What does the nanny who takes care of the baby at home full-time do besides taking care of the baby?

As we all know, China is now an economically developed society, and people who are either rich or expensive abound. If nothing else, children's clothes are much better than when we were young. So the comparison between children can be traced back to the primary school stage. However, do all families have such capital? The answer is not necessarily.

A Qing is eleven years old, in the fifth grade of primary school, and is a member of the school basketball team. A Qing is a very sensible child who knows how to study hard and won't ask his parents for this or that. However, recently, the mother found that the child seemed to have something on her mind, so she couldn't help asking. The child didn't say anything before, but later he couldn't help saying to his mother, "I want a pair of basketball shoes." It turns out that A Qing always wears ordinary sports shoes when playing basketball. His teammates always laugh at him and say that he doesn't even have a pair of basketball shoes. They are professional players, and a classmate with a good family has four or five pairs. Hearing this, the mother felt that the child was wronged, so she promised A Qing to buy a pair online. Of course, A Qing was very happy. He chose a pair of the latest sneakers of a certain treasure. As a result, in terms of price, my mother almost did not vomit blood. It turned out that the basketball shoes worn by these children actually cost more than 300 yuan. As far as the child is concerned, none of them are genuine. If it is genuine, it will be one or two thousand. Mother hesitated at this moment and said to A Qing, "It's too expensive, son! Our family can't afford it. " A Qing was a little angry when this came out. Finally, I bought a pair of basketball shoes, and my mother was reluctant to part with more than 300 yuan.

I wonder if this phenomenon has ever happened around you? More than 300 yuan-not much to say, but it is not a small amount spent on children's clothes. Children don't know anything, but as parents, will they cry at this time? I think it depends.

▲ Families with high incomes

For a family with food at home, this 300 yuan is really nothing. Just like A Qing's teammates, some students have more than one pair of basketball shoes. Families nowadays are basically two children. The idea of some parents is not to let their children suffer from childhood, that is, to meet their children's requirements as much as possible in material conditions. As everyone knows, this has cultivated children's vanity to a certain extent. The word "comparison" is no stranger to the new generation. So the children created by such parents can be imagined.

▲ Families with average income

Just now, A Qing's mother mentioned that 300 yuan silver should also be handed over, just out of consideration for the family's income. Maybe her family is a slightly poor family. If she is a housewife, she has no financial resources and only depends on A Qing's father, there may be some problems. Therefore, when the child asked A Qing's mother, she had to tell the child that the money at home was too tight. This is good or bad. The advantage is that you don't need a fat face. No, there won't be. There is no need to become rich. The bad thing is that it is not good for the child's psychological state. Children are in the stage of growth and development, easy to feel inferior and inferior to others, resulting in a "gray" mentality.

In any case, children's basic needs should be met. Because this society is developing rapidly. The child's body and mind also need to be taken into account. If the child has nothing materially, it is not very suitable and it is not good for the child's self-esteem.

(1) The education of children should be subtle.

Children are the flowers of the motherland and the hope of the future. To become a truly useful talent, mental health is a must first. Therefore, parents must try their best to train their children. Don't underestimate one thing, it is likely to have an impact on children. For example, A Qing's mother mentioned above, perhaps as a mother, has her considerations. But if this matter is handled well, nothing will happen; But what if it's not handled well? It may affect children's views on things. There is no small matter in the process of educating children, and it is necessary to influence children subtly. Whether you buy it or not, let the children know that their parents' money is hard-won. Even if I can't get it out at the moment, I won't have any special ideas.

(2) Parents should be frugal.

I believe that A Qing's mother was forced to say this to her beloved son. This requires parents not to spend money lavishly, but to earn as much money as possible even for their children. I have to admit that many adults usually don't make a living, buy whatever they see, and have no plan, but they get stuck at the critical moment. Although he is a man with endless plans, careful calculation is the long-term solution to survive. In addition, it is to earn more money. Raising children costs money. How can there be white blood in this world?

I only hope that the wishes of all children in this world can be met, and I hope that all parents will not be embarrassed by their children's requirements. However, everything must conform to human nature and common sense. So, son, if your mother is reluctant to tell you this, please understand that there is no mother who is unwilling to pay. I hope all family ties can achieve each other, and this life is only for * * *! Welcome friends who feel this way to leave a message here! !