How can you forget love?

How to go on without pain, so hard to forget, and tell yourself to forget? That's self-deception. I don't have any hints when I face myself, because I won't forget it for a while. I really met something I really want to forget, but I can't forget it no matter how I vent it every day. I asked my friends for help. I used to tell myself every day that I forgot, but in fact, the more I remember, the more I want to forget. Over time, not only did I not forget, but I accumulated more and more, and the more I found depression. One way to forget things is to cooperate with time, and that is boredom. I remind myself every day, remember clearly, and keep thinking every day. The more things I hurt, the stronger I am. I have to take them out in the sun every day so that I can heal myself and hide in the dark, which will only get worse forever. I insist on thinking and saying every day. I can't stand it. It's only been three weeks. Keep mentioning it, but I can't remember it. More truly, thinking about it every day makes me feel bored and too lazy to think about it. I feel used to even thinking about it. It is an ordinary thing that is not worth mentioning. I was too lazy to mention it later. I think this is such a boring and absurd thing. Even if I did, it was just a cold joke. I thought it was boring at that time, and I was too lazy to mention it. Even if I really forgot before, what can I do? Sometimes I still think of it, but in this way, no matter what others say, I don't want to think about it myself, because I am stronger with him every day than forgetting, escaping and deceiving myself. I hope you can try this method, which may help you. Of course, people have different personalities and different effects, but this is my experience.