How to treat people who are too homesick?

? I am a homesick person, and I think we should be kind to those who are homesick. Sometimes I don't understand what China people think. I think people's greatest happiness is being with their families. However, in order to earn more money, many people leave their wives and children to work in other cities and can only see their wives or sons two or three times a year. Is this life really good? Anyway, personally, I don't quite agree with this kind of life. Even if I can earn twice my salary, I don't want to give up my present life and live a wandering life.

? Life is only a few decades, and I think it is a blessing to leave these decades to my family, my relatives and my friends. I used to be a salesman, but I quit within a few months. Because of the salesman's job, I have to travel for a long time and live apart from my wife for a long time. During that time, I became unhappy as a whole. Later, I found another job, although I earned a lot less. But I feel very satisfied that I can go to work from nine to five, go home on time after work and reunite with my family.

? I don't quite understand what some women think now. They just want their husbands to earn more money, but no matter what kind of life they lead. For example, sales people earn a lot, but they have to travel for a long time. Eating those unsanitary or cooked foods in restaurants or small restaurants every day will face an irregular life for a long time.

? Moving from one place to another, they look very old. Many business people are sick in their forties and fifties, the most obvious being stomach trouble. However, their wives are at home with the money they earned and lying in bed contentedly. If their husbands express their dissatisfaction with their current life, they want to change to a job with lower income but often staying at home. They will jump out and accuse their husbands of not being self-motivated, not growing up and being too homesick. I think these women should change their minds. For this type of women, I don't know whether they are married to husbands or money.

? There is nothing wrong with homesickness at any time, at least such a man has never done anything to betray a woman. Many men are homesick at first, but his wife has a bad attitude towards him. Finally, under the pressure of their wives, these men's ability has improved and they no longer miss home. But they fell in love with another woman's bed, often went to another woman's house for the night, and finally fell into another woman's arms, never to return. I want him to go home, but he won't. This ending may be what many women want to see.

? Otakus are not terrible, as long as they have the ability to support a family; As long as they focus on their families. I think that's enough. So for a homesick person. Be kind to them.