Husband doesn't like doing housework and lying down when he comes home. What should I do?

Husband doesn't like work. First of all, we should find out why he doesn't want to do housework. Some men are lazy, which is a habitual problem and can be changed gradually; However, some men are a matter of ideas. They are generally male chauvinist and think that women should do housework, while men work outside all day and have no obligation to do housework. This conceptual problem has not been well reversed.

For the first kind of men, that is, men with lazy temper, women should communicate with them well and express their hard work and grievances at work. Besides being lazy, such a man still loves his wife. As long as the woman persuades and urges more times, it can always be changed. The two sides assign tasks to each other, such as the woman cooking and the man washing dishes. If they sometimes don't even want to do the assigned tasks, then the woman can lose her temper appropriately and take appropriate measures to stimulate according to her husband's personality. Once a habit is formed, lazy people will subconsciously do housework. The key is to urge them more in this process.

In view of the second concept, husbands who think that men don't have to do housework must first ensure that women can have a position in the family. This position is first reflected in the economy. The woman must have a job, and her income should be equal to that of the man, at least not too much. On the basis of this premise, we can have a communication position. If the woman has no real power at home, then the husband will not take your opinion seriously.

Doing housework is a trivial matter. When you encounter various things in the future, you will find that the man doesn't take the woman's opinion as an opinion at all. Therefore, to change the husband's view conceptually, we must first improve our material strength, change our attitude, and pursue a balance with him with confidence. In fact, such a big man's husband is very protective and has a strong desire to protect. As long as he guides and communicates well, they will also put aside their prejudices and understand his wife's hard work.