A divorced father advised his daughter: What should I do if I advise you not to be a "good woman" after marriage?

Sometimes we don't know what kind of model life should have. As a woman, what should we do to make myself happy, and at the same time, we can take care of others' feelings. It seems that no one is born with these truths, but there are always people who have been there to teach us some experiences.

A divorced father told his daughter about his understanding of women, which may be the image that many men define for women. The father told his daughter that all along, those "good women" have no good life, just like a well-recognized man, sometimes in the eyes of women, they will not become the people who absorb her. By the same token, a good woman recognized by everyone can only be regarded as a good person at most, while a really good woman must have enough skills to absorb men, so that she will be happy after marriage, and such a woman can be regarded as a real "good woman".

a naughty woman is more attractive to men. People define a good woman as a woman who must be conscientious and knowledgeable. But if you put a naughty beloved woman and an honest dutiful woman in front of a man, he will definitely choose which naughty beloved woman. No one wants his life to be lifeless. Life must be filled with some happy elements, so that life can be meaningful. 2

When he said these words, the divorced father could not help sighing. He thought that his marriage was like suffocating the ordinary. He told a joke, but his wife didn't respond for a long time. He wanted to see her vivid and beloved appearance, laughing and laughing, but she always looked dull, even smiling, and smiled so reluctantly. He always felt that she and he were basically out of step, and it was a painful thing that life was out of step.

Those modesty are all for others to see. Men want their women to be sexy. A smart woman will always dress herself up before and after marriage, but he saw a unkempt wife in his marriage. She exposed her worst side to him and made him bored in less than two years.

she never wears makeup, nor is she willing to spend money on several sets of clothes that look attractive. Although she cooked a good dish, while he was eating the food she cooked, his eyes glanced at other women. He was in bed every night, dreaming of those beautifully dressed people outside. He said, it's not that he is dirty, it's human nature, and everyone likes wonderful things.

it must be a good thing that women are too honest and obedient. Although men like obedient women, if a woman is obedient blindly, then men will gradually lose interest in this woman. Men all have the desire to surrender. Although they like obedient women on the outside, they are more interested in women who dare to give them back opinions. 3

In life, none of the women who submit to resignation can be respected by men from the bottom of their hearts. On the contrary, those women who can easily express their thoughts and even go against men's ideas are more recognized by men.

Women who are too content with the status quo will turn their lives into a backwater, while women who are full of curiosity will make their lives full of challenges and fun. Some women stand still in their marriage, never dare to break through anything, and never have curiosity about new things outside.

But men have always lived with a child who has never grown up. They like something novel and can arouse their curiosity, and they are also willing to try things that they have never experienced before. If a woman can be full of curiosity about external things, she will try new things from time to time, so that her life will be rich and colorful, and it will bring joy to the men around her. 4

In a man's heart, a confident and self-centered woman is always the most attractive. A confident woman, no matter what she does, her heart is full of recognition for herself, and she will go ahead. No matter what others think of her, she will always be persistent in what she insists on, and such personality characteristics can often make men respect her. A woman, even though she looks ordinary, is shining in front of men if her body is full of self-confidence

don't think that being a recognized good woman will lead to a happy marriage. In fact, those good women can hardly absorb a man sometimes, and those women who look bad are men's dreams. It's not a bad thing to be a "good woman" who is not so complacent. If a woman can learn some skills that can fascinate another man, win the heart of a man and win the heart of his family, wouldn't it kill two birds with one stone?

Therefore, as a woman, if she wants to be happy, she should make herself interesting. After all, this life is too long. If she keeps living in monotonous and boring rules, this life will have no meaning, let alone happiness. For the happiness of herself and her family, don't be such an old-fashioned "good woman"!