Don't be too honest

Don't be too honest, don't be a glib person. But to be an upright person with a certain way of dealing with people. Both inside and outside the circle!

When I was young, my parents taught me to be honest. The teacher taught me to be an upright person. I remember once taking a bus with my aunt and being criticized for not giving up my seat to the old man in time. When I was a child, education successfully turned me into a person who studied both inside and outside. Once, someone fell on his bike, so I went to help him. Standing in Guangdong in the middle of the night, I confronted a gangster for a girl I just met not to be bullied. Fortunately, I was not blackmailed and beaten!

But the two subsequent experiences also made me very painful. Go to Guangdong once by train. At that time, the bus was so crowded that I just squeezed into my seat. A woman said to me, "She was standing at the station and didn't feel well. Can you let her sit down? " . I gave in. As a result, I was embarrassed to let her get up, so I ran all the way from Anhui Station to Guangdong. Standing for more than ten hours is exhausting, as if I bought a station ticket and she was sitting on it!

The second time was even sadder. After talking about my girlfriend for several years, I finally want to meet her parents. At that time, my father was injured in a mine, so he played cards and fished at home on holiday to kill time. When my girlfriend's mother asked me how I met her, I honestly answered that I met her online on QQ! Asked what my father is doing now, he also answered honestly, playing cards and fishing at home. As a result, my girlfriend's parents feel that online dating is not reliable, and my father is doing nothing. Resolutely opposed to us being together. My girlfriend and I broke up because of family pressure. Because of my honesty, I finally turned my girlfriend into an ex-girlfriend This hurts me a lot.

Everyone has two things in his life. "Being a man" and "doing things". Doing things is harder than being a man! Only by understanding the square and the circle can we know how to advance and retreat. ……