"In Your Name"——the one is you using your own name to live in my body

? How to let you meet me at my most beautiful moment.

"Your Name" became a hit, and it was similar to "My Girlhood" at the same time last year. Times are slowly moving forward. When virtual technology can give us almost crazy experiences, those small blessings slowly become what people call hypocrisy.

"Your Name" hit the screen, once again revealing their false shell. Everyone longs for softness in their hearts. In fact, we have the most uncontrollable desire to climb mountains and ridges and be brave because of love. Regardless of whether a person can't or dare not, who has never longed for a thrilling love that makes his chest feel like it will be torn apart when he thinks about it.

Winter seems to be particularly suitable for watching romance movies. It is not the excitement of spring, nor the hormones that pervade summer. Anyway, we have survived the inexplicable sadness of autumn. Although winter is cold, it seems to start to breed more warmth and warmth. love.

? ?The one

The movie tells the story of The one.

To be honest, I have only seen "Five Centimeters per Second", Makoto Shinkai's work, and this is the second one. The first movie cured the sad days when my master's thesis was turned into panda eyes. The second part cured the blisters in my heart caused by running all over Beijing looking for an apartment. The genius of the master is to let you know that there is The One in the world without making any noise. There is such a person who is already there before you meet him. It seems like a whisper in your ear, but it penetrates your heart and lungs inexplicably.

What kind of existence is The One? It is an affirmation that it can only be you and not others. It's the kind of thing where you tell a cold joke and everyone else is frozen into dogs, but I am the only one who suddenly laughs wildly. It was you who untied my tight hair, and it was you who caught the girl you liked when we first met. It's the way I see you in my pupils. I travel in the subway that flies by in this city all day long, rubbing shoulders with thousands of people every day, but I know that when you pass by me, I will recognize you.

The one is not exclusive to Makoto Shinkai, or even exclusive to film works. In "How I Met Your Mother", Ted had a classic dialogue when he met the runaway bride.

Why do you escape from the wedding?

Because he is not the one.

So who is the one ?

He is almost the one ,but he is not .

How can you know you will meet the one?

I know that, when I meet him, I will recognize him.

Of course, the touching moments of this play are not limited to this sentence, but this dialogue is exactly the same as the essence of the movie when placed here.

Who will we fall in love with? One that I can use my own name to live in his body. I knew all his embarrassment and bravery, I understood that he had a secret affection for the beautiful foreman, and I knew that his temper was a bit bad, so I put an end to the trouble he caused in a thoughtful way.

In the same way, he used his own name to live in my body. He knows that Kuchishu is half of who I am, and he respects the gods I worship every day, and even likes me more because of it; when he heard his classmates’ instructions to my father, he kicked over the seat in one breath to vent his anger for me; he stood across the huge The distance of time and space, he heard my call; he quietly watched the time, waiting for me to come to him.

?What if there is not the one?

It is true that everyone longs to meet such a person, a person who comes to the world for each other, a person who can be loved by himself. A person who can read the mountains by climbing over the mountains. However, what should we do if this is just a movie script, just a plot used to earn the audience’s tears?

Someone must have told you that marriages are all the same. The longer time goes by, the more I feel that no matter who I marry, I feel the same. Love ends in the grave.

In the movie, the director laid a lot of foreshadowing. The comet murals in the cave were left long ago. A comet comes once every 1,200 years, which is a cycle. As the guardian family of Miyamizu Shrine, every girl who inherits the family has had the dream of exchanging bodies with others. Sanxu's grandmother did it, and Sanxu's mother also did it. Grandma persuaded Sanxu to forget this dream. Obviously, she did not receive this gift of fate and eventually grew old alone.

Sanxu's mother chose a husband who did not understand her at all. After her death, he directly devoted himself to political career. In the movie, although Sanxu's mother never leaves the country, the character design of her father is enough to give people a glimpse of the trauma that an unsuitable love or marriage has caused to each other and to the children.

Grandma and mother have also dreamed of The One, and so have each of us. Either it has already appeared, or it has not been encountered yet. Either we never respond positively to love and rush into the trivialities of life prematurely. Either they have unrealistic illusions about love, find fault in front of the right person, and end up becoming a stranger.

Let’s make a hypothesis. Close your eyes, count down for 5 seconds, and think about the person in your life who is most likely to be The One.

What kind of face is it? There must be, no matter you are drowning in the grave of marriage, or you are wronged in love, or you are still waiting for the first throbbing. There must be one person, the one you believe in and even pray for in this life.

And the fact that we were not able to have it in the end is not because it does not exist, but because we, like grandma and mother, gave up fighting for it. We do not have the courage to say, "If love separates mountains and seas, mountains and seas can be leveled."

?When I am on ?the way of meeting you?

Love is the most unreasonable thing in the world. Movies can bring people’s common problems into the brightest light. , but each person’s path to healing can only be taken by himself.

I met you among millions of people, neither a second earlier nor a second later. It is not our request for love, but our desire for destiny.

If he has never met The One in his entire life, then he is probably still waiting for another 1,200 years.

But if we have never been brave for love once in our lives, and have not loved others with overwhelming strength, how can we expect to meet the right lover?

Just enjoy the sunshine, give and absorb, be unscrupulous and unrestrained.

If we are destined to meet you, I hope I will be recognized by you soon.

If you are destined to miss it, I hope that I once lived in your body with my beautiful appearance.