The most beautiful thing in life?

I think the most beautiful thing in life is to complete self-validation. In fact, people complete self-validation throughout their lives.

Many philosophers have worked on this issue since ancient times. Come out to discuss, for example, Confucius said, "How can you know death if you don't know life?" Another sentence seems to be "How can you know ghosts if you don't know people." Therefore, China has been pursuing a question since ancient times. It is enough to understand how it came here, instead of asking why it came back.

Let me tell you a joke first: an official escorts a monk who has committed a crime to the execution ground. Before taking him away every day, he must count four things, one for the monk, one for salute, and one for the armor.

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I, and then one night the monk shaved off the head of the official, and then hung the armor on his head, and the next day the officers were counting, saluting, Jiazi, monk

Then when we get to "I", we can't find it. So this joke tells us where "I" has gone. You can imagine what the result would be like if there is no "I".

So a key to death is that "I" is gone. In other words, I cannot continue to prove myself as a human being.

Going on, do you know what is the first verb a child learns? It's "don't", for example. If you give him water and he doesn’t want to drink it, he won’t say I don’t want it, he will just say no

If you have to add a subject in front of it, for example, if the child is called “Beibei”, he won’t If he says I don’t want it, he will say “Beibei doesn’t want it.” Then when he asks for water, he won’t say “I want it.” He will say “Shui Shui.” This explains this. At that time, he had no self-awareness. It's like animals don't know the existence of "I". At this time, you teach him to say "I," and he doesn't understand. You say water, and he knows water, but you say "I" "He doesn't know what it is, which means he doesn't know what "I" is. "I" is not a thing in the first place.

This is very troublesome, so children will not say "I". There is no self-awareness in the situation, but from the moment he can say "I", he has self-awareness, and from this moment on, he will spend his whole life to prove what I am. What I only think about is what I am.

For example, a painter wants to hold a painting exhibition to prove that it is "I" painted, and a mother takes out a child to show off that it is "I". "Born. And so on, all in order to complete

a self-confirmation. Another very typical phenomenon is that when we scold a person, we can say "You are really not a human being." But when you scold a lazy cat who can't catch mice, you can't say, "You're not a fucking cat. "There is no such scolding, and there is no such saying. Then "you are really not a human being." If you are not a human being, you are not even an animal. So if you betray someone, you will naturally have to pay. The price is to prove that you are a human being throughout your life

I think the most beautiful thing in life is self-confirmation. It is a person’s burden and also his achievement.

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