When men and women get along, men dislike women's performance, not to say "you are bored", but what?

In this world, there are many feelings that touch the earth and touch the earth until death separates us, and there are many feelings that are futile and easily changed.

Even if there were more vows of eternal love at the beginning, once you don't love, the original vows will easily disappear and become a joke, mocking the original vows at all times.

There are too many women who are moved by the man's vows of eternal love, and feel that the "forever" he said is really forever.

As we all know, people's hearts are the easiest to change. No matter how firm the original oath is, it can't offset another woman's short-term attraction to him.

In fact, men are more likely to change their minds than women because they are too curious and have no more energy to treat their feelings than women. So as long as they are slightly tempted and attracted, they will change their original intentions and break their original vows.

Li Cheng said that in the past six months, she always felt that there was something wrong with the relationship between Qi and Cha. She vaguely felt that the relationship between them was different from that at the beginning, but she couldn't tell where the problem was.

She just thinks that Chucky's attitude towards her is getting colder and less concerned every day.

At home before, Li Cheng even tripped over her desk, and Qi Qi was very upset. But some time ago, when she was taking a bath, she fell in the bathroom, but Qi Qi was indifferent and didn't feel bad at all. She also blamed Li Cheng for his carelessness.

In the past, when Chucky was free on weekends, he would accompany Li Cheng out for a walk, or climb a mountain to swim, or drive to the next city for a walk. In short, it was a very sweet and fulfilling time.

But now, Li Cheng often doesn't see Chaqi for two or three days. He doesn't even have a phone, let alone the company on weekends.

The fact is obvious, isn't it? Qi Qi has begun to dislike Li Cheng. Although he didn't say "you are disgusting", all his actions told Li Cheng that he didn't love and wanted to leave.

Women should understand that the first sign of a man's change of heart is that he will start to dislike you. When he likes you, everything you do is right, and when he doesn't love you, everything you do is wrong.

However, men are very smart. If they don't like you, they won't just say "you are annoying" to express their fickle feelings, but they will have these performances:

Unwilling to communicate with you

A man begins to dislike you, not only superficially, but also from the heart.

He doesn't want to talk to you, don't want to contact you, or even talk to you. This means that he actively cut off communication with you and drew a line between you and him. You are here and he is there.

Men who don't like you naturally can't see your good, but only your bad. It's a complete waste of time to talk to people you hate, even the words "you are so annoying" are a waste of breath.

So they are more willing to choose cold violence, no matter how hard you try, they ignore you and refuse to communicate with you.

Always picking on you

The man who loves you thinks everything you do is good, and the man who doesn't love you thinks everything you do is wrong.

When a man doesn't like you, it means that he doesn't love you anymore. Naturally, nothing you do is pleasing to the eye.

He will find fault with you in all aspects, such as your cooking is not delicious, you can't dress up, you can't earn face for him outside, and you are not gentle at all. ...

No matter how well you do, he can tell you your shortcomings, saying too much, and even making you wonder if you are really that bad.

That's what men do. They obviously don't love each other, but they don't want to say it directly, but they refuse you with their actions.

Always compare you with others.

Men who don't like you always like to compare you with others. In his eyes, you are always inferior to others. The advantages that used to be in his eyes have now become his unbearable shortcomings.

People who really love you can't see the existence of others at all. Don't compare yourself with others, that is, you won't even look at others.

On the contrary, if a man doesn't love you and doesn't like you at first, he can't see your existence naturally, but can only see others and say that you are no better than others. If you leave your will, even if you don't say "you are disgusting", you will be vividly portrayed.

Time emotion class:

Woman, when the man with you has clearly expressed his dislike for you, don't pretend not to know.

You have to understand that when men and women get along and men dislike you, it doesn't mean "you are disgusting".

He doesn't love you anymore. What's the point of a man who doesn't love you continuing to get along?

Self-deception is not a man's change of heart, but a man's indifference and indifference

So, you should learn to be free and easy. If a man hates you, leave early and let him know that losing you is his loss, and you can live better without him.