Rereading The Wound of the Bullfrog

On 20 17, a 68-year-old retired professor in Shanghai wrote "The Pit of Bullfrogs", bombarding the "Shanghai Juvenile Bullfrog War" with his own children's personal experience, and the words were well-written.

Today, we will also face the problem of children being promoted to younger children. Although the trend of chicken baby seems to be weakening since the double reduction last year, none of the parents around us are lying flat, the academic pressure suddenly increases, and the psychological burden invisibly increases. Reading this article again today is not only full of emotion, but also a reminder to parents who are still crazy, no matter whether this article is an immigration advertisement or everyone has a little doubt about the author.

What impressed me most was the details mentioned by the author.

These words sound crazy, but they are all true in magic. Just search on the internet, what exaggerated preparations the children of the Imperial Capital Magic Capital have made to meet the old and young men, and these news materials are all a laundry list. I won't list it here. And the double reduction policy from April 20021is it really effective to relieve the anxiety of chickens? Without school districts and layers of screening, parents will not force their children to study? That's a real joke.

By my side, there are countless parents and writers who have the same idea-they would rather lose their cuteness than be cheap in the future-what a cruel idea!

Although most families are obsessed with learning in the big environment, I still can't agree with the author's way of being a chick, and even feel quite disgusted.

At the age of 3, the author's family began to learn the adult KPI assessment, and frantically trained them into "learning experts". From the examiner's question of "Eight Masters in Tang and Song Dynasties", it can be seen that children usually need to learn (or recite? How much "knowledge". The family members did not show basic concern for their children, and even said such desperate words as "Grandpa is so old that I have a chance to play", but the school they interviewed made such an extreme judgment that "grandparents and grandchildren can't live together well". This so-called intellectual family also believes that there is no future without being a frog in the "Four Famous Catchers". ...

After reading it, I feel tired for my children, even as a reader.

As we all know, children have the law of children's development, and kindergarten children can't develop physically and mentally like primary school students. It is tantamount to encouraging kindergarten children, even children over 2 years old, to learn a lot of book knowledge.

The mother of a child I know has enrolled in 7-8 early education classes at the same time since the child was in a small class. A week later, she was catching up every day.

Parents around me have at least four or five interest classes and training classes for each child. Every winter and summer vacation, a few extra short-term classes will be added. Moreover, with the increase of age, the interest categories decrease and the subject categories increase.

About 1/4 children in our kindergarten class take leave at noon every day to go back to practice the piano and take online classes. Fewer and fewer children can go to school normally every day.

Every parent is desperate, and every child is desperate, but the children in kindergarten are still young and allowed to have time to play, so in the short term, I don't see any harm in such a tight study schedule for the time being. But in the long run, are our children really okay?

The winter vacation is coming, the first winter vacation after double reduction. In the mother group, as before, mothers often forward some learning links to inquire about the situation of making up lessons in winter vacation. From morning till night, the children's schedule is very clear and full, and everyone's winter vacation is not "abandoned".