What do you think of "older leftover women are too temperamental to get a dowry of 65,438+10,000"?

Usually people say that leftover women are willing to put themselves in a very high position, with temper, shelf, high vision and many demands. Apart from the age problem that embarrasses the younger generation, these defects are impressive, which is why they organize their children to marry older women. But is it really fair to crown these so-called defects on the leftover women? Wear such colored glasses and see if it's really unfair.

All the leftover women around me are soft-hearted. They are proud princesses, but they are kind-hearted, warm-hearted and considerate. Their requirements are not so high, not so much, and their temper is not so big, but the outside world has arranged these defects for them because of their age. The reason why I was left behind was nothing more than personality reasons, family reasons and fate. What they want is nothing more than waiting for a warm and sincere feeling to care for them and a fate to accompany them to die.

I went to a friend's house for dinner the other day and met something that opened my heart. My friend has reached marriageable age, and his lover is a girl with good conditions in all aspects. The only thing that bothers him is that he doesn't know how to tell his parents. Because this girl is five years older than him, she used to be a serious older woman. That's why I'm here. I hope I can talk about the advantages of his mother and women being older, such as meekness, family care and economic independence.

But at dinner, I was scared by his mother's words before I was ready to knock.

As soon as we mentioned the topic of older women, his mother said, "Older women have such a big temper that they can't get married even if they give a dowry of 100 thousand!" Baby, you must remember that you would rather marry an unemployed woman than an older woman, otherwise you will never live a good life and have no grandchildren! "The friend suddenly froze. He didn't expect his mother to have such a concept of older women. He just whispered back: "Mom, you are wrong!" " "We also froze, aunt really dare to say. If friends and girlfriends hear this, they will be angry!

I haven't heard about their status recently, but it's definitely not much better. After all, my friends and mother have a deep-rooted impression of older women, which is not so easy to subdue. Even if the bad karma affects the younger generation with practical actions, the woman will suffer a lot of grievances for no reason.

When I got home, I began to wonder if all the older women around me really didn't like the younger generation.

Quiet is my best friend for many years, a good friend relationship beyond gender, and a good relationship that we can chat together and check in when traveling. She is 35 years old. She is not married and has no date at this age. That's great. Wherever she goes, she will be urged to get married. But from her, I feel a woman's light shining on me.

She is a good cook. She usually cooks at home, so she does well. A strong woman is different from the younger generation. She has no time, is busy making money and has no breath of life.

She is an expert at housework. She has never hired an aunt or a maid, but whenever she goes, her home is clean and tidy.

She is our pistachio. No one says that a woman without a partner will have an endocrine disorder and shout when she is in a big temper. But she often tells jokes softly when we are unhappy, which makes us happy and considerate.

She is our most loyal listener. Whenever something bothers her, she always likes to talk to her and doesn't need her to comfort her. Everything seems quiet when talking to her.

Maybe you don't think such a person exists, but if you think about it carefully, such an older woman must be around you. Their looks are passable, their work is passable, their temper is passable, and everything is passable, except their feelings. They were left behind, not because of bad temper, not because of personality defects, but because they didn't want to make do, waiting for a real fate, but waiting, time would pass mercilessly.

Time has not left too many marks on their faces, but it can bring them irresistible changes in age and mood. In the dead of night, their hearts look forward to a care and warmth than anyone else, and they hope that this love comes from him.

One of the most authentic examples around me is my best friend Tao Tao. She got married at 37, and her husband was four years younger than her. Originally, this relationship was not expected. The man's family thinks that she is too old to have grandchildren for them in the future. She is also afraid that she will get married when she is so old. Is it because the man was too angry in previous relationships?

However, Tao Tao won their hope and respect with practical actions. Tao Tao gave birth to a big fat boy in the second year after her marriage. Although the age is different, the recovery is better than that of ordinary people. After all, she has been exercising for more than ten years and has excellent physical fitness. She doesn't have the charming temper of a big lady. On the contrary, she is knowledgeable, docile and takes care of her family. She manages her small business well, opening a boutique fruit supermarket from a roadside fruit shop and taking care of her mother-in-law.

I don't know why, since when, when it comes to older women, I think they are bad-tempered and eccentric. Actually, it's really not like this. There are also a few older women who are soft-hearted.

Really don't judge older women with colored glasses, they are just waiting for their exclusive fate. I have lived for so long that they need a warm and sincere feeling to care for them.