What should a person do when he is always wishful thinking?

Falling in love is a wonderful thing, but it is hard to find a person who loves you in the world, and he loves you. Sometimes, we love someone very much, but we can't get his heart after hard pursuit. So, when a person is always wishful thinking, what should he do?

First of all, convince yourself not to be carried away by love and divert your attention. If you don't want to let go, divert your attention. Think about it, besides love, you also love your parents and your best friend. Life is not just love, but also friendship and a vibrant mood. Which one of them wants to see you now, in a fog, always falls in love with someone. Keep yourself busy, do your job well, and make yourself excellent. Besides working, you can also learn to cook, dance, sing and so on. Ask two or three friends to go out to play when you are bored. Isn't it better than love? Keep in touch with relatives. Before love becomes a family, family always comes first.

Second, learn to give up bravely. I just want to ask one thing: Are you really inseparable from him? ? Please remember to love yourself before you love others. You can't let yourself be wronged if you love yourself. Since he doesn't like you, why should he be so wronged? Even if he will be moved by you, he will only be moved! Touched love can't stand the blow. Just like duckweed, it will not settle down, so in his eyes, it is not love, but pity. If you still have self-esteem, learn to give up bravely, and the result will be good for you and him. Go and see the outside world, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Finding a person who loves himself and he loves himself is the last word.

In short, don't be wishful thinking under any circumstances. In the end, you will find that only you are moved.