Alina Zhang said that when female guests perform well, they should not be rejected. What kind of psychology do you have in the face of excellent people?

Facing excellent people, I mainly have the following psychology.

First, envy.

I believe everyone knows one thing, that is, when we see a better person, our first reaction may be to envy him for being so beautiful, so excellent and so capable.

I'm basically like this. Whether you meet excellent people in the process of study or work, you are envious in your heart. I hope to be such a person. So often seeing people who are better than me will inspire me to strive to become such a person.

Second, you may feel inferior.

This is my second feeling that I may feel inferior after a long time. At first, I really admired a person when I saw her being good, but after getting along with him for a long time, I found that his other places were also good, so I might feel inferior when making friends with him or getting along with him.

But I don't feel inferior. I think inferiority can make me grow up, make me a better person and inspire my efforts and perseverance. I am usually a lazy person. If no one gives me motivation, it is difficult for me to accomplish anything, but if there is an excellent person by my side all the time, I will try to be like her.

Third, I really want to know why he is so excellent.

I think there should be many people who have the same idea as me. When I see an excellent person, I often wonder why he is so excellent, such as good academic performance, what is the learning method, such as strong working ability, and why she has such strong working ability. For example, he made a lot of money, and he really wanted to know how he earned it. I think when I see these people, I really want to learn from them and become the same person.