Unscripted Speech and Impromptu Speech: Workplace Application Edition - Author: Li Zhenshun

Publication date: 2017-7-1

Publisher: Beijing United Publishing House (Times Guanghua Planning)

Abstract:

This book writes the basic principles of unscripted speeches, several basic speech templates in real workplace scenarios, and provides some methods and concepts to improve workplace interpersonal relationships and enhance one's own competitiveness through workplace speeches.

Overall evaluation:

As a book published in 2017, the content seems a bit thin. The principles explained are principles that everyone understands, and the method of explanation is also relatively basic. The overall feeling is that it is an entry-level reading. The most valuable part is in the "gold mode", which junior students can use directly.

Only when you speak charmingly can you say "good relationship"

Remember to demand "equal dialogue"

Only by managing your emotions can you control your tongue

Don’t talk nonsense in these five kinds of things

How to deal with different kinds of people skillfully

Don’t be a “trouble maker”, be a “peacemaker”

It’s reasonable to be cold and break the ice

The three realms of speech

Three golden rules for overcoming stage fright

Five essential tips for speeches

Only by writing a good speech can you give a speech that is "unscripted" and not "underwritten"

These skills make unscripted speeches more exciting

To improve your ability to speak without a script, you need to have training.

Speaking impromptu, these skills are suitable for adapting to changing circumstances

The golden model of impromptu speaking

Everyone must know the rules of workplace communication

Four Pay attention to stay away from interpersonal crises in the workplace

If you live in harmony with your boss, you will be able to run smoothly if you put your mind to it

If you do not handle communication with colleagues well, the workplace will be difficult

With your subordinates Good communication is an essential quality for managers

Equality dialogue is only relative, not absolute. In a society where labor is still a means of livelihood, wealth and power must be the axis of life and the destination of right and wrong. Desires A completely equal language exchange is simply impossible to achieve. We can only strive for relative equality as much as possible, not absolute equality.

Determine whether you are conceited: First of all, you only focus on personal needs, emphasize your own feelings, and often appear arrogant in the process of interpersonal communication. Secondly, when attending friends' gatherings, when they are unhappy, they will lose their temper regardless of the occasion; when they are happy, they will dance and talk happily without considering the feelings of others. Finally, they often overestimate their relationships with others and say things they shouldn't. This kind of overly intimate behavior will actually alienate people out of psychological precaution.

Don’t say five kinds of things: don’t expose others’ shortcomings, don’t bluntly say that others are “wrong”, don’t say “this is basically, impossible...”, don’t say negative things, don’t keep other people’s privacy. Speak

Ways to break the "ice": smile, politeness and enthusiasm, humor, human feelings

Wang Guowei's description of the realm of the art of Ci and Fu: "The realm is not just scenery, but also happiness, anger, sorrow and joy. It is also a state in people’s hearts. Therefore, those who can depict true scenery and true feelings are said to have a state. "

Views on the art of speech:

Say less words of criticism. , criticism is just a kind of resistance; say more words of encouragement, encouragement is the basic skill.

Say less words of complaint, as complaining will only bring resentment; say more words of tolerance, tolerance will enhance understanding.

Say less words of rejection, rejection will only lead to strangers; say more words of care, care can gain friendship.

Say less sarcastic words, sarcasm appears contemptuous and humble; say more respectful words, respect can arouse empathy.

Say less about orders, and orders will just be forcibly accepted; say more about discussions, only for people to participate and actively experience discussions.

The perspective of "Five Ones of Personal Charisma" can enrich everyone's humanistic quality and charm. Which five? A poem, a song, a story, a joke, a couplet.

No one likes the same programmed speaking style, so you should develop your own speaking style and try to show your best side to the audience. Be yourself, everyone else is already taken. (Be yourself, other roles are already being played by others.)

When practicing for the first time, you might as well find some speech videos of celebrities with similar temperament and habits to your own, watch them repeatedly, summarize them diligently, and add them appropriately. imitate. You must know that humans mainly acquire knowledge through imitation. If you feel comfortable with this way of speaking, you can continue to incorporate your own personality and traits into this style to form your own style.

Li Zhenshun’s method of memorizing long articles, and summarized it into a jingle: read through three times to determine the topic, find connections between the topics, write down paragraph by paragraph, this article becomes mine.

Grant the audience an elevated title and give them the pleasure of being appreciated. William James said: "At the root of human nature is a strong desire to be affirmed and appreciated. This is the biggest difference between humans and animals.

Five taboos for impromptu speeches: Look at the sky and the earth, but don't Look at the audience; self-aggrandizement, rhetoric; parroting what others say; standing still, monotonous and poor; digressing thousands of miles, making up nonsense

Golden pattern:

Opening: introduce yourself well, Leave beautiful moments

Guest speeches: yesterday, today, tomorrow, make the speech more layered

Guest speech: congratulations, thanks, hope, make the speech emotional

Welcome speech: "I wish you all the best"

Farewell speech: "Thank you and remember the recruitment period"

Competition speech: understanding of the position, one's own understanding of the position Help, job planning

Award speech: "Thank you for the top, bottom, left and right"

Four principles for concluding the speech: clear goals, short and long, concise and detailed, clear organization, and accurate data. /p>

Call for mobilization: Be specific about specific things; state everyone’s requirements clearly; focus on the benefits.

Wu Si in his book "Hidden Rules: The Real Game in Chinese History." "Seniority ranking is a good thing." He believes: "Seniority ranking is the method of allocating vacancies with the least resistance, the lightest pressure, and is acceptable to all parties, because qualifications and seniority are hard indicators and are not prone to disputes; besides, Everyone will get old, and no one will feel that this method is particularly unfair to them; because the 'old people' have many connections and experience, and are often the seniors and senior brothers of newcomers, it is difficult for newcomers to openly object. "

French writer Alexandre Dumas said: "One or two weights of sincerity is equal to one ton of wisdom. "The French critical realist writer Zola once said: "Sincerity is the road to honor. "Facts have proved that the charm of language does not lie in its gorgeousness and fluency, but rather in whether the language users have poured out their true feelings and expressed sincerity.