Why are more and more girls afraid to reveal that they have boyfriends?

Girls don't want to reveal that they have a boyfriend on social platforms, but they are duplicitous? Is it selfish to keep a spare tire if you don't love each other?

Are girls scum if they want to protect themselves?

Each of us lives in our own past. It takes a minute to get to know someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone, and finally, a lifetime to forget someone.

-"Bridges of Madison County"

Is it too difficult for a girl who doesn't want to reveal that she has a boyfriend? Think too much, not only because of the sense of security that boys can't afford, not to mention the uncertain future and the oath that can be broken by a quarrel. Long-distance love has more problems to face, and it is not a problem to say any distance, but it will not be so far apart if you want to be together.

Recently, I chatted with many female friends and found that they were silently unwilling to disclose their emotional experiences. Some divorced, some broke up, and some made new boyfriends. And these, in the distance, don't chat with them, just look at the circle of friends, I know nothing. Yes, who wants to show their wounds to others? In other words, what you think is sweet now is not guaranteed to become poison in the future. A boy who used to praise everywhere and set his girlfriend as the cover of his circle of friends has quietly changed other landscape photos. Couples with lovers' heads, are you okay? The emotional world seems to announce to the world that "I love you" is an indestructible wall around the periphery, but in fact, the world inside the wall is quietly sprouting, not to mention the gambling wall itself is a joke. What mistress doesn't know that her lover has a wife?

In fact, only a few relationships can go to the end, and marriage can lead to divorce. Nowadays, people don't feel desperate to love, because you are desperate and others are watching. Therefore, girls should leave a way out for themselves at any time, and think about how to continue your life without your so-called boyfriend and everything without him.

At this time, we talked about whether girls should expose their boyfriends on social platforms. If it's not your choice, it's your character. When you try your best to love a boy, of course, you want to show his goodness to the world. At the same time, is he trying to love you? Did he send you a photo? Did he introduce his real friends and family to you? When you were in love, did he let go to hunt other girls? If you are not sure, it is precisely because of the lack of security given by boys that you don't want to expose yourself easily. After all, in this society, dirty water is always poured on girls first.

If you care about other people's opinions and comments on you and don't want your life to be the talk of others after dinner, then you are very fragile, because you have made several boyfriends and are afraid to try new things, and you are annoyed because you are afraid that the boy you like will know about your past. Then, no matter how much you like this boy now, please be careful not to set up a couple's avatar in the WeChat circle of friends, not to send photos holding hands, not to send photos on any social platform, and not to take the initiative to confess. If you say something unpleasant, girls who take the initiative to confess will be looked down upon, and people who really like you will not let you say it first. The love you show, if it can be realized, is a beautiful memory; If not, it's just a pile of rubbish, and you can't delete it in the future. If you forget to put it down, others will help you remember it and pick it up. In the future, these clues can be fermented, which may not only be quarrels, but also unsolved knots. Those who say they don't care, I know, time will cure everything, but the scabbed wound will still hurt with a light touch and a heavy blow.

I don't think it's bad for girls to have a rich history of love. Excuse me, which girl is not single-minded in the face of her boyfriend at that time and wants to go to the end together and grow old together. However, due to many reasons, the family does not agree, the workplaces are too far apart, the enthusiasm of boys to cheat is not high, and the two can't see the future. The incumbent becomes the predecessor. I want to go to the end every time, but I fail every time. It's just this kind of failure, and it's not that the math exercises you learned are wrong. You need to think twice, because every time you look back on the past relationship, you will get deeper and deeper in the past. Since they are all young, they should look forward and accumulate new social experience. If a person is still using the portrait of a few years ago, I can say that TA lived in vain these years, because TA lived in a poor past, or lived in the glory that TA thought, and there is nothing worth remembering recently. We shouldn't be such people. Our memory should be updated frequently. We should remember more memorable things. The brain will help you make a choice. Those forgotten people and things are meaningful.

I hope every girl can start over like a blank sheet of paper when facing a new relationship. Don't entangle yourself or others' past, let others go and let yourself go. It's hard to meet the right person. Many times when you meet someone who seems a little right on the surface, you have to walk around and have a look. It doesn't mean that you should avoid contact with other members of the opposite sex when you are in love. On the contrary, it is necessary to have more contact with the opposite sex. Because only you know how many excellent people are out there, and then you will wonder if I fell in love because of loneliness and spiritual emptiness, and then I happened to meet someone and we spent a boring time together. The world is very big. You should be brave, go out more and meet different boys. Don't be like the girl in The Bridges of Madison County, who met her soul mate after marriage and felt powerless in the face of reality. Once the relationship is about money, you are a family. As you grow up, it becomes more and more difficult to think purely for yourself. You may struggle to maintain a broken marriage for the sake of children, which can be avoided before you think it over.

If a boy sends a message saying "I love you", don't be too happy. Maybe it's just a perfunctory or some purpose he wants to achieve. I cherish a psychological test to share with you. To understand a person's mind, you need to approach him quietly, look into his eyes, hold your breath, don't blink, look straight, and the person who dodges first is more affectionate! The avoidance here is not because he did something cheating behind his back and didn't dare to face you, but because no matter how arrogant he is at ordinary times, he is an ignorant, shy and childish boy in front of you. Maybe you can see the future you want in his blushing cheeks and his usual eyes. And these are the so-called love veterans who can't and can't learn by taking advantage of girls' unwillingness to pay.