Classic sentences about making friends

1. Making friends is not a compliment, nor is it blasphemy-the Book of Changes.

Associate with people with high status, without flattery; Associate with people with low status, don't be proud and neglect. This is a rule in interpersonal communication. No matter how a person develops, he must first maintain self-independence, and an independent person must be humble and maintain a polite and confident manner in interpersonal communication.

There are three friends who have benefited and three friends who have suffered. Friends are frank, friends forgive and friends listen more, which is beneficial. Friends make friends, friendly and gentle, and friends make friends, which is harmful and useless-The Analects of Confucius

There are three kinds of beneficial friends and three kinds of harmful friends. It is beneficial to make honest friends, honest friends and knowledgeable friends. It is harmful to make friends with flatterers, people who flatter but hurt others behind their backs, and people who are good at rhetoric. Choosing friends is a science. Stay away from bad friends and walk with good friends, and your life will be more exciting.

3. Chivalrous friends, amateurs make friends. -Tao Jin Yuanming, Migration.

Su Xin: Simple in heart. Make friends with chivalrous spirit, sense of justice, courage and be a simple person.

4. Once you die, you will know your friendship; A poor and rich, even a state of intercourse; One is expensive and the other is cheap, but friendship is visible-Historical Records

On the occasion of life and death, we can see the depth of friendship; Only when the rich and the poor are different and their status is very different can the authenticity of friendship be tested. A pair of friends, one is faced with a dilemma between life and death, and the other has a stable life. The attitude of the latter towards the former reflects their true friendship. One is rich and generous, the other is poor and sad, and the relationship between them can show the authenticity of friendship; One is noble and the other is lowly. The contact between them can show the innocence of friendship.

5. It is good to know each other and help others. —— Ming Kuangkun's "Convenient Map Compilation"

Making friends means helping each other. It is very important to help others when they are in urgent need.

6. People who pay with money will pay for it; Be friends with color, China fall, love Chongqing-Warring States policy

Friends made with money, when the money is spent, the friendship will come to an end; Friends made by beautiful women will become sour when they get older. This sentence warns people not to make friends with money and color. "A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water", and true friendship cannot be measured by money and beauty.

7. There is no distinction between old and young in life. Why should we get along first? -Du Fu

When you are alive, you don't have to care about your age to make friends, and you don't have to ask for the same interests from the beginning. There is a saying that knowing each other is more important, and knowing each other is more important than knowing each other. Age is not an obstacle to communicating with close friends, and interest can be cultivated slowly. Besides, why should we pay attention to other secular things?

8. It is enough to have a bosom friend in life. Treat each other with a bosom friend! -Xu Shidong, a bibliophile in the Qing Dynasty

In this life, it is enough to have a friend who knows and cherishes each other. In this life, we should regard this bosom friend as our brothers and sisters. True friends help each other in adversity, and in hardships, the ties deep in their hearts will be firmly linked together. Lu Xun once gave this sentence to Qu Qiubai and introduced Qu Qiubai as a bosom friend.

9. Water the trees and roots and make friends. -Haoran's Sunny Days

When watering a tree, water should be poured on the roots to benefit the whole tree. To make friends, both sides should be sincere in order to become bosom friends. Making friends with honest people, honest people and knowledgeable people can not only last forever, but also benefit for life, otherwise it will be harmful; Heartfelt friendship is the only way to treat each other with kindness.

10. Be careful before making friends, but trust after making friends. -"Small window tips, methods".

To be thorough is to observe each other's words and deeds.

Trust, trust.

Before making friends, you need to examine each other. If you become friends, you should trust each other.

1 1. Children would rather not study than get close to bandits all day. -"Qi Lu Deng"

It means that the younger generation would rather not study than make friends with bad people. It means that young people should be especially careful when making friends.

12. It is not advisable to make too many friends, and those who make too many friends will come. -Ming Hong Yingming's "Caigen Tan"

Be generous in employing people, not too stingy. If you ask too much, those who are willing to serve you will leave you. make friends

Friends, don't be too unprincipled. Make friends casually, like flattery, and people who like to lie will come to you.

13. The way of loyalty is the meaning of making friends. -Romance of Sui and Tang Dynasties

As a courtier, you should be loyal to the victims, and so should those who make friends.