Two years after graduation, I haven't had a steady job and haven't been able to date many times. Disliked by my family, I want to die under pressure and accusation every day. What should I do?

First, in fact, the dilemma you are facing belongs to the common dilemma of many graduates in this era. There are probably many ordinary graduates who have the same experience as you.

Second, the cause of this problem has a great influence on the values of today's society to a great extent. On the surface, they are all promoting socialist core values in a high-profile manner, but in fact they are pursuing material first and money first. Deep-rooted capitalist values have completely touched all beings in this era.

Third, its own reasons. Know your own shortcomings, then sum up in time and try to change the status quo. Instead of continuing to sink in confusion. Always complaining that others don't understand themselves, and always can't be recognized by others. If these situations persist for a long time, it is easy for them to become depressed, and psychological problems are likely to occur over time.

Fourth, the key to solving the problem is yourself. Have a comprehensive evaluation and cognition of yourself, and then take action to improve by comparing the shortcomings. It takes a lot of effort to be recognized, otherwise everything will be empty talk. If you want to completely change the status quo, let yourself be close to your dream from now on.