am 30 years old. . . I'm disappointed. It is true that I never listen to them. Because of this, when I get home, my mother likes to show obvious disappointment. When she looked at me, she closed her eyes and shook her head, which made my life hell. Living in such a family is very tiring. I am a person who has nothing to pursue. As long as I feel happy, I am satisfied with the status quo. I don't care what others think of me at all. I'm not afraid of others being useless and worthless. I'm just afraid of my parents, lest they stimulate me to be disappointed in me. After all, the people I care about most are them. I just hope they support me. O (︶ ︶ ︶ ︶ ︶ ︶ ︶ ︶ ︶ ︶ ︶ ︶. I wonder if there is a deep generation gap between you and your parents. What do you usually do? When it comes to excitement, one thing I find most uncomfortable is that they always like to compare me with others. As soon as they hear that their children are promising or have been admitted to something, they will immediately compare with me. People are more popular than others, and we can't always compare the advantages of others with our own shortcomings. There is no need for this society to compare them. They make me feel inferior, and sometimes I overthrow them with examples that are worse than myself. Sometimes I compare other people's parents with them in order to stimulate others, and the result is. . . Unless I really don't want to live, I really don't understand why my parents are always right. If you don't obey, you will be ignorant and even looked down upon by your elders and relatives. Are our parents really always right? I am very old, almost 26, and I have a boyfriend who has been dating for more than three years, far apart. If I really want to marry him, I have to give up many things, many of which are not what my parents want. I have a good relationship with him, and I am willing to give up what I should give up and stay with him, because he is a man worthy of my life. ? Chuang Chuang Ji