Why do men love to find little girls and leave older women alone?

Many people say that men like beautiful young girls, whether they are men aged 30, 40, 50 or 60 or girls aged 65,438+08. Do men really dislike girls their own age?

No, among older single men, they also want to find a girl about their own age to fall in love and get married, but this idea soon made these men give up their ideas. Because older girls are too difficult to deal with.

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I don't want to get married no matter how old I am, as long as there are many people pursuing me.

There is a girl who talked about almost 10 relationship, and she is still single at the age of 33. Why not just say "almost" if you are not sure?

Because she can't remember clearly, some of them are too short, and some of them are yours. Are these love?

A friend of a wedding service company introduced her as a senior member of a dating platform. She said that she is not demanding, just looking for an honest person who will love her and they can get along.

However, as a distinguished member, the photos are beautiful and have temperament. Many men become members at a glance. As long as she feels that the recommended blind date is not good, the platform will soon recommend the next one to her.

Sometimes, she will date six or seven men for a month. With so many resources, she has not finally determined her Mr. Right, and she is still single.

This kind of girl is not short of men. She just regards blind date as a way of life. She eats, watches movies and travels. Different men will take her away as long as she wants.

My best friend asked her, these men are fine, why don't they settle down?

She said that if you want to get married now, you can always take it with you to get a certificate, so you don't have to play too much, for fear that you will miss your unmarried self after marriage.

Don't say that men love to play, and women love to play. As long as you think there are still many people chasing you, you won't worry about being unloved. Especially when you get the feeling that the stars are holding the moon, who will hurry away?

In one of the most popular blind date variety shows in China, 24 girls light up their lights and wait for male guests to appear. Some viewers will feel sorry for a girl who was not selected. Actually, they are the same. There are hundreds of boys in the back who show their love to them.

At present, more women than men attend parties and banquets. As long as it is a sober girl who is not in a hurry to get married, it is difficult for men to catch up.

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Girls who have been unmarried for many years have a very unique view of marriage and love.

My friend's sister-in-law, 34, has been in love for different periods, but most of the time it is an empty window.

She felt that she would rather stay at home and catch a play than spend hours putting on makeup and struggling to get dressed before going out.

From the age of 15, the only constant hobby for 20 years is watching idol dramas. From Hong Kong and Taiwan dramas and Korean dramas to domestic ones, she has basically seen them all.

On the criteria of mate selection, she sometimes unconsciously thinks that only Gao Fushuai, who is invincible in the play and has time to accompany her to spoil boys, can be her object.

But there are almost no such boys in reality, not to mention that she is very ordinary and her family is not rich. Relatives and friends introduced her several times, but she denied them once, on the grounds that the clothes she wore were not good-looking, handsome, not atmospheric enough and a little rustic.

She wants to find a boy who can make her fall in love at first sight, love at first sight, and always spoil her and accompany her. After many disappointments, she didn't want to go out.

There are many girls in special circumstances, such as a friend's sister-in-law. Some people don't want to have children and simply don't get married. Some read the thick poisonous chicken soup, "If you don't spend a lot of money, you just don't love you" and "If you don't make money, whatever you like will appear in front of you in due course" ...

Some people say that you can't live a good life after listening to so many reasons. However, the more you read these chicken soups, the deeper the poisoning. I like to immerse myself in my own fantasy and don't want to face the bleak reality.

Boys go on blind dates, and when they meet such girls, they have to reflect for many days when they come back from being hit by a wall. What's wrong with them, so that girls simply refuse?

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It is difficult for you to impress an experienced girl.

On the Zhihu, I saw a boy sharing his experience of blind date with 28-year-old and 32-year-old girls respectively. Both girls are indifferent to each other.

Text messages are answered only once a few times, sometimes for days. I promised to go out and meet, but I didn't leave for days. It's even more embarrassing to meet.

Want to chat casually, the other party didn't pay much attention; Tell a joke, and the other person's mouth is barely pulled up as a response; Talking about his own experience, the other party uttered a few "Oh" after listening.

Praise each other and be polite enough to make you feel that you still have a long way to go with her. You want to guide her to talk about yourself, but the other party doesn't take over.

The older girl has experienced a lot. If she doesn't pretend, it's hard to make her mood change greatly.

It takes more than a cup of milk tea to make you happy. It's naive to play exciting activities when a movie is in contact with your body.

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Older girls prefer younger brothers.

The uncles would rather find young girls than big girls, and big girls also like to play with their younger brothers. Now there are more and more brother-sister relationships, but both sides have needs in their hearts.

The little boyfriend catches up with the big sister and enjoys success directly. Not only does he feel taken care of in life, but he may also get more resources to help him in his career. Not every boy is willing to work hard and bear hardships. The more giant babies there are, the more they want to be taken care of by others.

Older girls who fall in love with their younger brother will have a great sense of accomplishment. While being called "an old cow eats young grass", she has an indescribable pride in her heart.

Young boys, with little knowledge and experience and the care and help of big girlfriends, are generally obedient and obedient. Whether maternal love is rampant or not, older girls prefer to dominate and dominate their love and life.

Everyone wants to change direction after hitting the wall. Older boys chase girls about their own age, and the same words, meals and gifts get less feedback than younger girls.

This is the main reason why men love young girls more!