A man's wife is joking.

Jealousy is still terrible. Because there is only one husband, whoever gets more love from him shows that he has a higher position in the family, so some people will do whatever it takes to get his love. But polygamy here doesn't mean that a man can have many wives. A man can only marry one wife, and all other women are concubines. The status of concubines and wives is also different. I believe many people know that the ancient marriage system was polygamy. But although a man can marry more than one wife and concubine, he is also bound by many laws and regulations. In ancient times, a man had many wives, but only one real wife. There are also great differences between wives and concubines. The status of a wife is much higher than that of a concubine. Often men marry the right women, while concubines are mostly humble. Even some big families buy concubines just to be slaves. So to some extent, most of the ancients thought concubines were people with low status and a slave relationship. While concubines can't compete for favor, only concubines can play tricks to compete for favor, and wives can punish mistresses at will. I believe that many men dream of having three wives and four concubines now, but this still needs careful consideration. It's good to have a harmonious family. In fact, whether we are in ancient times or in modern times, wives and husbands at home can form a real family, and those concubines are not part of the family. Moreover, men actually have a lot of desires, and the identity of these concubines is not recognized by society. From the point of loyalty, wives will always consider their husbands, while those concubines choose men only for their own benefit. So those men who dream of having three wives and four concubines should wake up.